Stage IV Nasopharyngeal Cancer, newly diagnosed

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My fiance was just diagnosed this week with stage IV nasopharyngeal carcinoma. It's metastatic and spread to lungs, lymph nodes, and his bone marrow. We had the most horrendous experience with the doctor who just told us and tried to rush us out of the office to take the next patient apparently. Apparently this cancer is uncommon in the states? The doctor we have isn't even a head/neck cancer specialist. The doc was very short with us and didn't even take time to explain our options and was sarcastic when I started asking questions, if I could ask a question. The man was talking so fast I could barely get a word in. Example, when I asked why he chose the type of chemo medicine he did he replied "Well you see I pulled out my darts and my dart board and that's how I selected them".

The entire experience made us feel like this wasn't important to him (which it may not be, but it is to us). I don't feel like he really took the time to explain to us this cancer and what other options we have or what we'll experience. My fiance starts his chemo next week which I am ok with but I'm so lost about the whole process. I'm trying to take advantage of the resources at the hospital which are few. We're supposed to talk to a social worker, and a dietician which I had to set up. I've been trolling support group forums and message boards but there isn't a whole lot on nasopharyngeal cancer.

I guess what I'm asking is, does anyone have any insight into a better hospital or a decent specialist? And can you offer any insight or stories about your experience with this cancer. Has anyone out there had stage IV and had it spread to other organs and tissues and lived? Are there any caretakers out there who can offer me advice on how to support my fiance and what resources we can look into.

I'm in desperate need of advice or some sort of assurance or just a nudge in the right direction. I am definitely planning on getting a second opinion, my coworkers are encouraging me to go to MD Anderson which looks really great but I'm not sure what to do.
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  • Glenna M
    Glenna M Member Posts: 1,576
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    Second opinion
    Definitely get a second opinion immediately and from what you said about his doctor I would be looking for a new one also. Your fiance, and you, need a doctor that you trust.

    I am not familiar with MD Anderson personally but have read other's stories and have heard nothing but great reviews.

    There is a forum here that I believe is titled SUPERTHREAD that was started by sweetblood and I believe she included a link that will take you to a website that lists the top cancer hospitals. This is the title of the thread I was referring to - HNC Superthread. A COLLECTION OF HELPFUL LINKS ONLY. (please post only informative links here) Help for some FAQ. There is a link for almost everything you could want to know, before, during and after treatment.

    Please get a second opinion immediately, even if you trusted your doctor it is always reassuring to get another doctors opinion.

    Stay well and keep us posted.
    Glenna
  • ballerinazh
    ballerinazh Member Posts: 8
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    Stage 4 NPC
    My husband was diagnosed with stage 4 NPC last September with metastasis to his rib and spine. He had 4 rounds of Chemo cocktail once every 3 weeks followed by 35 radiation with concurrent weekly chemo. As of last PET scan after the 3rd Chemo cocktail, there is no evidence of cancer. As far as I know. there are other NPC survivors on this site, adventurebob and cartierlee who were also stage 4 with distant metastasis when they were diagnosed. Bob is NED now after the treatment and it has been the 9th year for Cartier since his treatment.

    The cancer is rare in US, but quite common in southern China, and apparently is quite responsive to treatments. Statistics shows that the 5 year survival rate is quite good, 4 out of 10 even for a stage 4...Well, it's not as good as 10/10, but we should all stay positive and hope for the best.

    From your description, I do think that you should seek a second opinion if not another doctor. The journey is so much harder with a doctor who doesn't care and not trustworthy. He's seems so unprofessional with dartboard analogy, which I don't even get, but maybe it's just my English... My husband is being treated at Mass General Hospital, Oncologist here are generally quite busy and they can seem a little rushy as well, but they always make sure that all my questions are answered. This is cancer we're talking about, you have the right to have all your questions and concerns addressed. Make sure you do some research on your own, there are a whole lot of information on the internet and write down your questions prior to the appointment.

