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jim and i
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To day we celebrate 30 years of marriage! Because of our age difference Jim had asked me, at the beginning of our marriage,  if I realized he may not make it to 30 years. I said, sure we will. I am thankful for these 30 years with the love of my life.

This past week Jim improved so much he started planning fishing trips. Unfortunately, yesterday he started to go down again and today he has slept all day. He is getting confused again and needing pain meds more often. So far the pain is being controlled by the hydrocodone.

Please pray his passing is painless and peaceful when the time comes. I don't think I could bear to see him suffer.

Blessings, Debbie

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Skiffin16
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Debbie, you are both in my prayers...

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CivilMatt
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Debbie,

Congratulations on 30 years!

Thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Matt

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phrannie51
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Will be keeping you close to my heart.....sending prayers.

p

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wmc
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Congratulations on your 30 years and may you both have so many more years together.

Bill  [38 and counting]

katenorwood
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Debbie and Jim,

Congradulations on your anniversary !   I will keep you both close in my thoughts and prayers as always.  Hugs sent !  Katie 

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lornal
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Congratulations On 30!  Prayers with you and Jim. 

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osmotar
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Congratulations on you 30 years together, prayers and blessings for your continued journey together.

 

Linda 

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j4mie
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Congratulations on 30 years! As always, I am keeping both you and Jim in my prayers.

Jamie

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Grandmax4
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on your 30 year anniversary, in my prayers

 

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debbiejeanne
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debbie and jim, congrats on 30 years!!  not many marriages make it that long these days so i'm very happy for you.  so sorry jim is not doing well.  I will be keeping you both in my prayers.  praying for peace and strength for you both.

God bless you,

dj

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PJ47
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Praying his death will be painless for him and peaceful for you.  Know how much of a comfort you have been and still are to him no matter what happens.  

Peace, 

PJ

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hwt
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Happy Anniversary to you & Jim and prayers for both of you.

 

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denistd
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Happy anniversary and hope that, when the time comes, it is peaceful and painless. Denis

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wolfen
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Debbie,

I know at least part of what you are feeling and my heart is breaking for you. I hope Jim will rebound & have more good days again.

Please don't hesitate to call Hospice for assistance, if even for a small break for yourself. You must take care of YOU, also.

Congratulations on your 30 year milestone together. I shared Ron's life for 40 +.

Luv,

Wolfen

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TracyLynn72
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Happy Anniversary!  Keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers!

cid817
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Peace, love and prayers to you and Jim.

Cindy

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luv4lacrosse
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Prayers from my family to yours.

Mike

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KB56
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debbie, congratulations on that milestone!   I'm sure you have some wonderful memories!

keeping you and Jim in our thoughts and prayers,

Keith

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Hondo
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What a blessing 30 years together, and even better for all who believe eternity with Jesus where we will never get sick or die. I am not sure what type of fishing Jim will do in Heaven just hope I can meet Jim, John and Chef Daddy Mike there. Wow what a blessing just to dream about it and what it will be like.

 

God Bless, praying for you both

Tim Hondo   

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Roar
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congratulations on the big 3  0 

josh r.
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I pray that what time you have left together is peaceful and loving. josh r.

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Ruben and Jude
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Congratulations to you both on 30 years of marriage. What a blessing we have when we're able to spend the greater part of our life here on earth with a soulmate and true love.

Ruben and I say to eachother, 1000 years before, and an eternity more.

God's Blessings.

Jude

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jim and i
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Thank you everyone for the well wishes. I am so thankful for the time we have had together.

Debbie

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Steve5
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That is so great!! - 30 years together AND planning fishing trips - wow that is super - working on 27 here and I do fish!!!!

Keep on going -

Steve

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