Some may remember my previous post about having to cancel my 3 month bloodwork/onc appointment in Nov.
My husband was leaving for a hunting trip and raised all kinds of stink about giving me the money to pay for the appointment. He has been back home for over two Weeks and has not mentioned my canceled appointments.
My parents and sister are sick over this. My mom is asking me to let her and dad pay for my appointment.
I am 47 years old and I make no $. I am a housewife. My husband makes and controls all the $ in our household. My name is not on any bank accounts, I cant sneak the money out of bill money because he handles all of that.
I wont let my mom & dad pay for my Dr. visits. They gave me $250 back in 2010, when I first got sick and my husband has never mentioned paying it back.
I have been filling out applications trying to get work but so far am hearing nothing about them. There are only certain jobs that I feel like I could do because I sometimes lose control of my bowels(no cramping, no warning to get to the restroom). I couldnt be running a cash register or working on an assembly line because there will be times when I may just have to walk away from the job to take care of my personal bathroom issues. Im feeling hopeless. I filled out an app for a part time position to be a dog bather at a local dog detailing business yesterday. I love dogs. They love unconditionally.
I know these posts of mine make my husband out to be a monster and the truth is he is not a monster. Lots of people know him and like him. They think he takes good care of me.
I am going to ask for money for Christmas hoping he will give me enough to at least make my monthly payment to the cancer center where I go and to pay the Dr consultation fee.
I mentioned to him that a lady on this forum was willing to Really dont know what to do..... with him about health insurance and he just looked at me and had absolutely no response.
Really dont know what to do.......