Any gardeners out there?

lindaprocopio
lindaprocopio Member Posts: 1,980
edited March 2014 in Ovarian Cancer #1
Some of you may have read my 'seed box' story on one of my posts. The circle of life and death in a garden allows you to see how natural and inevitable death is for EVERY living thing, not just for us with cancer, but for all of God's living creations. As a life-long organic gardener, I gather the seeds of my plants each year as they wither so that I can complete the circle and plant a new generation of plants to replace the old ones. The oldest raspberry and rose canes must be cut to the ground annually so that the new young canes have the room and sunlight they need to be vigorous. Spent plants and vegetative matter I've cut back, food scraps, and fallen leaves all are composted (along with my bunny's poops!) to make the fertilizer for next year's flowers, fruits, and veggies. I think that because my grandchildren have helped me with these tasks since they were toddlers, that death is very natural and not scary to them. I think my peace with this cancer journey is because I also feel the naturalness and inevitability of death, and it holds no fear for me, none at all.

Soooo, this past week I have been collecting so many seeds from my columbine, dianthus deltoids, and Sweet Williams (Google the names if you want to see what they look like). I've saved all the seeds from these 3 plants that I could possibly need myself. If any of you want some, please post and let me know and I'll get your addresses by email somehow. If you take these seeds, you are making a statement of HOPE, because none of these seeds will bloom before 2011, and the columbine and dianthus may need until 2012 to be mature enough to bloom (Sweet Williams are a biennial and the other 2 are perennials). So you have to work hard at being well and LIVE long enough to see these blooms, okay????? COMMIT to it!! ((((Hugs))))

My gardens are 100% organic and these seeds are very fresh and will have an almost 100% germination rate so plant them thinly so they aren't over-crowded. God's plan is that these particular flowers drop their seed NOW, so when you get the seeds from me, choose a sunny spot and loosen up the soil where you want these to bloom, and plant them right away. (Just sprinkle on the ground and sift a fine very thin dusting of soil over them and water gently.) If you aren't familiar with their leaves, plant in a straight row so you'll be able to tell them from any weeds that spring up! I usually mark my seed rows with a plastic straw cut in half. This summer they will all just be tiny green plants. They all can survive being under snow all winter with no trouble. NEXT year some of the Sweet Williams will bloom and maybe a few of the others, but 2012 will be the year you really see what you've introduced into your garden. And if you collect the seed when these flowers go brown in your garden, my flowers can live on under your care for decades. I like that idea! And if that sounds like WORK to you, these are hardy plants that will self-seed to some degree and you can just let God take care of them and they'll still be fine!

Just so you know, I planted Red Maples this summer and a HICKORY TREE that won't produce its first nuts for at least 20 years!! Now, how's THAT for hope?? That would take a true miracle, but what the heck!

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  • eward
    eward Member Posts: 210
    You are beautiful, Linda.
    You are beautiful, Linda. How generous for you to offer your seeds of hope to all. I have sweet william in my garden now. Is it really easy to spread this plant by clipping and dropping the seeds elsewhere in the garden?

    Thank you for sharing.
    Love,
    Eileen
  • sanam
    sanam Member Posts: 106
    eward said:

    You are beautiful, Linda.
    You are beautiful, Linda. How generous for you to offer your seeds of hope to all. I have sweet william in my garden now. Is it really easy to spread this plant by clipping and dropping the seeds elsewhere in the garden?

    Thank you for sharing.
    Love,
    Eileen

    Impressive!
    Linda
    reading your post was just like reading a very beauriful story .
    My Mom loves flowers and this winter that she was sick ,she was more sad about them than herself that she couldn't take care of them.I am not a garden person but I did whatever I could to rescue them and now they are all healthy and beautiful and my mom is strong enough to take care of them.
    She had some simple lucky bamboos in her bedroom and after she was diagnosed they started withdrawing in a very strange way.I was feeling that she is making a link between them and herself.I went and bought some brand new and healthy bambos for her.She didn't want them and she didn't let me throw the old bamboos away.They were all yellowish and hard.
    She took care of the only green leaf in each one and let me tell you:THEY SURVIVED.In the begining of spring she put them in soil which is unusual for bambos.Every time that I look at them I remember how hard she tried to keep them.SHE MUST HAVE HAD HOPE.And now I understand....
    Thanks
  • kayandok
    kayandok Member Posts: 1,202 Member
    Beautiful!
    If I lived in the US and were a garden person I would take you up on the seed offer. But I do receive the huge dose of hope I feel when I read this!
    Hugs,
    kathleen
  • queenieb52
    queenieb52 Member Posts: 48 Member
    Very Inspiring
    Linda...your garden story is very inspiring- to all who read it I'm sure. I live in South Florida now, but lived in upstate NY most of my life....I would love a red maple outside my door!! I used to spend all available 'good weather' time outside in my flower beds when I lived there & used to have Sweet Williams. Will they grow/survive in this sub-tropical climate? I know a lot of the plants I had there won't- I so miss lilacs!! I didn't work outside at all here last summer because the heat here bothered me so much, I'm guessing because of the chemo & general lack of energy after surgery. This year is better- health wise- so far....but I kinda wish I was still up in NY. I had 5 15 ft. flower beds at the edge of our yard that I was in all season, and I miss working in them. It is so theraputic & hopeful! Thanks for your inspiration! (I actually just planted some crackerjack Marigolds in a pot to see how they'll do...! they are perennial also)
    Have a great day!
    Beth
  • Barbara53
    Barbara53 Member Posts: 652
    obsessive gardener
    Linda, I'm another obsessed organic gardener, and I think its true that those of us who work with nature have a better understanding of the struggles of life and the honor of death. I'll be gathering and sowing my own Sweet William seeds in a week or so -- they're so easy and dependable that we should make them our official flower. I have some that manage to survive in a bed a peppermint! I've taken seeds with me to three gardens in three states in the last 10 years, and left a trail of flowers behind.

