Mastectomy is tomorrow, and advice?

Lynda53
Lynda53 Member Posts: 210
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
I have enjoyed this site and been inspired by so many, so I am looking again!
Long 6 months, chemo allegies, work issues,Mom broke both feet etc, all handable!
Surgery is tomorrow am, a day or two in the hospital followed by radiation. Naturally I have become a nervous wreck and have failed on getting my much needed rest. I will have a caregiver for a week, and follow up in 2 weeks and then 6 weeks of rads, some PT and maybe 3-4 weeks out of work.
Thoughts?
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  • pattimc
    pattimc Member Posts: 431
    Hope all goes well
    Good luck with the mastectomy. I had a lumpectomy so I really have no advice. I just pray that all goes well for you!
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  • Lynda53
    Lynda53 Member Posts: 210
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    mstar thanks for the advice,my biggest
    concern is that this dx resulted in finding heart issues, a/fib, rapid beat and more. Although I do not have blockages my heart rate is still very high abd bp very low. Cardio wants to think about some surgery after the surgery, I really do not want anymore, but I am so short of breath and tired tired. My gardens are waitng for my attention!
    Well all the "specialists" will be on hand tomorrow and they believe I will be fine.
    Peace
  • Lynda53 said:

    mstar thanks for the advice,my biggest
    concern is that this dx resulted in finding heart issues, a/fib, rapid beat and more. Although I do not have blockages my heart rate is still very high abd bp very low. Cardio wants to think about some surgery after the surgery, I really do not want anymore, but I am so short of breath and tired tired. My gardens are waitng for my attention!
    Well all the "specialists" will be on hand tomorrow and they believe I will be fine.
    Peace

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  • MyTurnNow
    MyTurnNow Member Posts: 2,686 Member
    I just bumped up the thread
    I just bumped up the thread with exercises from m-star. It's titled "questions from a newcomer".
  • MyTurnNow said:

    I just bumped up the thread
    I just bumped up the thread with exercises from m-star. It's titled "questions from a newcomer".

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  • Lynda53
    Lynda53 Member Posts: 210
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    heavens, Imma tired reading them! thanks
    I am sure my surgeon will have similar
  • Lynda53 said:

    heavens, Imma tired reading them! thanks
    I am sure my surgeon will have similar

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  • katznc
    katznc Member Posts: 70
    one thing at a time
    Hi I am just home from my mastectomy and am doing ok. One thing at a time is good advise and for you it is tomorrow at this time it will be done and you will awake and going to your room. Stool softners are a must if you are taking any pain meds. I have an OnQ pump which is a wonderful thing. It pushs novicane type drugs up and around my incision and makes it numb. That comes out tomorrow. My cami has pockets for the drain bulbs and that works really well also. I walked a little outside this morning and took a shower. My nurses suggested cling wrap for showers. It worked pretty good also.Good luck with your surgery and just take one step at a time.
  • Ritzy
    Ritzy Member Posts: 4,381 Member
    pattimc said:

    Hope all goes well
    Good luck with the mastectomy. I had a lumpectomy so I really have no advice. I just pray that all goes well for you!

    Wishing you good luck with
    Wishing you good luck with your surgery tomorrow!


    Sue :)
  • MyTurnNow
    MyTurnNow Member Posts: 2,686 Member
    Lynda, I just wanted to wish
    Lynda, I just wanted to wish you a successful surgery tomorrow. My only recommendation would be do not over do it. Just rest and recuperate and let others take care of you. Please let us know how you are doing. Good luck and ((((hugs)))) being sent your way!!
  • New Flower
    New Flower Member Posts: 4,294
    Ritzy said:

    Wishing you good luck with
    Wishing you good luck with your surgery tomorrow!


    Sue :)

    Wishing you good luck tomorrow
    My thoughts will be with you tomorrow. Ask your surgeon when you can start stretches. Depending on your lymph nodes removal and stitches healing you will be given your own timeframe. Advice:prepare button shorts, food, and have a rest.
    Hugs,
    New flower
  • New Flower
    New Flower Member Posts: 4,294
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    Start for stretches could be different if lymph nodes removed
    I was given ok and shown special stretches two weeks after radical mastectomy with immediate reconstruction. Under armpit Stitches need to be healed and staples taken off.
  • DianeBC
    DianeBC Member Posts: 3,881 Member
    MyTurnNow said:

    I just bumped up the thread
    I just bumped up the thread with exercises from m-star. It's titled "questions from a newcomer".

