I have a surgery date

Texasgirl10
Texasgirl10 Member Posts: 668
I will have a bilatral mastecomy with left nodes removal on Tuesday, April 26. I am scared and sad, but I will take all of you into the OR with me. I know that you will be there holding my hand and praying for me. I don't want to stay in the hospital, so my doctor agreed that if there is no problems that I could go home the same day. Wish me luck :)

Hugs,

Dawne
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  • Mitzi333
    Mitzi333 Member Posts: 511 Member
    You're in my thoughts and prayers...
    Dawne... Wishing YOU all the BEST. I'm with you all the way. Please keep us posted on your progress. This is just the next phase of your journey and Many More Cancerversaries. I'm sending Postive vibes your way.

    Hugs~
    Mitzi ;0)
  • Hippiechick58
    Hippiechick58 Member Posts: 320
    Mitzi333 said:

    You're in my thoughts and prayers...
    Dawne... Wishing YOU all the BEST. I'm with you all the way. Please keep us posted on your progress. This is just the next phase of your journey and Many More Cancerversaries. I'm sending Postive vibes your way.

    Hugs~
    Mitzi ;0)

    I'm sorry you have to go
    I'm sorry you have to go through all this. I had the same surgery back in Sept. I would suggest, if I might, that you stay at least one night in hospital. It really is a significant surgery and they can give you the good drugs in hospital that you can't get at home. I also wanted to come right home but decided to stay instead and I'm glad I did! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

    Be Well,
    Dianne
  • Jean 0609
    Jean 0609 Member Posts: 2,462
    Oh Dawne,
    Sending positive thoughts & prayers your way. You know we will all be there with you.

    You may change your mind about staying in the hospital for at least one night. But it's up to you. I was out of it most of the time, but was glad to go home the next day.

    Post when you can.

    xoxo,
    Jean
  • Megan M
    Megan M Member Posts: 3,000

    I'm sorry you have to go
    I'm sorry you have to go through all this. I had the same surgery back in Sept. I would suggest, if I might, that you stay at least one night in hospital. It really is a significant surgery and they can give you the good drugs in hospital that you can't get at home. I also wanted to come right home but decided to stay instead and I'm glad I did! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

    Be Well,
    Dianne

    Wishing you good luck Dawne!
    Wishing you good luck Dawne! You will be in my thoughts and prayers.


    Hugs, Megan
  • Kat11
    Kat11 Member Posts: 1,931 Member
    Jean 0609 said:

    Oh Dawne,
    Sending positive thoughts & prayers your way. You know we will all be there with you.

    You may change your mind about staying in the hospital for at least one night. But it's up to you. I was out of it most of the time, but was glad to go home the next day.

    Post when you can.

    xoxo,
    Jean

    Dear Dawne
    Sure you are scared and sad. Just take care of yourself. Talk to the others who had this kind of surgery. I know " we are all different " and get some idea's on pre and post care. Sometimes this helps take some of the fear away. We will all be by your side know matter what. It's will be a very busy room. Hang in there, Hugs and prayers
    Kathy ~
  • skipper54
    skipper54 Member Posts: 936 Member
    hugs & prayers
    Sending you hugs & prayers! You know we'll all be there with you. I agree, you might want to think about 1 night in the hospital. Do what you feel is best.
  • jnl
    jnl Member Posts: 3,869 Member
    Jean 0609 said:

    Oh Dawne,
    Sending positive thoughts & prayers your way. You know we will all be there with you.

    You may change your mind about staying in the hospital for at least one night. But it's up to you. I was out of it most of the time, but was glad to go home the next day.

    Post when you can.

    xoxo,
    Jean

    Dawne, good luck with your
    Dawne, good luck with your surgery. I will be praying for you.


    Hugs, Leeza
  • DianeBC
    DianeBC Member Posts: 3,881 Member
    skipper54 said:

    hugs & prayers
    Sending you hugs & prayers! You know we'll all be there with you. I agree, you might want to think about 1 night in the hospital. Do what you feel is best.

    I am sending you prayers for
    I am sending you prayers for a successful surgery and a fast recovery.


    Keep us updated.


    Hugs, Diane
  • Gabe N Abby Mom
    Gabe N Abby Mom Member Posts: 2,413
    Get the bus ready...we're
    Get the bus ready...we're going to Texas! Dawne, your job is to pamper yourself, drink lots of water, and get plenty of rest. We'll take care of everything else.