    Stay strong and good luck
  • Mandabeth82
    Mandabeth82 Member Posts: 5
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    Glenna M said:

    Second opinion
    Definitely get a second opinion immediately and from what you said about his doctor I would be looking for a new one also. Your fiance, and you, need a doctor that you trust.

    I am not familiar with MD Anderson personally but have read other's stories and have heard nothing but great reviews.

    There is a forum here that I believe is titled SUPERTHREAD that was started by sweetblood and I believe she included a link that will take you to a website that lists the top cancer hospitals. This is the title of the thread I was referring to - HNC Superthread. A COLLECTION OF HELPFUL LINKS ONLY. (please post only informative links here) Help for some FAQ. There is a link for almost everything you could want to know, before, during and after treatment.

    Please get a second opinion immediately, even if you trusted your doctor it is always reassuring to get another doctors opinion.

    Stay well and keep us posted.
    Glenna

    Thanks!
    I found the thread very helpful! Thanks for directing me there. It's very calming to have all the resources you need on one page.
  • Mandabeth82
    Mandabeth82 Member Posts: 5
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    Stage 4 NPC
    My husband was diagnosed with stage 4 NPC last September with metastasis to his rib and spine. He had 4 rounds of Chemo cocktail once every 3 weeks followed by 35 radiation with concurrent weekly chemo. As of last PET scan after the 3rd Chemo cocktail, there is no evidence of cancer. As far as I know. there are other NPC survivors on this site, adventurebob and cartierlee who were also stage 4 with distant metastasis when they were diagnosed. Bob is NED now after the treatment and it has been the 9th year for Cartier since his treatment.

    The cancer is rare in US, but quite common in southern China, and apparently is quite responsive to treatments. Statistics shows that the 5 year survival rate is quite good, 4 out of 10 even for a stage 4...Well, it's not as good as 10/10, but we should all stay positive and hope for the best.

    From your description, I do think that you should seek a second opinion if not another doctor. The journey is so much harder with a doctor who doesn't care and not trustworthy. He's seems so unprofessional with dartboard analogy, which I don't even get, but maybe it's just my English... My husband is being treated at Mass General Hospital, Oncologist here are generally quite busy and they can seem a little rushy as well, but they always make sure that all my questions are answered. This is cancer we're talking about, you have the right to have all your questions and concerns addressed. Make sure you do some research on your own, there are a whole lot of information on the internet and write down your questions prior to the appointment.

    Stay strong and good luck

    Drugs
    Do you remember which drugs they gave him? I know we're doing Cisplatin Once a week for three weeks. And then Gemzar once a week for two weeks. All in all he'll only be doing chemo once a week for three weeks and one week off. Rinse and Repeat. His doctor did manage to tell us that he'll be following up chemo with radiation once the tumors have gone.
  • Tuongvi
    Tuongvi Member Posts: 20
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    Got to go for a head and neck specialist
    My husband was diagnosted with NPC stage 3 4 weeks ago. Our experience with the local hospital doctor was like you. We went to Johns Hopkins and what a big different.
    We are confident that we are in good hands. The team of doctors took the time to review this medical record/biosy report/Petscan /CT scan. The doctors meet and discuss his case every week. If you can, go to Johns hopkins. I have the doctor # and willing to give it to you if you want to seek his second opion. Today is my husband second day of chemo. He is getting Cisplatin and 5FU for 6 weeks and radiation for 7 weeks. Please stay strong and I know how you feel. People here are great and you will find supports, encourgement and helpfull info here.
  • Hondo
    Hondo Member Posts: 6,636 Member
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    Hi Beth
    I am a survivor of NPC it can be defeated but you need the right help, don’t mess with small town doctors they will kill you, Get to MD Anderson, Mayo Clinic, or John Hopkins as soon as possible. NPC is not as uncommon as it once was there are quite a few of us here on CSN and we stay here to help others like you understand what you will be going through.

