im here because i dont know where else to go for help.
i met a man 3 months ago,
it was love at first sight for both of us and we have been so close,until this weeekend,
he is a cancer survivor .bladder cancer
he was the most outgoing funny loving romantic man ive ever met ,and i was wrapped up in this new love and have never been so happy,
on sunday evening we talked and he was not him self,its been painful to talk to him as i couldnt understand where the mani knew had gone.
i spoke to him yesterday, he had had 2 rows with his brother and also been biting heads off at work.
he said we should cool off and let him get back to his old self.
so i told him i would not contact him in any way but i will be there for him if he needs me.
can any one tell me is this an after effect of the cancer.
i really cant believe someone can change so much in a day,
what should i do .is there anything i should have said or done to help.
i really am finding it so hard ,
thank you all xxx