Need strength and prayers

HootieGirl
HootieGirl Member Posts: 85
Oh goodness.. I feel like everytime I start to get better, something else happens. I finished radiation treatments last week. I had 5 treatments of standard body radiation to my spine and 3 treatments to my hip. I don't know if anyone has ever had rads to the spine, but the immobilizer/torture device was too much for me. I had to be prescribed xanax because it was so claustrophobic that I would have panic attacks without it. I started taking Xeloda after my last rad treatment, and so far I have felt fine.

Yesterday was scary. My 12 year old that I nanny was home sick with strep, so I was with her all day. We were driving back from grabbing lunch and a dump truck didn't break at a red light and t-boned us in the middle of the intersection. It pushed my car into the car next to me and then I hit a light pole. Thankfully the good Lord was watching over and my 12 year old was okay. The truck hit on the passenger side, but most of the impact was to the back seat. The ambulance took us to the hospital to check us out. She had an x-ray of her shoulder, but nothing was broken. As for me, because the radiation weakened my vertebrae a bit, it fractured because of the impact of the crash. I am in a lot of pain and I will have to have a vertebral-plasty next week. They basically inject cement into the vertebral body to stabalize it because the fracture wont heal on its own. My car is most likely totaled, but I am so grateful that we are both okay. It could have been so much worse. I've been on the phone with insurance companies and rental car companies all morning which is kind of a headache in and of itself.

I woke up today so incredibly sore. I really do feel like I got hit by a truck! Hopefully I will feel better soon, because I turn 21 a week from Monday. I wanted to thank you girls so much for all of the sweet cards that you sent! My boyfriend graduated college this past weekend and I've been working and preparing for my Vegas/Europe trip so I continue to stay busy. Hope you all are doing well. I'll try to post more when I get to feeling better!

Kat
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  • missrenee
    missrenee Member Posts: 2,136 Member
    Oh, Kat--this is just too, too much
    Everything that's going on and now this. First of all, the good Lord was there protecting you and your charge. But I hate that you have to have more surgery as a result and are in such pain.

    I will definitely hold you up in prayer, but we all know--you have the strength of at least 100 women already. My prayer will be that you get through this will flying colors, your pain goes away, and soon you'll be enjoying that 21st birthday celebration and your trip to Vegas/Europe. Also, congratulate your good-looking boyfriend on his college graduation.

    Hang in there, sweetheart. Consider this yet another bump in the road--one that you'll get past with all your strength and courage.

    Love and hugs, Renee
  • weazer
    weazer Member Posts: 440
    missrenee said:

    Oh, Kat--this is just too, too much
    Everything that's going on and now this. First of all, the good Lord was there protecting you and your charge. But I hate that you have to have more surgery as a result and are in such pain.

    I will definitely hold you up in prayer, but we all know--you have the strength of at least 100 women already. My prayer will be that you get through this will flying colors, your pain goes away, and soon you'll be enjoying that 21st birthday celebration and your trip to Vegas/Europe. Also, congratulate your good-looking boyfriend on his college graduation.

    Hang in there, sweetheart. Consider this yet another bump in the road--one that you'll get past with all your strength and courage.

    Love and hugs, Renee

    Wow Kat
    Wow Kat, what the heck? I'm so happy that you and the 12 year old lived through the wreck!
    So Sorry to hear you have to have more surgery, it will take a few days before you are not so sore.
    Enjoy your 21st Birthday, and your trip.
    My prayers are with you always take care Sweet sister, and keep us all updated.
    Lots of Hugs....Karie
  • jamiegww
    jamiegww Member Posts: 384
    So glad you both survived the crash.
    Life has clearly been cruel to you and yet you continue to "roll with the punches". We are definitely praying for better times for you and hope you have a pain-free happy birthday.

    HUGS!!!
    Jamie
  • camul
    camul Member Posts: 2,537
    Cat you really do have a guardian angel
    watching over you. I am so glad that you are both okay, for the most part. You are one tough cookie. I will say prayers that you are feeling up to Vegas in a week. I hope this boyfriend gets to go on this Vegas trip with you.