    Take care and keep posting and welcome to the Family here on CSN
    Hondo
  • Kent Cass
    Kent Cass Member Posts: 1,898 Member
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    Yes
    It would seem a no-brainer, at this point with your experience with this Dr., to go to MD Anderson. Why?

    1) Your Fiance's C is a VERY serious matter that must be dealt with ASAP- if it has shown in the lung(s) and bone marrow. Time is critical. Any C that is stage-4 is just about as serious a serious gets, but the fact it has spread so far before you caught it makes this all the more complicated, and the ASAP factor is significant.

    2) MD Anderson is supposed to be at the top for C care in the USA, or very near it. Also, at a major center like it, more options may be available to get the best result, including the most patient-friendly.

    Trust me/us- get thee to MD Anderson ASAP. And, please keep us informed. Heckuva Welcome to you, but I am glad you are here. You, unfortunately, now find yourself in our world- however, it is a world we all have survived in. I, too, am NPC, though mine only showed with two neck tumors, and the Primary was never found, so mine was less severe. Still, if I hadn't gotten treatment, then I would not be the 27-month Survivor I now am.

    Believe

    kcass
  • RushFan
    RushFan Member Posts: 224
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    I agree
    I agree with all that has been recommended...a second opinion is in order asap. Confidence and trust with your doctors is key. I am an MD Anderson patient and can only say they have been absolutely fantastic.

    I had all of my treatments (chemo and radiation) at the Katy MD Anderson regional location. I live in Cypress and the convenience was great. If you would like more info, contact me here or email me at bkcuhc@sbcglobal.net

    Best you both.
    Chuck.
  • ballerinazh
    ballerinazh Member Posts: 8
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    Drugs
    Do you remember which drugs they gave him? I know we're doing Cisplatin Once a week for three weeks. And then Gemzar once a week for two weeks. All in all he'll only be doing chemo once a week for three weeks and one week off. Rinse and Repeat. His doctor did manage to tell us that he'll be following up chemo with radiation once the tumors have gone.

    Drugs
    The chemo cocktail was cisplatin, taxotere and 4 days of 5FU. The weekly chemo was carboplatin and taxol.
  • adventurebob
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    NPC with mets
    Hi Mandabeth,
    I'm really saddened to read your post but glad you found your way here. I too was diagnosed with NPC stage 4 with mets to sternum, lumbar and sacrum as well as both lymph nodes and right below the brain stem. That was May 20 of last year. I completed treatment 2 months ago today. I did 3 rounds of Cisplatin/Gemzar every 3 weeks with just Gemzar on the between weeks prior to starting radiation. After the second round my PET/CT was clean. Still went on to do 2 more rounds of Cisplatin concurrent with 35 rads to the head/neck as well as 15 to my sternum, 5 to the lumbar and 4 to the sacrum. Rads to the head were IMRT and to the bone were SBRT. Both my chemo doc and rad doc are good men that I trust and have enjoyed working with. I did get a second, third and fourth opinion before starting treatment though. I got those at Standford, UCSF and MD Andersen. They all concurred with the treatment that my docs had laid out and encouraged me to stay with my docs and in my area. I'm happy with the treatment I received and look forward to my PET/CT in a few weeks showing NED. I am currently reading a book by Dr. Keith Block of the Block Center for Integrative Cancer Treatment in Illinois. If I had to do treatment over I would choose this center. They specialize in metastatic cancer and are at the cutting edge of research combining traditional treatment with alternative treatment. If I need further treatment I will be going there.
    As your fiance's cancer is advanced it is important to start soon but not until you're ready and not until you've got second and third opinions. Now is the time to slow down a bit and really plan out everything.
    I would be happy to talk with you further if you want to PM me. This can be beat but it's not going to be easy or pretty. Gather your strength and your friends and family. Pray constantly. Be careful what he eats,drinks and breathes. Now is the time to be as nutritious as possible. Check out: "Life over Cancer" by Keith Block, "Anti-cancer", "Beating Cancer with Nutrition" and "Foods that Fight Cancer".
    Be courageous. You will get through this.

