Seeking infomation about Rheumatiod arthritis after non hodgkin's lymphoma

I am in the same situation.  I had hodgkins when I was 38 that was caused (because at birth in 1945 the hospital decided to radiate all the new borns tonsils to prevent tonsilitis in their future years).  My whole life has been a medical enigma.  When the hodgkins was diagosed in 1984, I received 19,000 rads on the whole body.  Then it was called Total Body Irradition (TBI) which in this day and age is referred to as (disease dejure) Traumatic Brain Injury.  Thirty years post raidiaton, I cannot find any medical personnel who believes my story, who knows how to treat my myrid of post radiation ailments and seem to not be concerend at all about the drugs they want to give me and the fact that my  reaction to them may result in horrible cancer problems.  My gift of life came with a heart mumur that grows larger, fibrosis of the lungs, Barretts esophagus, and a T-cell suppressed immune system.  As the years have gone by the medical problems increase.  I now have an anurism in my corated artery, the vertibrae in my back have collaped ( I lost 2" height in 2yrs), my upper body muscles have weakened, I have acguired scroisis and rhumatoid artheritis, and my esphogus is now showing cell dysplasia.  Keep in mind that all of thses diseases are taken care of by a specific specailist.  None of the 7 specialists have attempted to look at the whole picture and if I menton it they seem to get offended.  I don't know where to go from here to find a medical person that will admit that my problems are the reslt of the radiation and that the crap they want to giive me may cause more inujurys then help.  I wish I knew where to go for help.  I am thinking of finding a good veternarian. LOL