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Welcome to Hogwarts~ A Primer for the New Ones to our Family
So many new ones have joined our family of Kindred Spirits lately~we sigh that you have had to find us, but of course welcome you with open ♥

You may have noticed, or even posted about the fact that many of our friends, family members, co-workers and neighbors just don't "get it" and make what seem to be ( and sometimes ARE!) insensitive, rude, and dismissive comments about us and how we look, etc.

You don't know me well, but if you hang around the boards long enough,you will notice 2 things about me~I "steal" quotes that I like and apply them to our lives regularly, and I also liken our lives to books/movies! Who knew we would be Stars?! :-) And today, we are friends and schoolmates with no less than Harry Potter and Hermione and the entire gang!

So~ welcome to CSN, also known as Hogwarts~ the boarding school for witches and wizards! Like you, we were truly surprised when we realized that we would be leaving the lives we had known to enter a place so strange and unknown to us. Upon arriving, we were shocked to see how many witches and wizards already live here~ we thought it would be a tiny place, and that we would be isolated and alone. But No! Freshman, Sophomores, Juniors and Seniors, along with a host of professors surrounded us. Though it was frightening being the new one, we looked to the upperclassmen, those graduating, wondering if we would ever survive the curriculum.

Eventually, we settled in, and made good friends with other witches and wizards! Turns out, it's alot like any old school, after all! We know who the smart ones are, the social butterflies, the competitive one, the shy ones, the troubled ones, etc. We come into "home room", say hello to everyone, and hang out with our friends!

Our aforementioned families/friends/coworkers who don't "get it" are, of course, The Muggles. It isn't their fault~they are not part of the Hogwart student body and they really don't know quite how to relate to us. They look at us through different eyes, they are a bit afraid of us, puzzled by changes they see in us, and they want us back the way we were BEFORE we were tapped by the faculty at Hogwarts. Some of our Muggle family members are proud of the achievements we make, and they don't mind meeting our classmates. But some...well, they distance themselves and can't bring themselves to stay connected . It is discouraging...

So, take your seat here at Hogwarts! Know that those here with you are very much like you in ways you never imagined. You are indeed different, but that doesn't make you any less valuable. Educate yourself while you are here,and join in with the extra-curricular activities ! We exchange holiday ornaments, we celebrate birthdays, we visit each other, and most of all, we communicate and connect in important, life-long ways.

Oh, and feel free to borrow the notes and books you find here~ we are all willing to share what we learned in the previous semesters!! Asking questions and copying is actually encouraged!

Hugs,
Chen♥
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  • Heatherbelle
    Heatherbelle Member Posts: 1,226 Member
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    you are awesome my friend
    you are awesome my friend :)
    just thought you should know.
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
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    you are awesome my friend
    you are awesome my friend :)
    just thought you should know.

    Awwwww, Heather, thank you!
    Awwwww, Heather, thank you! You are a helluva woman yourself~ and I LOVE the new picture! Between here and FB, I feel as if I know you and your darling girls. ((((hugs)))

    Chen
  • disneyfan2008
    disneyfan2008 Member Posts: 6,583 Member
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    love it...Hogwarts
    too funny....we all need a good laugh around here right?
  • MAJW
    MAJW Member Posts: 2,510 Member
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    Well put!
    What a way to describe "us" and "them!". Keep up the good work, Chen!
  • MyTurnNow
    MyTurnNow Member Posts: 2,686 Member
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    Thanks, Chen
    What a GREAT idea to post this occasionally. I have read it a couple of times and it is full of information in such a wonderful format. You ROCK!!
  • MAJW
    MAJW Member Posts: 2,510 Member
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    UT OH!
    Heavens! I think I may have accidently flagged someone's post..... I got a iPad for my b/day...keyboard is very,very sensitive and I'm still trying to get the hang of this thing! So let me apologize if I did flag someone...yikes!

    Nancy
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
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    MyTurnNow said:

    Thanks, Chen
    What a GREAT idea to post this occasionally. I have read it a couple of times and it is full of information in such a wonderful format. You ROCK!!