    Bob
  • Mandabeth82
    Mandabeth82 Member Posts: 5
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    NPC with mets
    Hi Mandabeth,
    I'm really saddened to read your post but glad you found your way here. I too was diagnosed with NPC stage 4 with mets to sternum, lumbar and sacrum as well as both lymph nodes and right below the brain stem. That was May 20 of last year. I completed treatment 2 months ago today. I did 3 rounds of Cisplatin/Gemzar every 3 weeks with just Gemzar on the between weeks prior to starting radiation. After the second round my PET/CT was clean. Still went on to do 2 more rounds of Cisplatin concurrent with 35 rads to the head/neck as well as 15 to my sternum, 5 to the lumbar and 4 to the sacrum. Rads to the head were IMRT and to the bone were SBRT. Both my chemo doc and rad doc are good men that I trust and have enjoyed working with. I did get a second, third and fourth opinion before starting treatment though. I got those at Standford, UCSF and MD Andersen. They all concurred with the treatment that my docs had laid out and encouraged me to stay with my docs and in my area. I'm happy with the treatment I received and look forward to my PET/CT in a few weeks showing NED. I am currently reading a book by Dr. Keith Block of the Block Center for Integrative Cancer Treatment in Illinois. If I had to do treatment over I would choose this center. They specialize in metastatic cancer and are at the cutting edge of research combining traditional treatment with alternative treatment. If I need further treatment I will be going there.
    As your fiance's cancer is advanced it is important to start soon but not until you're ready and not until you've got second and third opinions. Now is the time to slow down a bit and really plan out everything.
    I would be happy to talk with you further if you want to PM me. This can be beat but it's not going to be easy or pretty. Gather your strength and your friends and family. Pray constantly. Be careful what he eats,drinks and breathes. Now is the time to be as nutritious as possible. Check out: "Life over Cancer" by Keith Block, "Anti-cancer", "Beating Cancer with Nutrition" and "Foods that Fight Cancer".
    Be courageous. You will get through this.

    Bob

    thank you
    Thanks so much for your response. I gives me a bit of hope to see that so many people have survived this terrible thing and so willing to offer advice. I am 28 and he's 29 and no one in our family and none of our friends have had cancer before so it's difficult for us to understand what's going on and coping has been difficult. It's been a whirlwind of activity the last week. We put in a request to MD Anderson, hopefully we'll here something soon. I just need someone to tell us we're headed in the right direction and that maybe his jerk of a doctor does have some sense left in his head. I took your advice and bought the Anti-Cancer book. He wants to go ahead and still continue with his chemo this week. He's anxious to get started and be done with it.Now we just wait to see how he'll do with the chemo and the aftermath to come.
  • james chambliss
    james chambliss Member Posts: 70
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    thank you
    Thanks so much for your response. I gives me a bit of hope to see that so many people have survived this terrible thing and so willing to offer advice. I am 28 and he's 29 and no one in our family and none of our friends have had cancer before so it's difficult for us to understand what's going on and coping has been difficult. It's been a whirlwind of activity the last week. We put in a request to MD Anderson, hopefully we'll here something soon. I just need someone to tell us we're headed in the right direction and that maybe his jerk of a doctor does have some sense left in his head. I took your advice and bought the Anti-Cancer book. He wants to go ahead and still continue with his chemo this week. He's anxious to get started and be done with it.Now we just wait to see how he'll do with the chemo and the aftermath to come.

    Change doctors
    I was found that i had NPC stage 3 a little over a year ago. My Doc says i am cancer free now. So there is hope. You really need to get a Doc and hospital that is going to work for you, not the other way around. They are out there. I am a VET so i was fortunate to have the VA in Long Beach, Ca. and they are the best in my eyes. I really hope you find someone quick and i will keep you both in my prayers.



