Fallen Warrior ~ Jim in Delaware
MarineE5, sent me a message today that he had found out that Jim had passed away on February 25th.
Below is the link to his obituary.....
Jim in Delaware
In reading the obituary, I can't help but to think that Jim (knowing his dry humor), entirely or definitely had a hand in writing it...
Jim was a true inspiration and will be and is missed by many of us here....he was family.
Thoughts and Prayers go out to his family, friends and co-workers.
~John
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I was just coming to post
I was just coming to post the same. This is the post I made at CC...
Many of you know Delnative (Jim) was 5 years out of head & neck & had gone for his 5 year scan (he debated not going if I remember right) & was told the cancer was in his lungs after being cancer free. Jim checked in a few times & then did not come back; no matter how many of us bumped his posts or sent him messages; I also tried facebook. We found out that there was no hope for him; he did not wish to come back here for some reason; so we've been checking the obits fairly regularly. I'm very sorry to say that Jim has lost his fight& my one wish is that he has found peace. I hope that he some how knows we all cared. We respected his wish to not share his news although it was not easy.
Rest in peace Jim; you will be missed
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I will miss his wit and proseRoselvr said:I was just coming to post
I was just coming to post the same. This is the post I made at CC...
Many of you know Delnative (Jim) was 5 years out of head & neck & had gone for his 5 year scan (he debated not going if I remember right) & was told the cancer was in his lungs after being cancer free. Jim checked in a few times & then did not come back; no matter how many of us bumped his posts or sent him messages; I also tried facebook. We found out that there was no hope for him; he did not wish to come back here for some reason; so we've been checking the obits fairly regularly. I'm very sorry to say that Jim has lost his fight& my one wish is that he has found peace. I hope that he some how knows we all cared. We respected his wish to not share his news although it was not easy.
Rest in peace Jim; you will be missed
As he was a professional writer I always found his wit and prose to be refreshing and right on point. I raise my cognac to you, goodbye dear fellow!0 -
Raising my glass.......ratface said:I will miss his wit and prose
As he was a professional writer I always found his wit and prose to be refreshing and right on point. I raise my cognac to you, goodbye dear fellow!
....to a fine gentleman, who definitely brought a lot to this board and had a distinct way with his words. I'll be thinking of Jim when I go in the woods, knowing he was a great outdoorsman and for the deer hunting he loved so much.
RIP
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Good gosh....Greg53 said:Raising my glass.......
....to a fine gentleman, who definitely brought a lot to this board and had a distinct way with his words. I'll be thinking of Jim when I go in the woods, knowing he was a great outdoorsman and for the deer hunting he loved so much.
RIP
Greg
that truely hurts. Whenever I think of hot peppers and Johns Hopkins, I'll think of Jim. I never told him, but thanks for making me laugh during that rough summer of '09. You were one of the great crusaders of this awful disease. You will be missed.
Larry0 -
I haven't read the whole
I haven't read the whole obit; I was out when I got the email from Ed & had enough time to put together the post at CC & bump a few of his old posts for anyone following them before I had to leave again. I managed to read a few paragraphs towards the bottom & have to agree that he probably wrote it. He was such a nice guy who always had encouragement for others & it stinks that he was not able to enjoy his retirement. The same thing happened to my dad; forced to retire due to prostate issues then never recovered from a biopsy & we learned he had terminal chemical related leukemia.0 -
CLRRN said:
Thank you for posting..
I agree that he contributed to that obituary. It made me laugh and cry. Thank you for sharing and posting the link.
He remains an inspiration to us all.
God Bless you Jim!!!
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DarnMarineE5 said:Sad
Skiffin and Roselvr,
Thank you both for posting the information about Jim in Delaware.
Rest in Peace Jim, you will truely be missed.
That is very sad news. He was a very uplifting and positive force. His posts made me feel better many, many times.0 -
Ed; thank you for letting meMarineE5 said:Sad
Skiffin and Roselvr,
Thank you both for posting the information about Jim in Delaware.
Rest in Peace Jim, you will truely be missed.
Ed; thank you for letting me know.
I was driving to get an MRI when your email came in. I swear it was the longest MRI of my life. I was having problems getting a cell connection to read his obituary.0 -
Will miss him.
Breaks my heart.0 -
Thank you for the informationD Lewis said:A parting glass...
Thank you Jim for all the encouragement you gave me as I traveled this path. Your wit, humor and stylish fedora sustained me. My husband has a fedora. Looks good on him, too.
Deb
May he rest in peace. It is always sad to see some one leave us. Last month, we buried a very close veteran friend who left us three months after discovery of his liver/colon cancer.0 -
Hope and Humor!
He wrote the whole damned thing. How funny, how superlatively funny on so many levels while at the same time revealing and caring.
This is a caution to the rest of us: if you don't write your own obit, it's probably going to be boring
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How you bring a smile to someone's face at the news of your death, well, Jim, you just did it.0 -
When we were told my dadssoccerfreaks said:Hope and Humor!
He wrote the whole damned thing. How funny, how superlatively funny on so many levels while at the same time revealing and caring.
This is a caution to the rest of us: if you don't write your own obit, it's probably going to be boring.
How you bring a smile to someone's face at the news of your death, well, Jim, you just did it.
When we were told my dads cancer had spread; writing his obit was one thing we made sure we did. A lot of people thought it was weird; but I wanted to make sure everything that was important to him was included. One of my biggest pet peeves are obits that look like an after thought; the married to; listing kids; parents & siblings & not much else. I feel sad that there was nothing else to write about their lives.0 -
Still crying....Roselvr said:When we were told my dads
When we were told my dads cancer had spread; writing his obit was one thing we made sure we did. A lot of people thought it was weird; but I wanted to make sure everything that was important to him was included. One of my biggest pet peeves are obits that look like an after thought; the married to; listing kids; parents & siblings & not much else. I feel sad that there was nothing else to write about their lives.
I've had a hard time getting the waterworks to stop since hearing about Jim's passing. He was such a sweet caring man and one of the first people I met when I joined here.
This is a true loss for everyone.
God Bless you Jim.0 -
Farewell
Sorry to read this today. I really enjoyed his posts and his incredible humor. He was encouraging to me when I first came on the board. I'll be thinking of him on a sunset walk this evening.
AB0
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