Mar 06, 2013 - 2:32 pm
I've been reading some of your stories, and first wanted to say how wonderful it is you are all supportive and kind to each other on here. You truely are inspirational, strong people, whether it's you personally that suffer from cancer or someone you know and love. I really do appreciate it so much.
The love of my life, told me he'd gone to the ER a few days ago..for what he thought was a heart attack. They ran some tests. He had some pain in his chest I guess and has been feeling pretty tired. We don't live together right now. I"m scared. He a pretty certain it is lung cancer. He is just over 40, and smokes. He does work out, and does try to eat good for the most part.
I know it could be anything. It hurts and scares me to no end. He's a strong person (he very much is). That he doesn't know for sure. I'm closer to him that anyone else I've ever met, he's my best freind, I love him, and now I'm a afraid I'm going to loose him. I saw him recently, and he seemed like his normal self. Nothing out of the ordinary. That same with our conversations, til a few days ago. How do I be supportive for him? Could it be possible this isn't cancer and just something else? I know that it can be human nature to automatically think "the worst" and I don't want. I just don't know what to do.