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carolinagirl67
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My sweet husband lost the fight on November 19. He was diagnosed in June 2009 with stage IV Tonsil SCC. We did lots of chemo (five different types) and seven weeks of radiation. It eventually spread to lung, bone, liver. He was the most beautiful man in the world and I will miss him everyday! You all have no idea how much support you gave me and I THANK you for everything over the past year and a half, (Hondo)...Keep fighting y'all, there will be a cure one day! I just know it.

Peace be with you all.
Donna

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Hondo
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I am lost for words

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Pumakitty
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Joined: Mar 2010

I am so sorry for your lost. I can not imagine your pain.

Kathy

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delnative
Posts: 450
Joined: Aug 2009

That's so sad. You and yours will be in my prayers.

--Jim in Delaware

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D Lewis
Posts: 1564
Joined: Jan 2010

So very sorry for your immeasurable loss.

Deb

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Pam M
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Joined: Nov 2009

Donna,
You know we all hoped that it would turn around when we heard the bad news. I'm so sorry it didn't happen. You were one of the posters that really helped a lot when I first started coming to this site (a year ago). You were so upbeat and positive, and your love for your hubby shone through your posts. I thought he was lucky to have you. Wish you had been luckier, and gotten a better chance to keep him.

DJG1
Posts: 122
Joined: Jun 2010

Donna,
I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers as you struggle during this time. I hope you can find some comfort knowing that he is now in a place of peace and watching over you everyday.
Debbie

timreichhart
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Joined: Aug 2010

Donna,
My prayers go out to you and your family on this loss.

Tanager75
Posts: 87
Joined: Aug 2009

Sorry to hear of your loss.

Peace be with you,

mark

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sweetblood22
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Joined: Jan 2010

Please know that you are in my prayers. My heart just sank when I saw your post. I wish I could offer you more than just my prayers.

Hugs,

sweet

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kingcole42005
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Joined: Oct 2010

So sorry for yours and your families loss, sending positive thoughts to you. Shelly

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Glenna M
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Joined: May 2009

My heart broke when I read the title of your post. I avoided reading it for a while but realized that avoiding it wouldn't make it any less real.

Please know that we are all here for you still and will be keeping you and your family in our prayers.

Stay strong,
Glenna

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Scambuster
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Joined: Nov 2009

Donna,

This is very sad news for all of us. I trust you and your family will find some peace. Our thoughts are with you.

Scam

rozaroo
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Joined: Apr 2010

I am so sorry to hear of your dear husband's passing.My thought's & prayer's are with you.

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miccmill
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Joined: May 2010

I'm so very sorry to read of your husbands passing.

It is so evident in your posts how much you loved him and how close you both were.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lisa

Noellesmom
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Joined: Aug 2010

And peace be with you, too.

We all grieve your loss.

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Jan Trinks
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Donna:

I just read your post about your husband. I am so sorry and believe me I truly know what you're going through as I lost Charlie on August 21 which I'm sure you know. You are in my prayers and if there's anything I can do for you just let me know. God Bless! And yes, we must keep fighting on to find cures for this terrible disease but it is true the poem about what cancer cannot do and it will never rob us of our precious memories or the love of our husbands. Take care!

Jan Trinks (Basketcase)

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ekdennie
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

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JUDYV5
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Joined: Jun 2010

So sorry for your loss.

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Greg53
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Donna,

So very sorry to hear of your loss. We are all here for you.

Greg

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luv4lacrosse
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Joined: Jul 2010

I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. My family will pray for you.

Mike

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luv4lacrosse
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Joined: Jul 2010

I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. My family will pray for you.

Mike

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mswijiknyc
Posts: 421
Joined: Oct 2010

lots of love for you. I'm so sorry for your loss

April

sportsman
Posts: 97
Joined: Feb 2010

Donna: My prayers are with you in the loss of your husband. Hopefully there will be a cure for this someday. Let us all put our trust and faith in God. God Bless

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adventurebob
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Joined: Jun 2010

Donna,

I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for allowing us to share your grief and your love and remembrance. My prayers for you and your family.

Bob

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Skiffin16
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Joined: Sep 2009

Sorry to read this...I've followed a lot of your posts and battles that you've both fought.

Thoughts & Prayers,
John

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areomech
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Joined: Sep 2010

Sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers.

Mike

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junklady
Posts: 88
Joined: Aug 2009

Sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. I lost mine on August 29, Just 3 months ago. I feel your pain, it just beaks my heart to hear about all the sadness. I'm missing the love of my life. If you need to talk send me a message. Take care, thinking of you and sending prayers your way.

Peace,
Cyndi

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stevenl
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Joined: Jan 2010

Donna,

Know that you are still loved here and post when you need someone to talk to.
Extreme sorrow for your loss and prayers are going out for you.

With love,
Steve

donna340
Posts: 72
Joined: Nov 2010

So sorry to here about your loss. Sending lots of prayers!

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Kent Cass
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Joined: Nov 2009

As Steve, Hondo, and all, have said- know it is from our hearts. You are Sister, and always will be. The Lord be with you...

Believe

kcass

3Mana
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Joined: Aug 2010

Donna,
So sorry to hear about your husband. It's been a rough year and 1/2 for you both. I also lost my husband in March, so I know exactly how you feel. Pleas accept my sympathy and keep coming here, it helps so much to talk to people who understand what you're going through.
God Bless You & your family. "Carole"

oldcamper
Posts: 27
Joined: Oct 2010

I also have no words, just that you will be in my prayers.

Kevin

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terryscarlett
Posts: 143
Joined: Aug 2010

I am so sorry for your loss, time will heal, but that doesn't help right now. My prayers are with you. There is no good time for such a loss, but around the holidays is the worst. Again I am so sorry. Hang in there.
Terry

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dennis318
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Prayers to you and your Family, We come here to for support for each other to cure and conquer, alot of us, suffered, endured and hope we made it. It's still scary and we hope too conquer cancer for good. Another hole in our family, and will take sometime fill in the spot, You will heal in time, take care. Dennis

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micktissue
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Joined: Dec 2009

I remember being inspired by what you and your husband were dealing with when I joined this forum and facing my own battle. Your spirit, your caregiving, your blog, and your love inspired not only me but my wife and very close caregivers. I am so deeply sorry for your loss and will hold you in the most tender part of my heart.

With much love,

Mick

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Carolinagal
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Joined: May 2010

Donna,
I am so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Cindi

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rush1958
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Joined: Jul 2010

Donna,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You have my thoughts and prayers.

Rush

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skipper85
Posts: 231
Joined: Sep 2010

I am so sorry for your loss. Know that even though your husband has passed he is not gone. He's still in your heart and I'm sure he's watching over you right now.

((((HUGS))))

Skipper

Clearblue
Posts: 188
Joined: Apr 2010

Know that so many here are with you.
I am so very sorry to hear this.
Clear

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