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pilarica
pilarica Member Posts: 44 Member

Hi everybody:

I am new to CSN, I was diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer with metastasis to the liver in November 2013. Since then I have been in chemotherapy FOLFOX for 3 months, then only avastin and 5FU and went back to FOLFOX in August., I am getting more side effects this time, they are giving me huge amounts of steroids to prevent me from getting allergic reactions as I did before. The tumors are shrinking :) but still there. I have seen 3 difrent doctors and they all coinside that they do not want to do surgery at this time, the liver has too many very small tumors sooooo chemo is the way to go for now because it is working.

I live in NJ Princeton area. Are there any members close by interested to meet people with similar conditions?

Sending good vibes to all, keep positive!!!

Pilar

 

 

 

Comments

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member
    I don't live anywhere near

    I don't live anywhere near you but I wish you the best. Steroids are hard on you as well, that's too bad you have to take them.

    Darn, I just realized that I told someone I was on the wrong chemo. I guess that's chemo brain...

  • Easyflip
    Easyflip Member Posts: 588 Member
    Hi Pilar

    It's sad we have to meet here but welcome to the board. I'm stage 4 also and just had my liver met resected. Folfox is harsh but it's great news it's working on your tumors, I did it for 6 months. Stay the course and shrink those nasty tumors to nothing. Good luck! BTW I'm in California 

    Easyflip/Richard

  • maglets
    maglets Member Posts: 2,576 Member
    Easyflip said:

    Hi Pilar

    It's sad we have to meet here but welcome to the board. I'm stage 4 also and just had my liver met resected. Folfox is harsh but it's great news it's working on your tumors, I did it for 6 months. Stay the course and shrink those nasty tumors to nothing. Good luck! BTW I'm in California 

    Easyflip/Richard

    Hi Pilar

    Welcome to the board Pilar: I too am stage IV with mets to the liver.  I also have done oxyalyplatin and it is a beast of a drug.  I have had my liver resected twice and have been NED (no evidence of disease) for 5 years so keep going girl and as Richard says...." shrink those nasty tumors to nothing"  I am up in Canada where we are expecting some snow flurries tonight!!!Cry Stay in touch now you have found us........

    maggie

  • janderson1964
    janderson1964 Member Posts: 2,215 Member
    Welcome to the forum. I am

    Welcome to the forum. I am glad that you found us. I have been stage IV for 9 years now and still going strong. I grew up in Morristown NJ. Not to far from you but I live in Virginia now.

  • Greenwald family
    Greenwald family Member Posts: 1

    Welcome to the forum. I am

    Welcome to the forum. I am glad that you found us. I have been stage IV for 9 years now and still going strong. I grew up in Morristown NJ. Not to far from you but I live in Virginia now.

    New member my husband was just diagnosed with stage 4 colon

    This website is all new to me but I am here mainly for support.  My husband 48 years old was just diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer.  The Oncologist was very dismal and not hopeful when telling us this.  He just had a liver biopsy because there was one lesion on the liver and we are awaiting the results to get the official stage of his cancer.  The Oncologist said he thinks it has spread to the stomach wall and there is no cure.  operations are not an option so he will be starting chemo.  The doctor has ripped hope away from us with his in humane attitude and coldness.  Nurses have tried to give us back hope that not all doctors are right, they are not God.  I'm just really scared and angry towards the doctor for contributing to my husband's lack of hope.  How are we supposed to fight for life when the medical community is giving up on us already? Any words of wisdom or support are welcomed.  Thank you. 

  • JanJan63
    JanJan63 Member Posts: 2,478 Member

    New member my husband was just diagnosed with stage 4 colon

    This website is all new to me but I am here mainly for support.  My husband 48 years old was just diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer.  The Oncologist was very dismal and not hopeful when telling us this.  He just had a liver biopsy because there was one lesion on the liver and we are awaiting the results to get the official stage of his cancer.  The Oncologist said he thinks it has spread to the stomach wall and there is no cure.  operations are not an option so he will be starting chemo.  The doctor has ripped hope away from us with his in humane attitude and coldness.  Nurses have tried to give us back hope that not all doctors are right, they are not God.  I'm just really scared and angry towards the doctor for contributing to my husband's lack of hope.  How are we supposed to fight for life when the medical community is giving up on us already? Any words of wisdom or support are welcomed.  Thank you. 

