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Worried Sick About My Dad Aged 65 (Ireland)

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My Dad is 65 and has had a Radical Prostatectomy 10 yrs ago. He recently went this his Doctor (New young doctor) as his other Doctor has retired about 1 yr or 2 years ago and his PSA was checked and came back as 4.5 and obviously he was worried sick, retested him and again it came back the same he also had rectal examination and the Doctor sent him to St Vincents Hospital (Dublin 2 Hrs away) which was 2 days ago on Wednesday 1st June 2011. The specialist checked him by Rectal examination and also felt something what I dont know but is now sending him for an MRI scan, I have cried my eyes out fearing the worst and thinking I will lose him and I have told Mam that we need to be strong that he will be fine but please can someone answer? I hope the letter arrives soon as to when the MRI scan is but he is so worried himself as he thought 10 years ago it was all removed so why now and how to which when you search on the internet it shows some tissue remains, could their be cancer cells or could their just be something producing this PSA level could the MRI scan come back and show all clear or am I to expect it to show some form of cancer? Dad is fearing it has spread to other organs etc

The specialist said we can do radiation treatment for 3 months and you will be fine and that will give you 10 years etc, but we wont know much until he is sent for the MRI scan and I will be going up with him for support etc, I am just so worried I am 30yrs of age and moving out of home soon that is my plan but now I am thinking should I stay will he be ok should I stay here for Mams sake and help her as will this be a difficult road ahead if he does get the radiation treatment as I have read this tiredness builds up on you and even that itself will upset me so much if I have moved out of home and to come back and see him in bed all the time and feeling weak of course I dont mind once they can eradicate this and make him better and live for the next 10 20 yrs or how ever long. Each person loves their Dad and each Dad is special to people and if I was to write up how much I love him and how much he has done for me and helped me and everything I would be hear all night I just hope and pray I am just off to sleep now as I finish this it is now 3.15am that he will be al-right, I did read about BHP or something which means it could be benign or something that their is just tissue growing that can increase PSA levels as to how accurate that information is on the internet I dont know,

Please if anyone can reply, Kongo etc I have seen your posts and its people like you that can help so many people,

Please reply anyone if you can,

Gary.

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VascodaGama
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Joined: Nov 2010

Hi Gary

That are wonderful news about your dad’s progress. I believe that by now he has recuperated fully and both your parents are enjoying life as before.
I am very glad to know that you are happy and enjoying your life too. I wonder about your little “princess”. Have you given a though in visiting the Algarve? I will meet you at Faro airport.

Regarding myself, I am doing fine in this period free from treatments and free from the side effects. So far I managed to be away from the drugs since November of 2011. The bandit is there but I think that I am on the command of my case. Hopefully I will be in this status for an additional couple of years before starting the hormonal therapy again.

Now I think it right to celebrate your good news with a Guinness Draught.
Let’s raise our glasses to celebrate the Toast.

Hip hip Hooray……. LaughingSmileCool

VG

Irish-Psychic
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Joined: Jun 2011

It is just so good to hear from you also VG and so glad you are doing good,

I would LOVE to visit the Algarve it sounds and looks amazing from what I have seen on the pictures. I forget about "My little Princess" what did I say again as I cannot remember and although I am very young I have an awful memory for things like that :)

Christmas is just around the corner so of course I will be celebrating and I will think of you to and celebrate your recovery to,

 

Best wishes,

Gary.

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VascodaGama
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Joined: Nov 2010

Gary

You didn’t say much about your little “princess” and that is why I am curious. At one time you commented about your plan for acquiring a house and moving in (with your princess/partner). You were very concerned in leaving your parents alone.
I believe you managed the facts well and now are enjoying the circumstances.

Cancer affects everybody in a family. Your fathers’ case hit you hard too. Moreover, you should know that you and your brother are also at risk of contracting the disease, as much as my son. You will have to start your PSA screening at the age of 40, once every other year. By doing so, it does not mean that you will get prostate cancer but you need to do the test as a preventive measure. Please read this link regarding the risks factor;
http://www.cancerresearchuk.org/cancer-info/cancerstats/types/prostate/riskfactors/ 

I thing we will meet one day in the future here or there. I also think your country is amazing with extraordinary sceneries worth visiting in person. Have you seen the movies Leap Year or Ryan’s Daughter?

Best wishes.

VG  Wink

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