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Please post some supportive words for Wolfen's daughter JBG!

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annalexandria
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As many of you know, Wolfen is with her daughter Johnnybgood.  JBG is not doing very well.  Any words of support and love that you might want to pass on to her will be read to her by Wolfen, and would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance, AA

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janderson1964
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It breaks my heart to hear you are not doing well. You are such an inspiration to me with your will to fight and a great example of how i can improve as a person.

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Lisa2012
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Wolfen,

Being a caregiver is certainly a tough job.  Sending positive thoughts your way.  I wish you strength and for JBG I wish pain free rest. JBG you are a strong woman and you have been an inspiration to many on this board.

Lisa 

Cathleen Mary
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JBG, I am sorry that you are having such a hard time right now. Please know that you are in my heart and prayer.  I am glad that you Mom is by your side during this time. She so wanted to visit with you. You are an amazing presence on this board and the nudge many of us need to put one foot in front of the other.

Prayers for,peace, strength, and hope.

hugs,

CM

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How I miss seeing your avatar, JBG, with the beautiful horse and the even more beautiful you. I am heart saddened to hear that you are not doing well. I am so glad that your mother can be with you at this time. 

You are loved and respected and very much missed here on the forum. You have been a joy and an inspiration to so many. 

God bless you JGB. And God bless you Wolfen. 

Cyber love and hugs. 

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I send love and good thoughts to you both.

JBG you are very loved and supported by this virtual family.  I have missed your posts.

Please try to get better.

Wolfen - please let your daughter know we are all thinking about her and sending love, hugs, prayers and good thoughts her way.

Hugs,

marbleotis 

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JBG I'm praying for you for strength, and to let you know that you are always being though of.  May your faith in God carry you through.  You have always been such an inspiration on this board with your positive posts and attitude.  You are missed very much.  Always remember the avatar with you and your husband (it looks like) on your front porch.  Hugs to you.

Kim

UncleBuddy
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I always look for your words of wisdom on this board. Your kindness always shines through. I am thinking of you and your family and hope you are cherishing time with your mom. God bless you.

Lin

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Yolllmbs
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For the entire family. I know it's a tough time but respect and prayers for being with family. I hope you find peace and strength. 

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thingy45
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I have not been on the board much the last few month, personal problems, my own daughter still very ill and I have moved.

JBG you and your mom always give all of us love and strength, please be assured that we are sending you the same, so sorry to hear you are in so much pain.

I am glad to hear  you Mom Wolfen is with you. I am sending for the both of you love, prayers and positive thoughts.

Many hugs, Marjan

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your mom has told me how beautiful it is where you live, and I hope you are getting some chances to go outside and feel the breeze on your face.

We are all thinking of you.

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I was not familiar with JohnnyBgood or Wolfen's stories so I did some searching, and all the posts I found left me overwhelmed. You have both been through so much in the past few years, you have my deepest compassion and sincerest wishes for wellness, that this latest storm will pass and that better days will arrive soon. I will be keeping you both in my thoughts and hoping to hear good news.

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Dear JBG,

I am so glad that your Mom is by your side to help ease your pain.  You are both such strong and lovely ladies, who have always been here to encourage and support others in times of need.  You were two of the first who reached out to Rick and I when we were scared beyound belief, and helped us through some very difficult times along the way.  I will always hold you both in my heart.

Love,

Cynthia

TheLadySkye
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JBG, You were among the first people I met here, quick to offer love and support and information and most of all, HOPE.  I will never forget what you and our family here did for me during those really dark and scary times.  I hope you know what a difference you make, the lives you touch, and the appreciation and love that flow back to you.  You are very much in my thoughts and prayers.

*tight hugs*

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Thank you for all the hope that you have given to others and it is sad that you are having these dificulties.  Please accept my wishes for your improved strength and comfort.  You have helped so many now let them help you with prayers and BIG cyber ((HUGS)).

Prayers of peace and healing,

Art

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Two very sweet and special ladies. 

May the compassion and support you have given others, be returned 10,000 fold during this difficult time.

May the pain be eased, and every hour of every day be ones where you can share peace in that beautiful horse country.

