Mar 10, 2013 - 3:57 pm
My dad was suppose to have his surgery on Feb 28th but Pet scan came back showing mets in LIver and lungs then was told he would do chemo (EOX) now Dr are saying that won't help so no surgery or Chemo for my dad. I can't believe they would just give up on him like this, I know some here have said qualitly or quanity but he still looks very healthy and gained weitght back because Dr. were able to stretch his throat every week now he feels like he only needs it every couple of weeks. So if other people here do chemo and i know its hard on the body, I have had chemo myself, so why wouldn't they at least give him a few and see how he does on it?? My dad's wife said we (me and my brother) are in denial but that's not the case I 'm scared because I know what the outcome might be, just wish they could do more. Plus just losing my dear sister I worry he might now fight anymore. Should I mention seeing another onco to my dad?