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wolfen
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In the wee hours of the morning, an unexpected storm raged through and as it moved on, took the storm raging within my child's body. Hers was not an easy death, but she is free now.

There is so much to say to each of you, but words will not come now. For the moment, just know that we love you.

Love,

Karen(Wolfen)

jen2012
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Oh Karen, I don't know what to say.  Sending hugs and love.  She was a special lady, just like her mom.

fedester
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for your loss karen

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Lovekitties
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That your dear girl's spirit is now free to soar is a blessing and a loss.

I know it has been a difficult journey for you all.

May you and the very many who love her find peace that she is released from her earthly trials, and may the good memories help to dry your tears.

Love and hugs,

Marie who loves kitties

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Semira
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there are no words to comfort you in this hard time. So I just send a silent hug.

Petra

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Momof2plusteentwins
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So sorry for all of your pain.  We are all thinking of you and your whole family.  May you find comfort in all of your family.

Sandy

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Helen321
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Hi Karen, There's a special bond between a mom and a child.  She was so very lucky to have you coming into the world and going on.  I know that is very hard from a mother's point of view, but from a daughter's point of view, it's absolutely everything.   She knew she was loved.  I hope in the next few months you are able to have some happy days among all of the sadness.  I only wish we could give you the same support that you have given all of us.  My prayers this morning are offered up for the families of those on this forum who are faced with the hardest job ever, to go on living.  Love, Helen

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Nana b
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This has touched my soul, as did JBG's kindness and friendship.  I am so sorry she had to go through so much pain.    My condolences to you and your family. 

ketziah35
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I did not want to see this information, but I am glad thay jbg suffers no more. Peace to her and you and your family.

 

love ktz

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traci43
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Karen - I am full of saddness hearing about your daughter.  She fought valiently with you, her family and friends, and us by her side.  She was lucky to have such as strong and caring mom.  I hope that time will bring you peace and you will start to remember all the really good times you shared.  My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.  Traci

Cathleen Mary
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Oh, Karen, I am so very sorry. This has been a very difficult year for your family. Everyone should be blessed with a 'Karen' in their lives. JBG was an amazing woman born of an amazing Mom. I hope that you catch a glimpse of JBG's freedom and find solace. 

My heart is sad with you.

hugs,

CM

UncleBuddy
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But I am also happy that JBG is free of pain and torment. I have been praying for her and your family. I know this is a very hard time for you and your family, know we are here if you need to talk, vent, scream, cry, etc. She was a very kind woman who was always supportive of others. She will be missed. Lots of hugs being sent your way!

Lin

Ladylacy
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So sorry to hear about your daughter.  You and your family have been thru so much in the last year.  Know that she is at peace now and out of pain. 

Wishing you and your family peace and comfort -- Sharon

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LivinginNH
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Dear Karen,

I pray for JGB's eternal peace, free of her pain and suffering in this world.  She was a lovely lady, always here to help those in need with love and support.  She will be truly missed by all who knew her.  May you also find some peace in the days ahead.  I am so truly sorry for the loss of your dear daughter.

With sympathy,

Cynthia

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Nana b
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Karin the PM I received from JBG when my Mom passed, JBG was always so thoughtful.    I'm praying now for you.  I know she is at peace.  Praying for strength, and guidance to get you through this difficult time. 

 

Participants: johnnybegood and Nana b

12/13/2013 - 5:54pm
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sorry to hear about your mother just wanted to send you a pm about it.try to remember the special times i know the holidays are going to be hard.just thinking of you and praying you will get thru this hard time....Johnnybegood(Debra)

 

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KathiM
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I am putting my arms around you....all of you!!!

 

Hugs, kathi

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Yolllmbs
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I know words are not enough at times like this. I havent been on the board long enough to get really acquainted. Through the board our hearts and prayers enter twine to form a blanket of love.  I am praying that you find solace in the knowledge that she was loved till the very end. Now it's time to take care of you. 

Yolanda

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marbleotis
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My heart breaks for you and your beloved daughter (JBG).  She sent me many an inspiring post - always positive and full of love.

May she rest in peace, and finally free without this terrible illness that she fought so bravely against.

I send all my love and deepest sympathy

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Trubrit
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May she ride free in the land that never dies. 

And God bless you, Karen. May you find comfort in the days and years ahead. 

My heart is weeping for your loss, and ours. 

SUE/TRU

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Sonia32
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Sigh...I have been so scared for you, thinking of you and Jbg. 

All I can say is I hate cancer so much, takes the best people :((((

You have lost so much, but know we are here for you.

Even me, although I am In the UK but I always remember how good you were to me, as was JBG.

 

Sigh, hugs you tightly.

