Feb 06, 2010 - 3:46 am
im 24, i lost my mom last August which is 6 months ago but its surreal that she has been gone because I still go drive to my dads sometimes thinkingshe is still around. Today was supposed to be her 63rd bday and she is now gone, but i feel compelled to do something for her bday at least in her memory. I am as hurt as anyone, but it is also mostly because of my stepdad. You see, my stepdad lost his mom two years ago, then now my mom is gone too so i feel like he is all by himself now except for me and his other two older stepsons. They both got families, I do not however and eventually i feel like i will get older and older and have my own life and i feel more and more sad for him. Its really terrible when special dates come by like her bday, xmas, thnksgiving, because u are forced to think about it and it hurts even more.
What can do for my stepdad so we can have a better tomorrow about dealing with our loss and what do u normally do to celebrate a lost loveone? I also want to ask if you are around my age, how to do you really deal with everyday because i still feel surreal about not having her around anymore.