    Thanks, sisters! And it is
    Thanks, sisters! And it is great to be able to Copy and Paste it and not have to have the 60+ previous comments to have to wade through! Love that I am sorta, kinda figuring out the Internet! LOL
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
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    MAJW said:

    UT OH!
    Heavens! I think I may have accidently flagged someone's post..... I got a iPad for my b/day...keyboard is very,very sensitive and I'm still trying to get the hang of this thing! So let me apologize if I did flag someone...yikes!

    Nancy

    LOL Nancy~ it reminds me of
    LOL Nancy~ it reminds me of the time I flagged MY OWN post!
  • Heatherbelle
    Heatherbelle Member Posts: 1,226 Member
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    chenheart said:

    Awwwww, Heather, thank you!
    Awwwww, Heather, thank you! You are a helluva woman yourself~ and I LOVE the new picture! Between here and FB, I feel as if I know you and your darling girls. ((((hugs)))

    Chen

    I feel as if we know each
    I feel as if we know each other also, and I can't wait until our next trip out to CA so you & I can tear up the town ;)
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
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    I feel as if we know each
    I feel as if we know each other also, and I can't wait until our next trip out to CA so you & I can tear up the town ;)

    I was thinking of dieting so
    I was thinking of dieting so to be able to fit into "those jeans", but you have never seen me before, so for all you know, when we finally meet, this IS the best looking I have ever been! LOL I am, however thinking of having an attorney on retainer, just in case we need to be bailed out of some place....
  • cookie97
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    chenheart said:

    LOL Nancy~ it reminds me of
    LOL Nancy~ it reminds me of the time I flagged MY OWN post!

    Cheers....
    Cheers to The Hogwarts and a great 2011!!!!!

    Peace and Love,
    Edie
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
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    cookie97 said:

    Cheers....
    Cheers to The Hogwarts and a great 2011!!!!!

    Peace and Love,
    Edie

    Oh yeah...we could all
    Oh yeah...we could all definitely use a Great 2011!!!!
  • sparkle1
    sparkle1 Member Posts: 242
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    This is a school I didn't
    This is a school I didn't choose, but now that I here - I'm glad. I'm taking plenty of notes.

    Sparkle
  • mollyz
    mollyz Member Posts: 756 Member
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    sparkle1 said:

    This is a school I didn't
    This is a school I didn't choose, but now that I here - I'm glad. I'm taking plenty of notes.

    Sparkle

    I'm glad this site is here
    I'm glad this site is here because when i joined i was lost and I've learned so much with you ladies thank you all. the walk is rough but with people like you we can all get through this. Hugs Hugs Hugs MollyZ
  • betsymorgan
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    I *do* like the Hogwarts analogy
    Very fitting. And thank you to the faculty and the upperclassmen who have been so helpful to me as a freshman!

    betsy
  • Kat11
    Kat11 Member Posts: 1,931 Member
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    I *do* like the Hogwarts analogy
    Very fitting. And thank you to the faculty and the upperclassmen who have been so helpful to me as a freshman!

    betsy

    I have been around for a
    I have been around for a while Hogwarts, I never heard you call us that before. I must be in my second year now. Thank Chen.
  • chenheart
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    Kat11 said:

    I have been around for a
    I have been around for a while Hogwarts, I never heard you call us that before. I must be in my second year now. Thank Chen.

    My pleasure! LOL You must
    My pleasure! LOL You must have been in study hall and missed the announcement or something! LOL
  • VickiSam
    VickiSam Member Posts: 9,079 Member
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    chenheart said:

    My pleasure! LOL You must
    My pleasure! LOL You must have been in study hall and missed the announcement or something! LOL

    Oh my .. I forgot about this posting ! Thanks for
    dusting it off, and re-posting for our new members. Love that Harry Potter!

    Vicki Sam
  • Jean 0609
    Jean 0609 Member Posts: 2,462
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    Thanks for doing this Chen,
    Welcome to all the newbies! You will learn very quickly how great Chen is! She is one of our fearless leaders and I absolutely adore her!

    xoxo,
    Jean
  • Lighthouse_7
    Lighthouse_7 Member Posts: 1,566 Member
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    Jean 0609 said:

    Thanks for doing this Chen,
    Welcome to all the newbies! You will learn very quickly how great Chen is! She is one of our fearless leaders and I absolutely adore her!

    xoxo,
    Jean

    Love it and Chen you're the
    Love it and Chen you're the greatest!