 

Luv2lunch
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Dear Miss Wolfen,

Mom and I were so saddened to read this. I don't think I have words to say right now. Your daughter had such strength and courage and was so helpful to so many of us here. I know she had a strong faith and I'm praying the angels are taking care of her now. No more cancer. Please take care of yourself. Mom and I are praying for you and your family also.

Love,

Linda and Miss Ellie

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Kathleen808
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Karen,

She is free.   You are a beautiful mom and right there with her.  Your love was so complete and meant so much to jbg.  I will continue to pray for you and all your family.  I know you will miss your courageous, kind, joyful daughter.  I weep for you and pray that peace will come.

Aloha,

Kathleen

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geotina
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My heart aches for you right now.  First losing your husband and now your daughter.   I am so very sorry for the heartache you are experiencing. 

Love and Hugs - Tina

TheLadySkye
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I am deeply sorry to hear this news.  Much love, prayers, and super tight hugs to you and your family.  

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Akroger
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Perhaps the only thing in life harder than watching someone we love more than life itself suffer is to watch them depart from life, even as they depart from the suffering too. My heart breaks for you Karen, as it does for all of us here, "the suvivors." It is a bitter survival; I hope it will bring you comfort to know that your daughter suffers no more, that she truly is free, and that you will long be able to cherish her memory and honor her life through your own.

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Lisa2012
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Karen,

Please know that you remain in my thoughts/prayers.  JBG will be missed

lisa

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fatbob2010
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Karen,

What else is there to say...

JBG is free of her tortured body.

Leaving you and other family/friends to heal from the loss.

Peace and ((HUGS)) of healing and comfort.

Art

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Annabelle41415
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Her and myself started this journey pretty much together and I'm sad to see her leave but know that she has gone home to be with her Father.  She was such a wonderful inspiration on this board and glad that she is no longer suffering.  May you, Karen, find peace in knowing that your daughter is where she wants to be and not a life of struggling.  You have been through two deaths so closely together so this has to be especially hard on you.  May God's grace and strength be with you and may God bring Debra to His Loving hands and gently guide her to Heaven.  She will be missed terribly, but ultimately she is in a much better place.

Hugs and Love, Kim

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Phil64
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So sorry for your loss. Love to you  and JBG.

Phil

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thxmiker
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We are sorry for your loss.  We are also glad she is finally out of pain.   You two have been inspiring and given me and many other a lot of positive memories.

 

Best Always,  mike

 

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merrysmom
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You  have been in my prayers and I am so sorry for both of your losses. My heart is broken for you. I will continue lifting you up in prayer. You are a strong person and know that everyone here on this site loves you. Take care of yourself,

God bless you and the rest of your family, barb

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ron50
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  So much suffering. Iam so sorry.Ron.

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angelsbaby
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she is free and has her wings so she can always be close to her loved ones. i belave thats about my husband angel too

 

michelle

 

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maglets
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oh I am so so very sorry.   Your dear sweet girl after such a long fight......sending love

mags

LindaK.
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Karen, when I first joined this site (as a caretaker to my husband) you were also caring for your husband.  I followed your heartbreak then and now again.  Life is not fair, you should not have to suffer through two huge losses like you have.  Thank you for sharing so many experiences with both your husband and daughter.  You have many people here who admire you, including me.  I am so sorry your daughter is gone.  I have no words of comfort other than I am sorry.

Linda

danker
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My Condolences!  She is now pain-free in a better place. 

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Trapbear
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Wolfen,

So sorry to hear this sad news.  You and your family are in my thoughts.  I am now caring for my husband in hospice care.  I know how hard it is to watch someone you love suffer.  

Gentle hugs,

Bill

 

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PhillieG
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I'm sorry for your loss

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herdizziness
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oh Karen, my heart has so much sorrow for you, I cannot imagine your pain, your wonderful daughter is free of the pain.  I send you my love and a virtual arm around your shoulder.

Winter Marie

 

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Joy1216
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I'm so sorry for your loss.  I know that JBG is free from pain in the arms of The Lord.

Joy

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janderson1964
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I am so truly sorry for you loss Karen.

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lesvanb
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JBG and I connected via our horses and I continue to think of her fondly with her equine partners next to her. May you be comforted in your losses and may love and light surround you. Thank you for letting us know of JBG's passing.

 

Love, Leslie

aggie0053
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Joined: Mar 2011

i'm so sorry for your loss

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Brenda Bricco
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This post took my breath away... I am so sorry for your loss, Wolfen. I hate that she is gone but I am thankful she can rest now. God bless you.

CammieS
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Joined: May 2014

I'm thankful that the storm has passed and that your daughter is no longer in pain. I wish you love and healing during this heartbreaking time.

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