    James
  • lalilinn
    lalilinn Member Posts: 4
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    I'm going through almost the
    I'm going through almost the exact same situation right now but it's with my dad and it's metastatic and spread to his lungs, liver and bones. I had a horrible experience with our doctors too and I'm in the middle of finding someone else to speak to as well. I also heard a lot of great things about MD Anderson and that it's rated #1 cancer hospital in the country. Did you ever reach out to them? Hope everything goes well for you...
  • lalilinn
    lalilinn Member Posts: 4
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    I'm going through almost the
    I'm going through almost the exact same situation right now but it's with my dad and it's metastatic and spread to his lungs, liver and bones. I had a horrible experience with our doctors too and I'm in the middle of finding someone else to speak to as well. I also heard a lot of great things about MD Anderson and that it's rated #1 cancer hospital in the country. Did you ever reach out to them? Hope everything goes well for you...
  • my girl
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    lalilinn said:

    I'm going through almost the
    I'm going through almost the exact same situation right now but it's with my dad and it's metastatic and spread to his lungs, liver and bones. I had a horrible experience with our doctors too and I'm in the middle of finding someone else to speak to as well. I also heard a lot of great things about MD Anderson and that it's rated #1 cancer hospital in the country. Did you ever reach out to them? Hope everything goes well for you...

    My 12 year old daughter was diagnosed with NPC 2 months ago. She is currently undergoing chemo and radiation. It is extremely difficult for all of us and especially her. I have been looking for others to share similar cases, but it is so rare in children. I will take any advice out there from those of you who have been through this. I am sure it differs from adults and children, but she is pretty much receiving adult treatment for this cancer. She has already started with dry mouth and the mouth sores are starting. I am anticipating side effects, but is there changes anyone has seen that they were not expecting. In order to be strong for her, I need to be as ready as I can for things that may come up. Best wishes to all of you!
  • timreichhart
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    my girl said:

    My 12 year old daughter was diagnosed with NPC 2 months ago. She is currently undergoing chemo and radiation. It is extremely difficult for all of us and especially her. I have been looking for others to share similar cases, but it is so rare in children. I will take any advice out there from those of you who have been through this. I am sure it differs from adults and children, but she is pretty much receiving adult treatment for this cancer. She has already started with dry mouth and the mouth sores are starting. I am anticipating side effects, but is there changes anyone has seen that they were not expecting. In order to be strong for her, I need to be as ready as I can for things that may come up. Best wishes to all of you!

    About this cancer
    In reality this cancer is so rare for anybody in US to have it from what I was told by my team of doctors. But more and more cases of this type of rare skin cancer are being found each day. Because I was only 24 and have been married for less a year when I found out I had NPC stage 4+.

    Also little background how I found my own cancer was this: I had bad ear infection (right ear)started back on christmas week so my wife put ear drops in it to see it would go way so I waited for a week (already January of 2010) and I still didnt see any improvements in the ear infection. So I went to doctors care and told the doctors that I have a ear problem so they looked into my ears and seen major ear infection so they gave me a meds. So I took all the meds for a week and after week I was still not see any improvements. So I went back to doctors care a week later and told the doctor on call that I was here week or so for a ear infection and told them took all the meds as they told me and told the doctor I still feel there is a ear infection so the doctor looked into my ear again and he said the ear infection is still there. So the doctor ordered 2 shots of meds in my butt and then sent me home. Now I am in first week of February and I still was not feeling any improvements in the ear infection so I called up my dad and asked him what to do and he told me go up to the ER. So I walked upto the ER at 9pm at night when it was cold thank god the ER was only couple blocks away from my apt. So I walked into the ER and told the person that I still had major infection so I was taken into the ER waiting room waiting for ER doctor and the ER doctor walked in and told her that I went to doctors care and was given meds but was not seeing any improvements in it so ER doctor looked into my ears and ER doctor said the ear infection still there. So ER walked out of the room already 9:30 so ER doctor came back in about 20mins later and told me she ordered CAT of the head and neck. So I had CAT with contrast done and then went back into the ER waiting room so about hour or so ER doctor came in and said there was 2 masses that they cant figure out it was so she told me to contact a ENT doctor. So I contacted the ENT doctor asp and was able to get in quick (already middle of feburary) so ENT doctor checked me out and he said he was going to order a PET scan to see what they was looking at. So Next morning I had a PET scan done and after the scan was done went back home and waited about 4 days and got a call back from ENT doctor told me to come back in to talk over what they found and he said there is 2 masses showing and he said he was going to order a biopsy on the right side of the neck. So next morning I had biopsy surgery and when they looked at they said it was cancer. So I had to wait 2 weeks to meet with the radiation doctor and chemo doctor due to insurance to clear. So we are already in march and met with the chemo and radiation doctor and explain everything what was going to happen. So chemo doctor ordered a PORT insert for chemo so after meeting with them I had surgery again for the chemo port insert. After that was done second week of march is when I started chemo treatments for 3 months then in last week of july I started radiation with IMRT for 7 weeks 5 days straight.

