Went to see my counselor on wednesday. I told her I've been having a rough time again and think it's cause of the holidays coming. This will be my 1st thanksgiving & Christmas & New Years without my husband and I know it's going to be very hard. She said to try to remember him by lighting a candle in his memory or placing a setting for him at the table. How can I do that? It's the memories that are hard cause I loved him so much & wasn't ready to give him up. I don't even want to put up a christmas tree or anything. Does anyone have any suggestions or feel the way I do??? "Carole"