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Jan Trinks
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Hi all:

Basketcase checking in. First, let me say a big thanks to all of your comments, prayers, etc. My brother Richard did pass away at about 3:30 this afternoon. I talked with my sister-in-law last night and she told me this was very hard, a lot harder than she expected. I well know what she means and how she feels. Even though we knew Charlie's situation was not good, we still didn't think he would go as soon as he did and it was a shock. And I just realized with Richard's passing today; it is exactly 8 weeks ago today that Charlie passed away. This is just a little too much to bear, but will make it through because of GOd first, my friends and family and especially y'all, my csn buds (that's what I refer to y'all as). This network is so fantastic and such a comfort to me now and always. Take care. I wish there could be some sort of csn bud gathering or reunion. Y'all are so very dear to me. Love as always, thanks once again and please continue to be in prayer for my brother's family and the rest of us! God Bless!

Jan

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Hondo
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I am so sorry to hear the news, I will keep you and your family in prayer

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miccmill
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I'm so very sorry to read this. I'll pray for you and your family during this very difficult time.

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stevenl
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Prayers have not stopped for you and I will add your family as well.\
God bless,
Steve

Clearblue
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Thoughts are with you
So sorry to hear this news
Clear

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Scambuster
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so sorry to hear this news Jan. Our thoughts and prayers going out to you and you family.

Scam

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sweetblood22
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I am so sorry for your loss, Jan. My continued prayers for you and your family.

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areomech
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My continued prayers for you and your family.

Mike

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Skiffin16
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Very sorry Jan, you are a survivor, though I know times have been very tough for you these last several months. I'm glad that we can be here for you even though it's over the internet..we are by your side. Thoughts, Prayers, Faith, Family, Friends and Buds....

God Bless,
John

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Pam M
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Jan,

I ache for you. You have an awful lot to bear right now; knowing that you can bear it doesn't take the pain away, I know. Very sorry you are going through another hard loss so soon. Hoping for peace and strength for you. Keep us updated on how you're doing.

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Kimba1505
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...you show grace and dignity as you face great losses. Again, you are amazing for keeping all of us in your life, allowing us to offer our prayers and words of sympathy. I am sorry to hear of the passing of your brother Richard as you are still in deep grief of Charlie. Surround yourself with those who you love and who love you...like all of us here...one day at a time.
Kim

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Glenna M
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Sending my deepest sympathies to you and your family. You are an incredible woman who has not only stayed strong for yourself but for all those you love.

Please know that you and your family will always be in my heart andy my prayers.

Stay strong,
Glenna

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JUDYV5
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So sorry to read the sad news. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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Kent Cass
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Prayers are with you going forward, Jan, just as they are and have been.

kcass

MarineE5
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Jan,

No words that I type here can relieve the pain that you and your family feel today. I can only share in all the posts and words that have been posted above. That I have sent Prayers out for all of you.

But, you have already stated in your words how you feel and how you are going to handle everything that has been sent your way. Quote by you ----This is just a little too much to bear, but will make it through because of GOd first, my friends and family and especially y'all, my csn buds (that's what I refer to y'all as).-----.

My Best to You and Everyone Here

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luv2cut1
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Jan:

I am so very sorry to hear about your brother. Please know that all of us here are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers and will be for a long time to come.

Love,
Myka

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dennis318
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My prayers are with you at this difficult time, we are all here for you...Dennis

rozaroo
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I sm so sorry to hear about Richard's passing. This has been such a tough time for you & your family. My deepest sympathy to you all at this difficult time. I will continue to keep you & your family in my prayer's! God Bless!

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delnative
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I'm so sorry to hear this.
Faith will get you through.

--Jim in Delaware

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Jan, I lost my sister to a brain aneurysum some years ago. It a difficult, difficult loss - so fast, so shocking, so unexpected and on top of all you have already been through. My hope and prayer is that you have some peace, respite and uninterrupted time to mourn and regroup. Blessings to you.

Vince

wifeforlife
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So very sorry to hear of your loss and struggles. Praying for you here in Missouri.

Noellesmom
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Jan, I am so sorry to hear of your brother's passing.

As I have said, I am here in Huntsville (thinking you are, too). Let me know of anything I can do to help.

Hugs.

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KristynRuth86
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I also want to say I'm praying for you and your family thru this time, it's so unfair you've had to deal with these 2 losses so close together. Keep God by your side and stay the strong woman that you are.
Lots of Love,
Kristyn

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Pumakitty
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Jan,

I am so sorry that you have to go through yet another loss. I am praying for you and your family. Please know I am sending big hugs your way.

Kathy

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hawk711
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Jan
I too as sorry for your losses. We all will pray for you and hope the healing begins as soon as possible for you. you are in our thoughts.....
Steve

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luv4lacrosse
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Jan, a special prayer has been said from my family to you.

God Bless You

Mike

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survivor31
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Im so sorry for youre lost my prayers go out to you and youre family my deepest sympathy God bless.

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PattyNC
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with deepest sympathy

Patty

team stevens
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Jan,we are so sorry for your loss. Mike & I are praying for you and your family

Kimberly

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dogsrule
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I'm sorry this has happened to you. Offering you strength and support. My prayers are with you.

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