    Good luck to you! Keep us
    Good luck to you! Keep us updated!
  • Miss Murphy
    Miss Murphy Member Posts: 302
    MyTurnNow said:

    Lynda, I just wanted to wish
    Lynda, I just wanted to wish you a successful surgery tomorrow. My only recommendation would be do not over do it. Just rest and recuperate and let others take care of you. Please let us know how you are doing. Good luck and ((((hugs)))) being sent your way!!

    Wishing you a Quick Recovery
    Hi!

    Good luck tomorrow - it will be over before you know it and you will be back in the comfort of your home. You have been given lots of good suggestions. I got several exercises from the surgeon but not to the extent of previous posts. I did those faithfully and as soon as the drain came out, I started back to my yoga and the elliptical. For that first week with the drain, I drank lots of water, walked, and let others take care of me! Things that button down the front are a must. Also pillows to prop me and my left arm up helped. We didn't have one of those study pillows but one would have come in handy( we've since gotten one in the fall when we saw them in a store during back to school shopping.) I just hope you have my pain free recovery. I didn't need pain meds after the pills they gave me early evening. I took Tylenol for maybe a day and that was it.

    All of us are sending positive thoughts your way. Take good care.
  • canoegirl
    canoegirl Member Posts: 169
    Good Luck!
    Good luck tomorrow. Looks like you got lots of good advice here. Let me just say how important the stool softeners can be. I didn't use the pain meds much, but came home from surgery constipated...actually became a huge problem. I used docusate (not sure on the spelling), but found that Senecot worked better for me (it's over the counter).

    Also, the pillows are great advice and start stretching right away.

    You'll do great!
    Hugs,
    Marcy
  • Alexis F
    Alexis F Member Posts: 3,598
    Lynda53 said:

    mstar thanks for the advice,my biggest
    concern is that this dx resulted in finding heart issues, a/fib, rapid beat and more. Although I do not have blockages my heart rate is still very high abd bp very low. Cardio wants to think about some surgery after the surgery, I really do not want anymore, but I am so short of breath and tired tired. My gardens are waitng for my attention!
    Well all the "specialists" will be on hand tomorrow and they believe I will be fine.
    Peace

    I didn't have a mastectomy,
    I didn't have a mastectomy, so, I couldn't offer advice. But, I want to offer prayers and strength to you!


    Lex♥
  • n01kar
    n01kar Member Posts: 26
    good luck
    Having undergone 2 mastecomies in a space of 6 yrs, the best advice i can give you is to take 1 day at a time. The faster you get out of bed and start moving around, the easier and quicker the recovery. Dont baby the arm of the mastectomy, and do the postop exercises as soon as your are permitted to. Also remember to take colace if you are on any narcotic pain medications if you tend to get constipated quickly. The quickest way to bounce back is more of a mind game that a physical one. My 2nd mastectomy was last october and i was feeling like myself in 2-3 days compared to my 1st, 6 yrs ago, it took me a good week or even more to feel ok. The procedure has gotten quite advanced, so there is less down time

    All the best and keep smiling
  • Sunrae
    Sunrae Member Posts: 808
    n01kar said:

    good luck
    Having undergone 2 mastecomies in a space of 6 yrs, the best advice i can give you is to take 1 day at a time. The faster you get out of bed and start moving around, the easier and quicker the recovery. Dont baby the arm of the mastectomy, and do the postop exercises as soon as your are permitted to. Also remember to take colace if you are on any narcotic pain medications if you tend to get constipated quickly. The quickest way to bounce back is more of a mind game that a physical one. My 2nd mastectomy was last october and i was feeling like myself in 2-3 days compared to my 1st, 6 yrs ago, it took me a good week or even more to feel ok. The procedure has gotten quite advanced, so there is less down time

    All the best and keep smiling

    Hi Lynda, I just found your
    Hi Lynda, I just found your post and wanted to join with all the others in wishing you well on your surgery tomorrow and hope you heal up quickly. My masectomy is coming in a couple of weeks and I also have heart blockage in 2 arteries. Cardiologist opened up one artery enough for me to have the surgery but I'm going to a new cardiologist and wanted a second opinion. My old dr can't go the the hospital where I'm having my surgery so that's why I need another cardiologist. As of today, first I have the masectomy, then rads, then will have to have some more heart work after I'm thru all this. Again, sending you prayers and hugs on a good recovery. Please post later and let us know how you're doing.