My thoughts and prayers are with you both and all the rest of the family.

Hugs and love,

Marie who loves kitties

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It is late & this will be short, but just wanted to thank each of you for your caring thoughts & compassion.

At this point, JBG has taken a severe turn for the worst. It is up & down as she has few lucid moments & was almost unresponsive when hospice came today. The hospice nurse surmised that she may have only 24 to 48 hours remaining. All her family is here at the house or very nearby. My son is flying in tomorrow. She may rally as none of us can predict the future & we all pray for that last minute miracle.

We had planned family birthday/barbecue for her 50th birthday tomorrow. It has been decided to continue with those plans in the hope she may still understand how very much we love her.

Luv,

Wolfen

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Peace be with you both.

UncleBuddy
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I know this must be painful for a parent to watch. My heart goes out to you and your family. She is one strong lady, so I wouldn't count out a miracle.

I will be thinking of you and your family tomorrow. <<<HUGS>>>

Lin

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JBG and Wolfen - you are in my thoughts a lot during this difficult time. JBG I hope that you are comfortable and without pain. It is so wonderful to be with your mom and family.  Wolfen I wish you strength and peace of mind as a caregiver.

peace very with you both

hug

Karin

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Trubrit
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I have absolutely NO DOUBT in my mind that your darling daughter KNOWS just how much you all love her.  She may be 'out of it' but I know that deep inside, her spirit knows you are there for her, feels your love and care. The last time I saw my mum alive, she was in a vegetative state. I looked into her eyes and our spirits touched. I know this happens, and I know JBG's spirit is in touch with yours, in touch with all of you who love her so. 

God bless her! God bless you and those who love her. God bless!

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I am sending sooo much love your way.  I glad that your family is all gathered to spread the love all around you!!

Today I and everyone celebrate you and your life and the love you bring just by being you.

Love you JBG.

Winter Marie

jen2012
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So sorry to hear this Wolfen. You are both just caring and wonderful ladies. Jbg has been such an inspiration on this board and it has always amazed me at how strong she is (wonder where she gets that from) and how much faith she has. I hope she, and you all, are taking comfort in her great faith. Wishing her a wonderful 50th with her loved ones, and special birthday wishes from her friends here.  I continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.   Love and peace, Jen

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Wolfen,

I don't post very often, but I follow your and JBG's posts and both of your warm and caring wisdom have been such a support to me over the last 1-2 years.  I'm saddened by this turn of events but wanted to let you know that I have you, your family, and JBG in my thoughts and prayers daily.

J

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and Wolfen,

thinking of you both and wish I had the words to express my feelings.

so just a silent hug

Petra

ketziah35
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We are keeping you all in prayer. May this part of the journey be filled with peace, family and friends.

 

luv

ktz

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 Your Jbg Is such a strong and amazing woman and she gets that from you. Sending prayers and love over to you both

Luv2lunch
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Mom and I send our thoughts and prayers for you both and your family. Please take care.

Linda and Miss Ellie

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Beautiful Ladies,

I am holding both of you in the light right now.  JBG you are so very loved and your mom and family are right there with you.  We are with you too remembering everything you have given to all of us.  Wolfen, praying for you as you care for your precious daughter.

All my love reaching to you.

 

Aloha,

Kathleen

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My prayers for your daughter ! 

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Big virtual hugs to JBG and Wolfen on this special day.

Thank you both for sharing your journey and thoughts with us.

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Praying for peace and strength for your family. 

 

Yolanda

Cathleen Mary
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Hugs, prayers, and wishes for strength and peace to two 'wisewomen'. I am so glad that you are both surrounded by those you love. What a wonderful decision to continue with the birthday celebration so JBG knows once again how deeply she is loved. Amazing.  Know that you are both held by all of us here who have benefited so greatly by your presence on this forum. We are with you in spirit.

hugs,

CM

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To you both....

 

If there is ANYTHING I can do (I have LOTS of airmiles!!!)  PLEASE let me!!!

 

Hugs, Kathi

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All my love to you and JBG.  Your a phenomenol mom, I'm sure she felt the love on her 50th.

