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Happy Anniversary to the most incredible CAREGIVER in the world...

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chemosmoker
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October 14, 2011 - 9:23am
Forgive me for HAVING to post this here this morning. It means THAT much to me, and she deserves the recognition, at the very least!

I would just like to say a VERY special Happy 16th Anniversary to the love of my life, MICHELLE; the most incredible caretaker a man could have ever asked for, and a wonderful human being on top of that.

Thorough all we have been through this last year, and with so much on our plates, you have always still taken the time to make sure I know that I am loved and cared for, in ways that only you know how to. You have gone so far above and beyond the dreams I had for a soul mate.

I just want to say thank you, I love you, and may you have a very special day. God put you in my life for a reason. I am grateful every day that he did.

Thank you for being you. THAT is the greatest gift I could have ever asked for.
I love you.

-Eric

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LilChemoSmoker
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My dear love, you are my love and my prince! I could have never imagined that I could have someone as wonderful and caring as you in my life! Sixteen years, five children, countless trials, so many successful triumphs, and a lifetime of love that fills my heart and soul with the needle pegged to the top! My life is so wonderful with your presence! When I am doubting my worthiness and beating myself up, your words of encouragement and undying love for me has always lifted me up and stood in the gap of my weakness!

On this day of our anniversary I reflect on all the years of pure bliss that your love and support has given me and will continue to give me for the rest of my life here. I look forward to every single day and moment I am gifted with you! I am so touched by your words! It liken to a hallmark moment; Let me visualize it; A bitter cold evening by the fire, staring out the window at the seasons white blanket over the canvas, and a cup of hot cocoa warming first my fingers, then my belly and finally my toes, the same way your heart warms me through and through!

You are my soft place to fall!

-Your so in love wife!

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jimwins
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No silly videos or humor - words are fleeing me.
Dance the dance that only you two can to the music you
started over 16 years ago. This is your time.

Thank you both for being sucn a light and inspiration.

Happy Anniversary "kids".

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LilChemoSmoker
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Jim,

No humor? No silly videos? LOL! Your words seem in tact to me! The 'kids' danced; THAT we did! Very well said! Thank you for your post my friend!
Love to you!
-Michelle

RAB73
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Michelle & Eric,

A very Happy Anniversary to you!! You are blessed to have each other.

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LilChemoSmoker
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Thank you and I am hoping that your day today is better then yesterday! Thank you for taking the time to wish us Happy Anniversary when I am aware that you had a tough day yourself!

Love to you!
-Michelle

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ddpekks
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HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO YOU, ERIC & MICHELLE! Just had to butt in here and say how amazing your wife is, Eric. I've only been reading her posts for a few days and she has done wonders for my state of mind (which kinda went in the gutter when I read both your posts LOL!!). I need empathy, sympathy, encouragement and humor as I continue this journey and she seems to have it all. (Thanks, My New Friend)

Hope you both have a wonderful day.

Deb

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LilChemoSmoker
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Joined: Oct 2011

That was a wonderful post! I am blushing from all the wonderful things you said! Though I have all the same needs as you! I don't really "have" it all, it is a daily choice to activate them in my behaviors, and trust me there are times that I fail to execute them with grace! But with strength I have gained from others like you, and my active participation here each day, I am reminded every day that I have been gifted another day choose again! Thank you my friend!

Love to you!
-Michelle

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