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newbride
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Joined: Jul 2009

Thank you to everyone on the board. I just wanted to let you know that sadly, my husband passed away at 3:00 a.m. this morning. I don't think I could have gotten through the past several months without all of you.

Dazey
Posts: 86
Joined: Sep 2009

May the angels surround you with their wings and may old friends and new ones, help you through this difficult time. Dazey

dcsecs
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Joined: Nov 2009

So sorry to hear about your husband. I will keep you in my prayers.

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pattyanny
Posts: 523
Joined: Jul 2009

My heart and prayers go out to you newbride. I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you.

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junklady
Posts: 88
Joined: Aug 2009

Sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sadness. Hugs

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fishingirl
Posts: 188
Joined: Nov 2009

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. May you meet again, in heaven. Try to carry on,head held high and be strong till then.

Cindy

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Kent Cass
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Joined: Nov 2009

All of our hearts are with you.

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delnative
Posts: 452
Joined: Aug 2009

I am so sorry to hear that.
You and yours will be in my prayers ... and I'm sure you'll be in the prayers of more people than you'll ever know.
God be with you.

--Jim in Delaware

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Hondo
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Joined: Apr 2009

I am deeply sadden by the news, I am praying for you

newbride
Posts: 142
Joined: Jul 2009

Thank you for everything. We never got the chance to call the doctor you told us about. In the end this cancer for Peter was a monster! The tumors just grew by the moment - you could actually see it day to day. The tumors in his nose were hanging down to his lip and the one in his mouth was the size of a baseball. The one on his neck looked like someone implanted 2 golf balls side by side. Even the funeral home said in all their years they had never seen anything like this.

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thegirlfriend
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Joined: Sep 2009

I dont think there is anything that I can say to express my sympathies to you or to help you in these first new hours that he is gone. I am so sorry for your loss, as I know you did not have alot of time as a married couple. But you are true to your vows, in sickness and in health till death parted you. I bet you didnt think you were as strong as you were in his last weeks, days, and hours. He was remarkably fortunate to have you as his life partner no matter what was happening with him. Based on your description, I wonder if there is some relief you feel for him.
I often wondered how you were doing, and how your husband was dealing. Thank you for allowing all on this board to know your very personal update. Your posts were one of the first I read after signing on. I would think you would still be able to offer insight and experience despite the outcome, so please dont disappear.

THank you again for letting us all know....

Kathy

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pk
Posts: 192
Joined: Aug 2009

This is such sad news for all of us. We know how you all struggled with this via your posts. Please know that you are family here, and we all grieve with you. Blessings on you as you go forward. PK

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Scambuster
Posts: 975
Joined: Nov 2009

Dear New Bride,

I have just now retraced your journey and am so sorry to hear your news. This horrible disease does not discriminate and your story has touched me and made me more grateful for each day and I am so much more thankful for my outcome from treatments.

Sometimes our questions cannot be answered on this earth.

My thoughts are with you and your family as you pass through this difficult period of loss and I am wishing that you find peace and brightness in your future.

Sincerest regards
Scambuster

bettvan16
Posts: 14
Joined: May 2009

New Bride, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I lost my husband of 11 years on Oct. 21 after a year long fight (and I do mean fight) with head and neck cancer. We did all the right things but once the tumors in his mouth and nose started metastisizing, there was nothing more that could be done. He was so brave, never complained. Let this be a lesson to make me a stronger person. I was so thankful I retired in April and was able to be his care giver during this time. I have not commented on this sight for several months but I want everyone to know they have been such an inspiration to me and pray that everyone keeps up the fight. My prayers are with each and everyone of you.

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SIRENAF42
Posts: 204
Joined: Oct 2008

My heart is saddened to hear we lost yeat another person to this awful disease. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. No words can ease your grief, just know that we all care for one another and have walked in each others shoes at one point. You are never alone!!

Sirena

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carolinagirl67
Posts: 153
Joined: Jul 2009

Not a day has gone by that I have not thought about you and your husband and wondered what you were facing. You are such a strong person and have given me strength. Peace be with you during this time of greif and know that my heart goes out to you. Donna

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SmithMama2
Posts: 48
Joined: Oct 2009

Dear New Bride,

May you be encircled by friends and family, especially during these days, weeks, months, and years ahead.
May you find peace in the knowledge that your husband loved you dearly.
May you remember your happy days together more than the painful days.
May it comfort you to know that your husband is now at peace and without pain.

Big hugs and much love,
Karen

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Jan Trinks
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Joined: Apr 2009

Dear New:

Just read about your loss. I am so sorry. You will be in our thoughts and prayers. Again I am so sorry and I know how it is especially at this time of year. We lost my brother the day after Thanksgiving last year (he was a Viet Nam Vet and had lots of problems and was in the VA Hospital from June 2008 until he died 11/28/08; we had cared for him for 12 years) and my husband started his chemo on Dec. 1 of last year. He also sends his sympathy. God be with you.

Love,

Jan and Charlie Trinks

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