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Miss Mom & Dad a lot

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survivingsu
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I lost my Dad a year before my cancer diagnosis, and my Mom a couple years after my treatment.  I miss them both terribly!  They were so special.

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sharpy102
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I can't say I know how you feel, I'm healthy...but on your parents part...I miss my parents also. But I know they are watching up above and following through my path. I wish you to be strong! Fight! Show your parents that you are strong!

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survivingsu
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Hi Sharpy102,

Thank you for your thoughtful comment.  Yup, I'm strong - so far, so good!

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sharpy102
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Hello there:

 

I'm not checking in here too often, but that doesn't mean I don't care. I am happy to hear that you are strong! You need to be! You cannot let your parents down....it would disappoint them to see you fall apart....that's what I have learned after recovering from a two year long of spiral downhill. It just slapped me in the face one day that my parents must be really sad....and that's when I learned that I am responsible for their happiness....even they are up there. All the best to you!! And will be happy to hear from you when you come around here...

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survivingsu
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Hi Sharpy102,

Thanks for the email, I do not always check-in, but was glad to catch your note.  While I have been through a lot, I am doing fine now.  The docs keep theirs eyes on me, and I pretty much have my life back to normal - I am very lucky about that.

All my best to you, and I appreciate your kind spirit!!!

 

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sharpy102
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Hello there again:

 

So good to hear you are doing good! :) You have to do be doing good! That's how your parents would want to see you! That's why I always tell myself with every smaller/bigger problems in my life that my parents want me to grow up to be a happy person, who graduates from school, or maybe even goes off to college, and who will be happy with a happy family one day. I need to do all these for them. You should also make a big list of what you need to do to show your parents. That will motivate you to never give up any type of fight, no matter what others say! I wish you the best! Really! :)

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