Jun 03, 2012 - 3:12 pm
To make a long story short, my husband and I have been having some problems. But being an optimist from birth I have been regularly using the large dilator all throughout treatment and until now. Last night, after watching "A Week with Marilyn", we had a breakthrough somehow and it was almost like old times except my vagina. I so wanted to be my old self but it hurt. It burned and stung and it seemed like there was an obstruction, but I can't be sure. My husband says its likely just from the trauma. I know we have had this discussion before but can we have it again? I am a year post tx August 15th. He is a gentle man and this is very hard for him. He never even wanted to deflower anyone. It's obviously hard for me too. Any encouraging news out there? I am happy to have some sexual energy back. I had Absolutely Nothing going on in that department until last week.