    Greenwald family

    I'm so sorry that it was presented to you in such a way. There's no way for him to know anything for sure. My brother is being treated for cancer of the esophagus right now and it's an aggressive cancer and he's not a good candidate for surgery yet he's being treated with hope and determination by his team. I've read some of the stories on this forum and there are plenty of people who have options despite a not very good diagnosis. It's different for everyone, remember that. There is no way to tell if it will go well or what will happen.  

    I have a chemo oncologist that's nice but very bland about my prospects. I find it annoying as I want anyone who is helping me to live to be tougher about it, not meek. I had to get past that and get on with treatment and give myself hope despite her being that way but it sure would have helped my confidence if she acted confident. But to hell with her, I'm planning to beat it anyway. The truth is that she downloads my stats into a computer program and it tells her what to advise for me so her opinion really means nothing. My surgeon is the one that I rely on for strength.

    I hope your husband's doctor is just like that with everyone and it's not indicative of anything. I don't think some of the professionals realize the importance of how things are presented to the patient. Best of luck, you've come to the right place. I only recently found this forum and have been battling my cancer for nine months. I sure wish I'd have founf it sooner, everyone is welcoming and wonderful.

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member

    New member my husband was just diagnosed with stage 4 colon

    This website is all new to me but I am here mainly for support.  My husband 48 years old was just diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer.  The Oncologist was very dismal and not hopeful when telling us this.  He just had a liver biopsy because there was one lesion on the liver and we are awaiting the results to get the official stage of his cancer.  The Oncologist said he thinks it has spread to the stomach wall and there is no cure.  operations are not an option so he will be starting chemo.  The doctor has ripped hope away from us with his in humane attitude and coldness.  Nurses have tried to give us back hope that not all doctors are right, they are not God.  I'm just really scared and angry towards the doctor for contributing to my husband's lack of hope.  How are we supposed to fight for life when the medical community is giving up on us already? Any words of wisdom or support are welcomed.  Thank you. 

    New thread

    Greenwald Family, please open a new thread so that we can offer our support and help.  Don't dispare, there are things you can do, people you can see. Hoping to see your own thread soon.  

    PSUE - Trubrit

  • Trubrit
    Trubrit Member Posts: 5,796 Member
    Welcome

    many welcomes to our little home away from home. 

    I can't type much, because I'm using my iPad while traveling, but know that I am thinking of you and wishing you the best. 

    Sue - Trubrit

  • tanstaafl
    tanstaafl Member Posts: 1,313 Member
    beyond average

    Here, many are big believers in getting to successful resection, by hook or by crook. You might research several routes of potential improvement.  

    Dr Kemeny at MSK has unusual success in getting liver met patients to resectability using Hepatic Arterial Infusion, HAI, as well as systemic treatment.    Some people have had success with long term systemic  treatments of oral chemo like xeloda plus cimetidine, celebrex and/or PSK, as well as other alternatve adjuncts like curcumin, EGCG, milk thistle, lipoic acid to name a few adjuncts described in Life Extension protocols.  

    If you research here and at Colon Club you can find many survivors who improved greatly by going beyond today's standard treatments and monitoring.  We also often compare biomarker measures and pre-, post surgical changes like CEA, CA19-9 and LDH

  • Annabelle41415
    Annabelle41415 Member Posts: 6,742 Member
    Welcome

    Sorry you had to find us but welcome to the board.  I'm sorry that your side effects are worse but glad that the treatments are working.  Please let us know how you are continuing to do.  Let your doctor know about the side effects as they might be able to reduce the amounts with it still give you the benefit of the treatment.

    Kim

  • Yolllmbs
    Yolllmbs Member Posts: 360 Member
    Welcome

    to the online community,  There are so many people here who have experiences with stage IV and doctors from all over the place.  I am very happy with my team but I'm in Southern California.  Good luck on the journey, we will all be here to help and support you.