    One thing about being an organic gardener. If you're struck down by lightning tomorrow, you know you left the world a more beautiful and productive place.
  • nancy591
    nancy591 Member Posts: 1,027 Member

    Very Inspiring
    Linda...your garden story is very inspiring- to all who read it I'm sure. I live in South Florida now, but lived in upstate NY most of my life....I would love a red maple outside my door!! I used to spend all available 'good weather' time outside in my flower beds when I lived there & used to have Sweet Williams. Will they grow/survive in this sub-tropical climate? I know a lot of the plants I had there won't- I so miss lilacs!! I didn't work outside at all here last summer because the heat here bothered me so much, I'm guessing because of the chemo & general lack of energy after surgery. This year is better- health wise- so far....but I kinda wish I was still up in NY. I had 5 15 ft. flower beds at the edge of our yard that I was in all season, and I miss working in them. It is so theraputic & hopeful! Thanks for your inspiration! (I actually just planted some crackerjack Marigolds in a pot to see how they'll do...! they are perennial also)
    Have a great day!
    Beth

    upstate NY
    Hi Beth,

    I am originally from NYC but moved upstate 23yrs ago. Where upstate NY are you from? I live in Sullivan County. This is the first year I started a garden. I have 4 very large flower beds. I do have sweet william too. My favorites are black eyed susan. I planted several they have bloomed yet.
  • lindaprocopio
    lindaprocopio Member Posts: 1,980
    Barbara53 said:

    obsessive gardener
    Linda, I'm another obsessed organic gardener, and I think its true that those of us who work with nature have a better understanding of the struggles of life and the honor of death. I'll be gathering and sowing my own Sweet William seeds in a week or so -- they're so easy and dependable that we should make them our official flower. I have some that manage to survive in a bed a peppermint! I've taken seeds with me to three gardens in three states in the last 10 years, and left a trail of flowers behind.

    One thing about being an organic gardener. If you're struck down by lightning tomorrow, you know you left the world a more beautiful and productive place.

    Everyone: please email me your mailing addresses!
    My email is lindapro@ptd.net. Please email me your mailing addresses and I'll send you each some of all 3 kinds. I don't know how they'll do in the south, but they're tough old girls, just like us, and I'll bet they do fine. I have to make-up my steroid-red round face and get over to the clinic for a Nuepogen shot,...but email me! SO happy to share the bounty!
  • queenieb52
    queenieb52 Member Posts: 48 Member
    nancy591 said:

    upstate NY
    Hi Beth,

    I am originally from NYC but moved upstate 23yrs ago. Where upstate NY are you from? I live in Sullivan County. This is the first year I started a garden. I have 4 very large flower beds. I do have sweet william too. My favorites are black eyed susan. I planted several they have bloomed yet.

    Hello!
    Hi Nancy! I lived in western upstate NY...between Syracuse & Rochester. Right in the snow belt! Now I live down by West Palm Beach...talk about culture shock!My husband & I moved here in Oct. '06...unfortunately he passed away July '07. I have always had a thing for flowers...just love all the colors. I used to have a tulip garden, & I planted Dahlias, Zinnia's, Pansys...every yr I would add! when my husband started having health problems from his diabetes in '03, I finally had to resort to day lilies- we had them wild behind our house- so we just dug some up & transplanted them! But they came up religiously every yr, with minimal care.I'm sure you've seen the wild orange ones...they grow all over upstate NY. Usually along side the roads...wet places. Where I lived the black eyed susan grew wild too. South Florida has a lot of various plants & flowers, but I still miss somethings...like the broad leaf maples/red maples we had! On the plus side...I no longer have to scrape my car off or shovel snow! LOL
  • hockeygolf7
    hockeygolf7 Member Posts: 52

  • msfanciful
    msfanciful Member Posts: 559
    Hi Linda,
    What a grand

    Hi Linda,

    What a grand idea!

    It's great to know I'm not the only one planting various plants in hopes of being around in the next few years to see them mature!

    I just planted 2 Mexican Cypress trees ( the grow very fast I guess, maturity in about 7-10 years). I wanted to plant a great oak tree but they are such slow growers and I want to be around to see my trees mature. :-)

    I would love to have some of your seedlings and what a wonderful feeling it would be to know that your plants are a direct testimony of Linda from Linda. I just love that idea!

    I will send you my address to you via fb maybe? So look for me.


    You know what? After seeing that you planted a hickory tree, I AM going to go out and plant a great oak once this sweltering summer ends. After all...what the heck!

    You're the greatest!


    Sharon