    Now I am most a year post treatments.

    Sorry for the long winded story about how I found out I had cancer.



    Here is what side of effects you may have during treatments.

    1:Not wanting to eat - during radiation treatments because I didnt eat for 7 weeks straight and lost about 50 lbs because of it.
    2:your hair will probably either fall out or thin really out during treatments and after.
    3:throwing up alot after try to eat something.
    4:tease will be really messed up.
    5:you will have mouth sores during treatments
    6:heavy mucus
    7:sore throat
    8:dryness in the mouth and throat

    here is what the side effects I seen after treatments:

    TMJD (jaw problems you may have to wear a splint for it for about a year)
    loss of saliva but will come back about 12-18 months post treatments.
    neck and shoulder problems
    sleeping problems
    swallowing problems
    hacking up small traces of blood
    dryness in the mouth and throat
    heavy green dried up mucus
    hearing loss/problems

    Be ready to be scoped every time you go back to ENT doctor because every 2 months I get scoped to make sure the cancer and any tumors dont grow back in the lymph node system.
  • my girl
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    About this cancer
    In reality this cancer is so rare for anybody in US to have it from what I was told by my team of doctors. But more and more cases of this type of rare skin cancer are being found each day. Because I was only 24 and have been married for less a year when I found out I had NPC stage 4+.

    Also little background how I found my own cancer was this: I had bad ear infection (right ear)started back on christmas week so my wife put ear drops in it to see it would go way so I waited for a week (already January of 2010) and I still didnt see any improvements in the ear infection. So I went to doctors care and told the doctors that I have a ear problem so they looked into my ears and seen major ear infection so they gave me a meds. So I took all the meds for a week and after week I was still not see any improvements. So I went back to doctors care a week later and told the doctor on call that I was here week or so for a ear infection and told them took all the meds as they told me and told the doctor I still feel there is a ear infection so the doctor looked into my ear again and he said the ear infection is still there. So the doctor ordered 2 shots of meds in my butt and then sent me home. Now I am in first week of February and I still was not feeling any improvements in the ear infection so I called up my dad and asked him what to do and he told me go up to the ER. So I walked upto the ER at 9pm at night when it was cold thank god the ER was only couple blocks away from my apt. So I walked into the ER and told the person that I still had major infection so I was taken into the ER waiting room waiting for ER doctor and the ER doctor walked in and told her that I went to doctors care and was given meds but was not seeing any improvements in it so ER doctor looked into my ears and ER doctor said the ear infection still there. So ER walked out of the room already 9:30 so ER doctor came back in about 20mins later and told me she ordered CAT of the head and neck. So I had CAT with contrast done and then went back into the ER waiting room so about hour or so ER doctor came in and said there was 2 masses that they cant figure out it was so she told me to contact a ENT doctor. So I contacted the ENT doctor asp and was able to get in quick (already middle of feburary) so ENT doctor checked me out and he said he was going to order a PET scan to see what they was looking at. So Next morning I had a PET scan done and after the scan was done went back home and waited about 4 days and got a call back from ENT doctor told me to come back in to talk over what they found and he said there is 2 masses showing and he said he was going to order a biopsy on the right side of the neck. So next morning I had biopsy surgery and when they looked at they said it was cancer. So I had to wait 2 weeks to meet with the radiation doctor and chemo doctor due to insurance to clear. So we are already in march and met with the chemo and radiation doctor and explain everything what was going to happen. So chemo doctor ordered a PORT insert for chemo so after meeting with them I had surgery again for the chemo port insert. After that was done second week of march is when I started chemo treatments for 3 months then in last week of july I started radiation with IMRT for 7 weeks 5 days straight.