    Hugs,

    Linda
  • cahjah75
    cahjah75 Member Posts: 2,631
    Dawne
    you will be in my thoughts and prayers next Tuesday as you go for surgery. I had bilateral mastectomy in June 2010. My oxygen levels were not good so I spent the night. I actually spent another night just to feel better before going home. I wish you the best outcome. The drains are the worse part but doable. Make sure someone helps you in moving your arms so that you don't get too stiff.
    {{hugs}} Char
  • laughs_a_lot
    laughs_a_lot Member Posts: 1,368 Member
    On the prayer list
    I am putting you on the prayer list. I don't know how it goes in your state but in Michigan if you decide to go home a bit early, they have to send a visiting nurse out to check on you for several days to a week depending on your level of need. If it works that way there, then going home will be ok. Consider this, If you are the type of person that cannot stand to see the housework not done then take the extra day in the hospital. Why put yourself in a position where you feel torn? However, if you are good at letting go, or have help that can come in to do what you would have done, by all means go home as it will likely aid your recovery. I know you will make the right decison for yourself.
  • creampuff91344
    creampuff91344 Member Posts: 988

    On the prayer list
    I am putting you on the prayer list. I don't know how it goes in your state but in Michigan if you decide to go home a bit early, they have to send a visiting nurse out to check on you for several days to a week depending on your level of need. If it works that way there, then going home will be ok. Consider this, If you are the type of person that cannot stand to see the housework not done then take the extra day in the hospital. Why put yourself in a position where you feel torn? However, if you are good at letting go, or have help that can come in to do what you would have done, by all means go home as it will likely aid your recovery. I know you will make the right decison for yourself.

    Thinking of you
    Dawne, we will all be thinking of you as you take this first step in your journey. As many above have said, you might reconsider your decision to at least stay overnight...the nurses are skilled in keeping you comfortable, and that is a very serious surgery. Just a thought. Us Texas girls will need to stick together, so look forward to hearing from you when you are through the surgery. Good thoughts coming your say. Hugs, Judy
  • csr771
    csr771 Member Posts: 117
    Wishing you Well
    My thoughts and prayers will be with you, not only on your surgery day, but now as it approaches. I think the anticipation of what was to come was very hard and stressful. I had a mastectomy of the left breast and immediate reconstruction this past January. You may want to rethink staying in the hospital for at least one night. You are having major surgery and the hospital staff will check on you and make sure that you are progressing as you should. My son stayed with me in my hospital room the night of my surgery. I had said that I didn't want him too, but I was so glad that he did. You may want to think about having someone there with you if you decide to stay. Sometimes we have to let ourselves be cared for instead of being a caregiver.
  • sbmly53
    sbmly53 Member Posts: 1,522
    Dawne,
    My heart goes out to you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Please do consider staying overnight to make sure there are no problems, pain is managed, etc.

    Hugs,

    Sue
  • BioAdoptMom
    BioAdoptMom Member Posts: 358
    You are in my thoughts and
    You are in my thoughts and prayers as we speak! And yes, we will be right there with you holding your hand as the angels keep their arms wrapped around your body!

    Nancy
  • ladyg
    ladyg Member Posts: 1,577
    Dawne
    I will keep you in my thoughts as you go for your surgery on Tuesday. And of course I will be right there with all the others to hold your hand.

    Hugs,
    Georgia
  • Angie2U
    Angie2U Member Posts: 2,991
    Jean 0609 said:

    Oh Dawne,
    Sending positive thoughts & prayers your way. You know we will all be there with you.

    You may change your mind about staying in the hospital for at least one night. But it's up to you. I was out of it most of the time, but was glad to go home the next day.

    Post when you can.

    xoxo,
    Jean

    I'm sending prayers and
    I'm sending prayers and positive thoughts too!


    Hugs, Angie
  • Texasgirl10
    Texasgirl10 Member Posts: 668

    You are in my thoughts and
    You are in my thoughts and prayers as we speak! And yes, we will be right there with you holding your hand as the angels keep their arms wrapped around your body!

    Nancy

    I don't know what I would do without you guys
    Thank you all for you positive thoughts, kind words, and prayers. I don't think my Dr will send me home if there is any problems. I just really don't want to stay in the hospital. I want to come home where I can be comfortable. I will keep ya'll posted.

    Hugs and God Bless,

    Dawne
  • sunshine0406
    sunshine0406 Member Posts: 65
    My prayers are with you
    I had a left side mastectomy on Feb 28th. I did go home the same day. I just hated the thought of staying in the hospital, the memories of having my babies and the nurse coming in to check on me like every hour did it for me. I will say that I did have two people at home to help me for a couple days and if I did not I might have reconsidered.
    I also understand the scared and sad part. I did not think this part would be so hard but when it came down to it I was caught off guard. Thankfully I had my mom, two of my friends and my husband with me. That really helped with the waiting before surgery. I wish you luck on your surgery.
  • ldpettit
    ldpettit Member Posts: 128

    I don't know what I would do without you guys
    Thank you all for you positive thoughts, kind words, and prayers. I don't think my Dr will send me home if there is any problems. I just really don't want to stay in the hospital. I want to come home where I can be comfortable. I will keep ya'll posted.

    Hugs and God Bless,

    Dawne

    bilateral
    I had mine in February and I agree with the others that suggest to stay at least one night. Having a nurse check your stats, make sure your pain is managed right is so important to good recovery. I know for me it made a huge difference.

    Best of luck with surgery and recovery.