    I just learned something new. I wondered what they do for a fractured vertebrae. I too had radiation to my hips, pelvic and bum bones. The first time I was face up and when we were setting it up, they were able to arrange it so that my head was out. The second round about 5 months later I was face down and they had it where there was a hole that I could look at the floor so I was spared, but I take Zanex for all scans as I am so claustrophobic.

    You deserve all the cards and so much more.

    As always, you are in my prayers and I think about you so often. Have a great trip and keep us posted. This must be the boyfriend, good looking couple.

    Carol
  • grams2jc
    grams2jc Member Posts: 756
    Enough already!
    I always say I can't catch a break with King Kong's catcher's mit and you my dear are in the same boat.

    So glad you both were not badly hurt and that you can get your back fixed before your birthday and your trips.

    Hope your pain eases soon,

    Jennifer
  • Jean 0609
    Jean 0609 Member Posts: 2,462
    Hey Kat,
    You are amazing! Hope you have a wonderful trip. We all know that you definitely deserve it.

    xoxo,
    Jean
  • epark
    epark Member Posts: 339
    camul said:

    Cat you really do have a guardian angel
    watching over you. I am so glad that you are both okay, for the most part. You are one tough cookie. I will say prayers that you are feeling up to Vegas in a week. I hope this boyfriend gets to go on this Vegas trip with you.

    I just learned something new. I wondered what they do for a fractured vertebrae. I too had radiation to my hips, pelvic and bum bones. The first time I was face up and when we were setting it up, they were able to arrange it so that my head was out. The second round about 5 months later I was face down and they had it where there was a hole that I could look at the floor so I was spared, but I take Zanex for all scans as I am so claustrophobic.

    You deserve all the cards and so much more.

    As always, you are in my prayers and I think about you so often. Have a great trip and keep us posted. This must be the boyfriend, good looking couple.

    Carol

    Wow Kat..that's terrible but
    Wow Kat..that's terrible but Im so glad that you & your 12 yr is doing good.. I will be praying for a speedy recovery so you can enjoy your vegas trip....

    God Bless
    Eva
  • Double Whammy
    Double Whammy Member Posts: 2,832 Member
    Jean 0609 said:

    Hey Kat,
    You are amazing! Hope you have a wonderful trip. We all know that you definitely deserve it.

    xoxo,
    Jean

    Literally hit by a truck!
    What more could happen? You amaze me with your strength, Kat. If it starts to wane, remember to tap into all that's being sent your way from all the kindreds. Hope the pain subsides quickly and you can enjoy your 21st. Congrats to the boyfriend. In spite of all this, you do have a lot to celebrate.

    Hugs,
    Suzanne
  • debi.18
    debi.18 Member Posts: 850 Member
    grams2jc said:

    Enough already!
    I always say I can't catch a break with King Kong's catcher's mit and you my dear are in the same boat.

    So glad you both were not badly hurt and that you can get your back fixed before your birthday and your trips.

    Hope your pain eases soon,

    Jennifer

    Wow!
    Wow...how scary. I agree, you have a guardian angel. I'm so glad that neither one of you were hurt seriously. You've been through so much already, then this accident on top of it.

    Hope you heal soon...Enjoy your trip - can't wait to hear about it.

    As always, you are in my prayers and thoughts!

    Hugs, Debi
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member

    Literally hit by a truck!
    What more could happen? You amaze me with your strength, Kat. If it starts to wane, remember to tap into all that's being sent your way from all the kindreds. Hope the pain subsides quickly and you can enjoy your 21st. Congrats to the boyfriend. In spite of all this, you do have a lot to celebrate.

    Hugs,
    Suzanne

    glad to hear form you sorry
    glad to hear form you sorry it has been so difficult. glad you guys were not more severly injured. Gosh though, you are often in my thoughts,keep on going kat you are amazing.
  • ladyg
    ladyg Member Posts: 1,577
    Kat, I am
    so sorry to hear your latest news. I am glad you and your 12 year old were not seriously injured. Make sure you rest and get yourself ready for your Vegas/Europe trip.

    Hugs,
    Georgia
  • Megan M
    Megan M Member Posts: 3,000
    jamiegww said:

    So glad you both survived the crash.
    Life has clearly been cruel to you and yet you continue to "roll with the punches". We are definitely praying for better times for you and hope you have a pain-free happy birthday.

