Mom passed

Thank you everyone for your kind wishes and support.  My mother regretfully passed early yesterday morning after 7 days in a drug induced coma.  I tried writting more about the hospital that I will never return to and the hospice I believe hastened her deparature from this world dispite her express wishes; but as I was writting I realized I wasn't making much sense.  I'm just not rested enough yet to write coherently.  Once I am physically and emotionally recovered enough from this past 4 week ordieal I will post more.  All I will say right now because I believe everybody should know this; wheter you are a patient or careprovider is that you know you or your loved one best and if you think the doctors or nurses are not listening and just shoe horning their patient into the mold they think they should be in then you need to say "Stop" and find something you are all comfortable with. Thank you again for all your support and I will try to post as soon as I can.

Comments

  • ConnieSW
    ConnieSW Member Posts: 1,678 Member
    I am so sorry

    I know you did all you could.  It is really too soon to say this but I do hope with time that the bad memories will fade and you will find comfort in the good ones.  Take care and come back soon.

  • seatown
    seatown Member Posts: 261 Member
    thoughts are with you

    I know how much you struggled on behalf of your mom. I trust you have a lifetime of happy memories to soften your pain. There is nothing that compares to the passing of one's mother, and I am so, so sorry. Take care.

  • Alexandra
    Alexandra Member Posts: 1,308
    Please accept my condolences Melissa

    I am very sorry about your beloved mom passing. She went through such an ordeal. May she rest in peace.

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Love,

    Alexandra

  • Glljcawley
    Glljcawley Member Posts: 5
    Mom Passed

    I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. It is always such a tragedy when we have to say goodbye to our loved ones. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you travel this new road, and I pray for God to give you strength and courage as you go forward. 

  • Jue
    Jue Member Posts: 80
    Thinking of you at this very

    Thinking of you at this very difficult time it is heartbreaking losing your mum , you fought so hard to give her the best care and she knew that , my best wishes are with you and your family . Jue

  • NoTimeForCancer
    NoTimeForCancer Member Posts: 3,368 Member
    I am so sorry to hear about

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  There are no words to ease your pain and so I keep will you and your family in my prayers at this difficult time. 

  • poopergirl14052
    poopergirl14052 Member Posts: 1,183 Member

    I am so sorry to hear about

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss.  There are no words to ease your pain and so I keep will you and your family in my prayers at this difficult time. 

    So very sorry

    my thoughts and prayers are with you.  Val

    2014-11-06

  • lovesanimals
    lovesanimals Member Posts: 1,366 Member

    So very sorry

    my thoughts and prayers are with you.  Val

    2014-11-06

    I'm so sorry

    for the loss of your dear mom.  Praying for you and your family during this very difficult time.

    Hugs,

    Kelly

  • Cafewoman53
    Cafewoman53 Member Posts: 735 Member
    Sorry for your loss

    Please take care of yourself now you did everything you could for your Mom.

    Colleen

  • seatown
    seatown Member Posts: 261 Member
    seatown said:

    thoughts are with you

    I know how much you struggled on behalf of your mom. I trust you have a lifetime of happy memories to soften your pain. There is nothing that compares to the passing of one's mother, and I am so, so sorry. Take care.

    Hope you're OK

    Just wanted you to know, again, that I'm thinking of you.