Jun 25, 2012 - 12:40 pm
It has been awhile since I have been on here but really feel this is my soft place to land!! My husband was diagnosed with 3C colon cancer July 2009. After tumor removal( colostomy ) , bowl resection ( illeostomy) , blood clots to the lungs and 9 months of chemo he became NED...He was 39 at the time and had to stop drinking( which he did quite a bit) and tabacco chewing... Well he now for almost a year has decided he has beat it forever! Drinks excessive, chews a can a day and has not been to the dr in almost 9 months!! Won't get his CEA checked, no scans or check ups. I no I am not his Mom( as he says) but I can't help but think this will come back and it will be too late..... I think what angers me the most is watching other friends who still are battling cancer and some not winning even though they are fighting hard!! I feel like the HELL I went through with all of this was for nothing!! His solution , let's just get divorced so I can live and you can stop nagging!! Has anyone gone through this and what did you do?? I am considering divorce because watching him destruct is worse!!! Thanks for letting me vent.....