May 28, 2013 - 9:40 pm
My mom got diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer a year ago.. Upon getting diagnosed you would think that your family would be a help.. My dads parents live 15 minutes away.. They never came to help.. They acted like it was nothing.. or compared her to dying.. Now here I am a year later, totally fed up. I feel bitter and hurt with their lack of care and lack of thought. How do I try to move on from this.. I feel like I'm holding such a grudge against them, and I just want to let go.. But it hurts so bad. And I know it hurts my dad to know how they were to us.. When your grandmother can look at you and have no feeling or worry as to if I or my sisters could inherit this cancer.. Then basically acting like my mom is a-ok or then dying.. I'm sorry if this sounds roundabout, but it is so stressful, and here I am a year later at my limit.. If anyone has any helpful suggestions, it would be so appreciated. Thanks.