    Now I am most a year post treatments.

    Sorry for the long winded story about how I found out I had cancer.



    Here is what side of effects you may have during treatments.

    1:Not wanting to eat - during radiation treatments because I didnt eat for 7 weeks straight and lost about 50 lbs because of it.
    2:your hair will probably either fall out or thin really out during treatments and after.
    3:throwing up alot after try to eat something.
    4:tease will be really messed up.
    5:you will have mouth sores during treatments
    6:heavy mucus
    7:sore throat
    8:dryness in the mouth and throat

    here is what the side effects I seen after treatments:

    TMJD (jaw problems you may have to wear a splint for it for about a year)
    loss of saliva but will come back about 12-18 months post treatments.
    neck and shoulder problems
    sleeping problems
    swallowing problems
    hacking up small traces of blood
    dryness in the mouth and throat
    heavy green dried up mucus
    hearing loss/problems

    Be ready to be scoped every time you go back to ENT doctor because every 2 months I get scoped to make sure the cancer and any tumors dont grow back in the lymph node system.

    Thanks
    I appreciate all your feedback. I am trying to get as much information as I can, and really just trying to find some connections with others who have gone through this. My daughter has been through so much in just 2 months, and still has a long way to go. She is doing well and I am finding that she is handling everything very well as long as she knows everything and their are no suprises. There will be bumps along the way, we both know that this will not be easy. She also was misdiagnosed for sinus infections and allergies for months before they found the tumor.
  • Hondo
    Hondo Member Posts: 6,636 Member
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    my girl said:

    Thanks
    I appreciate all your feedback. I am trying to get as much information as I can, and really just trying to find some connections with others who have gone through this. My daughter has been through so much in just 2 months, and still has a long way to go. She is doing well and I am finding that she is handling everything very well as long as she knows everything and their are no suprises. There will be bumps along the way, we both know that this will not be easy. She also was misdiagnosed for sinus infections and allergies for months before they found the tumor.

    Hi My Girl
    It is never easy when our children are affected but there is hope and many of us here with NPC can testify that life after C is still very good. As young as she is many of her physical scare will heal over time just be carful of the mental scars.
    Keeping your both in my thoughts and prayers

    PS: Welcome to our family here on CSN
    Hondo
  • adrian b
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    my girl said:

    Thanks
    I appreciate all your feedback. I am trying to get as much information as I can, and really just trying to find some connections with others who have gone through this. My daughter has been through so much in just 2 months, and still has a long way to go. She is doing well and I am finding that she is handling everything very well as long as she knows everything and their are no suprises. There will be bumps along the way, we both know that this will not be easy. She also was misdiagnosed for sinus infections and allergies for months before they found the tumor.

    Misdiagnosis
    I had similar issues with misdiagnosis. I was living in the US (Houston, Texas) and saw an ENT specialist with the symptoms of occasional bloody discharge from nose and a constant feeling of needing to "pop" my right ear from pressure build up. He put a scope up nose and couldn't see anything and diagnosed me with sinusitis caused by allergies. I have since moved back to Australia and started having problems with double vision so I went and saw a GP who referred me to an Opthamologist. He sent me for an MRI and discovered that I had stage IV NPC.