    Yolanda

  • hippiechicks
    hippiechicks Member Posts: 509 Member
    Hi there .. and welcome.

    Hi there .. and welcome.  Glad to see you have found your way to the board.  I am certain you will find lots of great information and wonderful people to share your experiences with here.  It is a wonderful place to communicate with people who really understand and can help with this new life we have been dished. 

    I am glad to read you have seen several doctors.  Getting more than one opinion (hopefully not from the same medical group) is very important when faced with such challenges.  I have seen here and other forums people go from not resectable to resectable after successful tx, and you say things are working thus far ... so, you show um' how it's done in Jersey! If you are from Jersey .. I suspect you are not overly passive and have some hidden strength in there!  :) 

    My very best to you as you go forward.  

  • herdizziness
    herdizziness Member Posts: 3,624 Member
    Sorry I'm late on the Welcome Wagon

    Hi there, just wanted to say hello and welcome to this wonderful group.

    Chemo has worked great for my liver tumors I'm sure it will for yours and that surgery will be in the future.

    I don't live in NJ, California here, but I'm hoping you do get to meet members here, I have and it's great to sit down and talk with those who experiences can be shared and laughter can be found.

    Pleased to "meet" you, 

    Winter Marie

  • Semira
    Semira Member Posts: 381 Member
    Welcome...

    ... on board! Glad you found us! Here you will find much wisdom and support and a lot of wonderful people - not only from the US.

    All the best from the "german branch" this great board.

    Petra
    (Cologne, Germany)

  • pilarica
    pilarica Member Posts: 44 Member
    Semira said:

    Welcome...

    ... on board! Glad you found us! Here you will find much wisdom and support and a lot of wonderful people - not only from the US.

    All the best from the "german branch" this great board.

    Petra
    (Cologne, Germany)

    Thanks for all the kind

    Thanks for all the kind words!! I am glad I found you all, it is very helpful to read your posts.

    I have treatment today and like most of you I get restless/nervous/exited to think that the tumors will be scared of FOLFOX  Smile !!! and of course dread the side effects.

    Off I go, enjoy the weekend!!!

    Pilar

  • ron50
    ron50 Member Posts: 1,723 Member
    pilarica said:

    Thanks for all the kind

    Thanks for all the kind words!! I am glad I found you all, it is very helpful to read your posts.

    I have treatment today and like most of you I get restless/nervous/exited to think that the tumors will be scared of FOLFOX  Smile !!! and of course dread the side effects.

    Off I go, enjoy the weekend!!!

    Pilar

    Hi and welcome

    As you can see we are from all over. I live on the east coast of Australia ,just north of Brisbane. I was dxed in Jan 1998 with stage 3c colon cancer into six nodes. Had surgery and a year of chemo. No sigs of cancer since. The coming jan will be no sixteen . All the best with your treatment ,enjoy the weekend. Ron.

  • Akroger
    Akroger Member Posts: 88
    Hi Pilar, welcome to the

    Hi Pilar, welcome to the forum, I hope that you will find this community as supportive and informative as I have. I joined back in early spring of 2013, after my mom was diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer, with metastases to the liver and the lungs. She's had a fairly rough time of it, getting a colostomy last year and switching between folfox, folfiri, and now erbitux, with avastin for good measure at different points. My mom had a similar situation to you, in that her doctors decided her tumor was inoperable, so she hasn't gotten any surgery, although she did had radiation right in the beginning, and again more recently when there was new activity in her main tumor region. For the most part she's been relying solely on chemo to keep the situation under control. She hasn't had allergic reactions per se, though she had some very nasty side effects from the irinotecan in her folfiri, and she still has to take medication now to deal with her mouth and throat sores. 

    We're in Brooklyn, New York, which is a bit of a hike from where you are, but if you're ever in the area, I'd certainly be happy to meet, and hopefully my mom would be feeling well enough for an outing too (my mom's strength varies from day to day, it didn't help that her health wasn't great even prior to her diagnosis). What hospital are you going to? I wish you the very best with your continued treatment.