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pattyanny
Posts: 523
Joined: Jul 2009

Hi Everyone, I hope you all are doing well, and making progress in you healing.
May God bless you during your struggle. I hope someone can help answer this somewhat incidental question compared to all the life and death posts here.
I need to access my postings, and cannot figure out how to go about doing this.
I have to defend myself in divorce court, and I KNOW I must have whined, screamed, and cried about my lack of supportive husband somewhere along the way. I also want to see when I started eating - rather than just taking liquids. Right now - he is getting the "Husband of the Year" award.
(sigh - as I remember lying in bed begging for a glass of water for my parched, dry, cotton mouth!) Thanks all! Love & Prayers, Patty

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Pam M
Posts: 2194
Joined: Nov 2009

Ow, PattyAnny - sorry you're in this spot.

I don't know how to search on your posts - did you try doing a search (near top right corner, "Search CSN Content" on "pattyanny"? You could try to contact the site management team (CSNCommunity.Specialist@cancer.org). Good luck to you.

OK - just searched for you - it worked. I saw some mentions of your ex under the posts "Reluctant to Post", "Social Security Disability" and "You have been served". Your posts began in August of last year - around then, you first mentioned caregiving for your mom and in-law. I seem to recall another post mentioning your ex, but didn't see it when I scanned the posts that came up in the search. When I read about him eating your food and/or throwing it away, it made me feel like giggling and feeling sad at the same time. Hope you make it through this patch of road as unscathed as possible.

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pattyanny
Posts: 523
Joined: Jul 2009

I have found a few posts, but I think I will try contacting the specialist. Under our names in our pics it counts how many posts we have made. They MUST be somewhere! Lol! I need as much documentation as possible, and now I am glad I "whined & moaned" on a public forum.
Not exactly my style. I just know without friends like you I could not have made it this far! Thanks sooo much for giving me a place to start. Hoping all is well with you, and that you know how much I appreciate you being my friend. God bless you Pam!
Patty - not too fatty now! Hee hee!

P.S Great one Pam M on that SSI Posting! Thanks! ("Get a job" Him eating my food!) Lol!
Good job "Nancy Drew"! ;)

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Pam M
Posts: 2194
Joined: Nov 2009

You've been so helpful here, glad I could return a little help. Funny - I felt grumbly about him all over again looking over old posts. Kinda sad, too, that he was so lame. Hope the techs can find more info for you. Good luck, be brave (we all know you can be brave). Time to share a new quote I like - "Courage today brings strength tomorrow". Have courage through this, too. TY for the blessings - bless YOU, too.

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Glenna M
Posts: 1580
Joined: May 2009

Everyone has already given you what little info I could have so I will just tell you how sorry I am that you have to go through this.

You will be in my prayers.

You're a tough cookie and I know you will win this, you already beat cancer and your ex is no competition for the fighter in you.

Stay well and keep us informed.
Glenna

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pattyanny
Posts: 523
Joined: Jul 2009

Really could use the prayers! Went to service today to a "sister" church about 20 minutes away. Ended up overshooting Old Bridge, NJ and ended up in New Brunswick! Lol! Good thing I leave extra early and plan on getting lost. As the song "Let the Lord Take the Wheel" came on the radio, a police car from Aberdeen, NJ pulled out in front of me. I flagged him down, and he "escorted" me to Old Bridge! I made it just in time, to hear the message - "You may get bloodied thru the fight, but if you trust in Him, you will win" Ahhh! I needed that!
Just thought I would share my impaired navigational story for a chuckle.
But needed to regain my strength to fight! Thanks for the post - I will fight!!!
God bless you! Thanks! Patty

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Glenna M
Posts: 1580
Joined: May 2009

LOL - you crack me up!!! You need a co-pilot, not a GPS, but a real person sitting next to you with a map who can tell you where your turns are ;-) It makes me feel better knowing someone else gets as lost as I do. If it only takes 30 minutes to drive to a destination I leave 90 minutes early.

I still can not believe what your husband is putting you through right now, but remembering some of the things you posted about him earlier I guess I shouldn't be surprised. I hope your sons are doing okay, I know how some parents will try to turn them against the other when going through a divorce. Had a similar situation with my son in law and grandson and very quickly talked with my grandson to let him know that he should not be put in the middle. It was strictly between his mom and dad and he should try not to take sides. My son in law admitted cheating on my daughter yet somehow convinced my grandson that it wasn't his fault - lol - I guess he was raped??? Fortunately things worked out but I still think my grandson is more critical of his mother.

Stay strong and put your fighting panties on!! Please keep us updated, we will all be here to help you through this also.

Prayers, positive thoughts and hugs coming your way.

Glenna

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Scambuster
Posts: 975
Joined: Nov 2009

Patty, if you type pattyanny in the search box (top right) it should list all your posts. Remember some of your posts will be within other peoples topics. It will you a while but as you search through, copy and paste into a word document with spaces and dates so you have a sequence.

Hope this helps.
Scam

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staceya
Posts: 701
Joined: Jan 2010

When you are on the page you want to save press ctrl alt and print screen (the ctr and alt- use the buttons on the left of the keyboard, the print screen button is on the right, 2 rows above the delete button. Have a page in word open, press paste and you will have the screen. This will show that the info was posted on this site. (If that is something you want)If you can't do this and want to, let me know the posts you want done and your email address and I will do it for you and send it to you.
I am sorry you have to go through this, I know how incredibly draining it can be.
Good Luck-Take all the help you can get! Keep us posted on how we can help!!
Stacey

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sweetblood22
Posts: 3230
Joined: Jan 2010

Patty, I'm going to look in my private messages as well and anything I find I will send back to you.

<3

sweet

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pattyanny
Posts: 523
Joined: Jul 2009

I hope you are doing better each day. I found some good posts, but had forgotten about the two giant binders I have documenting the two Nursing Homes my Mom was and is in, and when I was there, meetings etc. That should help to defend my character, since he has been slandering me with mean and vengeful words. It is emotional exhausting. Thanks, as always for your support. Love Patty

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sweetblood22
Posts: 3230
Joined: Jan 2010

Patty, I'm going to look in my private messages as well and anything I find I will send back to you.

<3

sweet

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sweetblood22
Posts: 3230
Joined: Jan 2010

Patty, I'm going to look in my private messages as well and anything I find I will send back to you.

<3

sweet

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pattyanny
Posts: 523
Joined: Jul 2009

Thanks for the "trick"!I will be working tomorrow more on the search, but have some for the lawyer meeting in the a.m. Thanks for the much needed help. Will be in touch, and hope all is well with you! Love & Prayers, Patty

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pattyanny
Posts: 523
Joined: Jul 2009

Been printing out like a nut! Did not know I could copy & paste! Thanks again! You always have the answers!
Bless you, Patty

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sweetblood22
Posts: 3230
Joined: Jan 2010

Looked thru my messages and I didn't have anything from you. I thought I did so I even checked twice. Nothing pertinent. Good luck. I'm sorry he his being such a jerk. My ex new better than to make it worse after he cheated. I filed and gave him my papers to sign which I told him were non negotiable. I was more than fair to him. I got nothing. Just got what I had before marriage. I think he knew he better because he also did not want to get my father pissed.

rozaroo
Posts: 667
Joined: Apr 2010

Sorry you have to go through this! Some spouses can be so sellfish! It is all about them. This is your time & you should not be having to deal through this. His day will come as I believe what go's around comes around! Stay Strong & God Bless!

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