    My issue is that my cancer has spread up into the optic chaism and wrapped around several cranial nerves and up against the brain stem. There is a high risk of me losing eyesight from radiation which obviously concerns me greatly. I would obviously chose my life over my eyesight but it is still a pretty daunting thought to lose my eyesight.

    I am currently 1/2 way through my second round of chemo (cistplatin and fluorouracil) and the chemo has certainly relieved a lot of my symptoms. I was getting loss of sensation down one side of my face due to impacting the 5th cranial nerve but that has completely gone and the constant pressure has relieved considerably. My eyes have improved a lot as well so the hope is that the tumor has shrunk enough to reduce the risk of damaging the nerves in the optic chaism. I have an MRI on Friday to hopefully give some positive news.

    I had the mask made up yesterday and my radiation is due to start on July 18th. The positive that I have taken out of all this is that this type of cancer tends to respond really well to treatment and therefor has very high survival rate compared to other types of cancers. Just look at the amount of survivors on these forums. I know how difficult it is for an adult to go through so I can only imagine how difficult it must be for a 12yr old to go through. It is a road that I have only just started down myself but know it will be a tough few months ahead but I take comfort in the fact that I know it is all for a good reason.

    Adrian
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    adrian b said:

    Misdiagnosis
    I had similar issues with misdiagnosis. I was living in the US (Houston, Texas) and saw an ENT specialist with the symptoms of occasional bloody discharge from nose and a constant feeling of needing to "pop" my right ear from pressure build up. He put a scope up nose and couldn't see anything and diagnosed me with sinusitis caused by allergies. I have since moved back to Australia and started having problems with double vision so I went and saw a GP who referred me to an Opthamologist. He sent me for an MRI and discovered that I had stage IV NPC.

    My issue is that my cancer has spread up into the optic chaism and wrapped around several cranial nerves and up against the brain stem. There is a high risk of me losing eyesight from radiation which obviously concerns me greatly. I would obviously chose my life over my eyesight but it is still a pretty daunting thought to lose my eyesight.

    I am currently 1/2 way through my second round of chemo (cistplatin and fluorouracil) and the chemo has certainly relieved a lot of my symptoms. I was getting loss of sensation down one side of my face due to impacting the 5th cranial nerve but that has completely gone and the constant pressure has relieved considerably. My eyes have improved a lot as well so the hope is that the tumor has shrunk enough to reduce the risk of damaging the nerves in the optic chaism. I have an MRI on Friday to hopefully give some positive news.

    I had the mask made up yesterday and my radiation is due to start on July 18th. The positive that I have taken out of all this is that this type of cancer tends to respond really well to treatment and therefor has very high survival rate compared to other types of cancers. Just look at the amount of survivors on these forums. I know how difficult it is for an adult to go through so I can only imagine how difficult it must be for a 12yr old to go through. It is a road that I have only just started down myself but know it will be a tough few months ahead but I take comfort in the fact that I know it is all for a good reason.

    Adrian

    Almost 1/2 way
    It has been great being able to hear your stories. I am sorry to hear about your cancer, but am grateful to have hope from others who have been through this. Like you, my daughter struggled with this for mos. before getting the news, which put her at stage 4. Doctors kept putting her on antibiotics, until finally I lost it, and they did more tests. She is now 19 treatments into her radiation and her neck is really red, but not in too much pain. She has 3 chemo treatments down and 2 left. Her final treatments will end in the middle of aug., and then we wait 6 wks. before they check to make sure she is better. Her tumor was large but said it is reacting very well to the chemo. Her tumor had traces of the EBV virus, did yours? Our doctors feel good about her treatment, but continue to remind me just how difficult this treatment is. She has a feeding tube, she can still eat, but her problem is she just isn't hungry. To make matters worse we are out of state for treatment, better treatment, but she misses her family and friends terribly (as do I). I wish you luck with your treatment, it will get better. Maybe she can help inspire you when your feeling down!