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I wish I was there to wrap my arms around you Wolfen during these most difficult days and hours.  Please tell JBG she is loved and thought of by so many people she has never met in person.  I wish her peace, comfort  and love during this transition time.

Hugs - Tina

relaxoutdoors08
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You and JBG were there for me in 2010-2011. Please know you both are in my prayers . Please celebrate a wonderful life of family love and support.

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Way too sad.  Thinking of you each and every day, my friend.  We will meet one day....

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You are both in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.  I wish JBG a wonderful 50th birthday surrounded by family and friends.  Peace be with you both.  Traci

ketziah35
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Wolfen,

just wanted to let to let you know that we are thinking of you all.

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thxmiker
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You two are in our thoughts and prayers constantly.   We really appreciate all of the positive posts and kind words from both of you.  You kept me encouraged through some difficult times.  Stay positive, and keep up the good fight!  Know that your compassion and kind words have helped many.

 

Best Always,  mike

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Wolfen and jbg,

Continued love and prayers are still being given to you. 

With love and aloha,

Kathleen

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You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Thank you JBG and Wolfen for being a part of this board. You have truly helped me along the way. And I hope that all the Love and Prayers being sent your way will be felt today, tomorrow, and into the future.

Love and Light from your friend on CSN.

Sincerely,

Philip

 

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I just wanted to say that you and JBG and all of your family are in my prayers. You have both made a giant impression and have been giant blessings to me. Please take care, barb

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My precious girl is still in the fight, but her strength is failing. We did receive the hoped for, but brief miracle that enabled her to enjoy a tiny bit of her birthday celebration. Sunday thru Tuesday were not good days. Her pain meds were increased & she was put on continous oxygen. She again had a 24 hr, prognosis. She had trouble breathing & oxygen machine is now at max. She is no longer removed from her favorite chair as it is too painful & she refuses a hospital bed. As she remains a litle bit coherent, she refuses an increase in her continuous med dosage as I know she fears she will not awaken which is likely the case. Someone must remain awake with her 24/7 to administer the bolus dose every 20 min. Her husband, his mother & I share this responsibility. She consumes only jello, water, & gatorade by the half teaspoonful as that is all she can swallow.

As we old timers know, we are not stamped with an expiration date, so a prognosis means nothing. We simply go from hour to hour. I hope this is not TMI, but thought you all would want to know. I have told her that all of you are sending love & prayers.

She is very frightened as anyone would be, & I am once again helpless & in awe of her strength & determination.

Luv,

Wolfen

UncleBuddy
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<<HUGS>> to all of you. I can't imagine how difficult this is on you, as a mom. Please send her our love. I keep praying for a miracle!

Lin

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I am amazed at her strength, and also yours! 

 

I am wrapping my arms around all of you!

 

Hugs, Kathi

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I know how difficult this is for you all.  No, it was not TMI.  We appreciate your taking the time to share with us how our dear JBG is doing.

I know from her writing here that she has a spiritual faith.  Has anyone from that area of her life come to talk with her?  It might help her with her fears.

Having been thru this so recently with your dear husband, I know this is doublly hard on you.  I wish there were something we could say or do to help you all.

My prayers right now are that JBG will have peace of heart and mind instead of the fear, and that your tender care of her brings her comfort.

My most sincere love to you all.

Marie who loves kitties

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Wolfen,

At a time like this words cannot express enough our thoughts and feelings.  Just know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless,

J

gravelroad
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These last few days I have been thinking of JBG, I know this is such a dreadful sickness that many on this board face and knowing that we all at some point die of many causes even old age, if we are lucky enough to get to grow old that is. Even still many grow old and alone , not all do , but many.YOU HAVE SO MANY PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU AND THAT IS A BLESSING! I have read so many post on how JBG has touched so many people and gave them courage to continue on despite their  on personal fear is just so amazing to me. No doubt she has been in many prayers , I know she has mine. I hope you fine rest and peace, JBG . Asking God to wrap his arms around you and carry you home little one!!! GOD BLESS

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JBG is an amazing woman and I can see who she gets it from.  Thank you for sharing those difficult details.  You both stay on my mind all day.  I send you love and pray for peace.

Aloha,

Kathleen

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