May 19, 2011 - 11:29 pm
How is everyone?
May 25th: took my pregnant wife to er room due to extreme back pain and vommiting. Spent 3 days in the hospital trying to find out what's going on, due to the baby, they couldn't do certain tests. Sonogram picks up renal mass.
May 28th: Induced Labor for three days, which started March 30th, my first son was born on April 1st:
They gave my wife a few days of rest and perform CT SCAN with contrast and Chest XRays, etc..
April 8th: Radical Nephroctamy is performed to removed right kidney.
She was diagnosed with an 8 cm Chromophobe Stage II Cancer localized within the Kidney Capsule and encased in membrane
May 19th: Today is her 29th bday and I'm feeling so sad thinking the worse in every way possible eventhough I'm trying to be positive. Sometimes it creeps up on me and today it hit me. Took a long hour NYC 4 train ride home in tears....
I just needed a place to vent
My wife is a trooper, but my mind is making this worse for me emotionally
How does everyone else cope with this