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UPDATE: (OT) new granddaughter -almost 2mths old

disneyfan2008
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My oldest, recently  moved out after being with us for 4 1/2 yrs with her 2 young boys. She is having a baby girl (being induced in two days) She wants to be close to me/ us but just can't for what ever issues. She told her sister none of us are  allowed to visit or go see the baby. My grandsons will not understand & I am sure they will ask why mema, papa and aunt carrie are not there. ITS" out of my control-nothing I can do-her actions no longer surprise me or hurt me though it is very sad. I take her boys on 4 vacations a year-took care of them full time while she worked, (homework, all sports, bed time stories etc daily)

 

Thanks for listening (aks READING)

 

So #3 grandchild in 2 more days (brother's b day is the day prior to being induced)

 

Denise

disneyfan2008
Posts: 5396
Joined: Oct 2010

Carol:

Thanks for your words...of kindness..

The baby (Gianna) is now up to 8lb 10 oz to on her way....as far as I know waiting for more weight gain before they can do surgery. She is almost 2 mths now.

I dont' see her often but do see boys every weekend when they sleep over.

Denise

disneyfan2008
Posts: 5396
Joined: Oct 2010

She has gained weight...just waiting for surgery date.

I DONT" see her often-I am very close with the boys but this realationshiop will not be like with them. (therapist said NOT to expect it to be the same closeness and just take what I can have and not be sad) I am taking her advice-just happy for brief visits and snuggles..

Denise

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