    HUGS!!!
    Jamie

    So sorry
    I am so sorry about this. I can't believe this even happened. Praise God you are ok and the 12 year old. Praying for you Kat as always.


    Hugs, Megan
  • JuJuBeez
    JuJuBeez Member Posts: 332
    Wow, Kat. You are proof that
    Wow, Kat. You are proof that Guardian Angels exist! I'm sorry you had to go through all this on top of everything else. You just keep getting up! You are amazing! You will hit big in Vegas, I'm sure of it! ;-)

    Best wishes to you and your Cutie Patootie! I hope you have a magical time!

    xoxo
  • VickiSam
    VickiSam Member Posts: 9,079 Member
    JuJuBeez said:

    Wow, Kat. You are proof that
    Wow, Kat. You are proof that Guardian Angels exist! I'm sorry you had to go through all this on top of everything else. You just keep getting up! You are amazing! You will hit big in Vegas, I'm sure of it! ;-)

    Best wishes to you and your Cutie Patootie! I hope you have a magical time!

    xoxo

    Kit Kat .. You truly are blessed! Guardian Angels .. yes
    Angels :-). Prayers and positive thoughts for a quick recovery --! Continued
    good health -- happiness, and Love.

    Enjoy your planning of trips to Las Vegas and Europe ...and Stay off the highways for a week or two!~

    Strength, Courage and HOPE for a Cure.

    Vicki Sam
  • aisling8
    aisling8 Member Posts: 1,627 Member
    VickiSam said:

    Kit Kat .. You truly are blessed! Guardian Angels .. yes
    Angels :-). Prayers and positive thoughts for a quick recovery --! Continued
    good health -- happiness, and Love.

    Enjoy your planning of trips to Las Vegas and Europe ...and Stay off the highways for a week or two!~

    Strength, Courage and HOPE for a Cure.

    Vicki Sam

    Positive energy
    headed your way!

    Hoping you're able to celebrate your 21st birthday with gusto!!!

    xoxo
    Victoria
  • eihtak
    eihtak Member Posts: 1,473 Member
    aisling8 said:

    Positive energy
    headed your way!

    Hoping you're able to celebrate your 21st birthday with gusto!!!

    xoxo
    Victoria

    In my thoughts
    Wow...I have daughters around your age and am soooo inspired by your strength! I always feel like God has unbelievable fantastic plans for someone like you, but its kind of a pre-pay deal. The more you pre-pay, the greater the reward!!! You surely deserve a wonderful 21st!
  • Bella Luna
    Bella Luna Member Posts: 1,578 Member
    Prayers... you have them
    Kat... you have my prayers. Holy smoke, so sorry to hear about the accident. God was certainly watching over you and your 12 year old friend. Wishing you well with your recovery and treatment plan. Have a great time celebrating your 21st Happy in Vegas/Europe! I know you will! Oh, congratulations to your boyfriend on his college graduation!

    Hugs,
    Ines
  • MsGebby
    MsGebby Member Posts: 659
    My head is spinning
    just reading your post! Holy Cow!!! Thank God you and your lil friend are doing OK. I do pray that your spine heals with the technique you described. I also pray that the little girl won't have nightmares about this. With you as her caregiver, I am sure you can show her the way.

    It was good to see that you posted after taking a break from here. How are you otherwise?

    My continued prayers that you remain strong.

    xoxo
    Mary
  • SlowRollin
    SlowRollin Member Posts: 75
    ladyg said:

    Kat, I am
    so sorry to hear your latest news. I am glad you and your 12 year old were not seriously injured. Make sure you rest and get yourself ready for your Vegas/Europe trip.

    Hugs,
    Georgia

    Way to roll with the punches!
    You really are amazing. Congrats to your boyfriend and I'm glad you and the girl you were sitting are well.
    Take tons of pics of your trip and I pray you have a fantastic time.

    Prayers,

    Tony
  • Jobi
    Jobi Member Posts: 211
    Prayers
    Praying for strength and healing for you Kat!

    Dorene