Jan 19, 2010 - 9:06 pm
I am sitting here thinking of how to put this so it doesn't sound like I have lost my mind and have decided that there is no way no make this sound less weird but obviously I am looking for feedback. I believe in life after death and in reincarnation. From the time I met my husband we have had a strong bond to the extent that if something happened to him I would feel it and so I thought that his death would be hard to bear because that bond (which I felt in my heart) would be broken. Well, hubby passed away 6 weeks ago and I still feel his presence very strongly. I am told by my grief counsellor that I need to eventually make my peace with his death but thats kinda hard when he's here. Because I believe in reincarnation, I kind of thought he'd have moved on to his next life by now. It would be nice to have him by my side for the rest of my life but I reckon my counsellor will think that unhealthy. So how would you reconcile a belief of an after-life with the grieving process.