Now he thinks he's gay?

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tasha_111

Posts: 1941
Joined: Oct 2008

November 6, 2009 - 9:50pm

6 years together! Someone calls him a f a g. on yahoo and he calls me into the room to ask if I think he might be????????????

For Goodness Sake, How much more?

Sigh Jxxxxxxxxxxx

chenheart

Posts: 5171
Joined: Apr 2003

November 6, 2009 - 11:22pm

Silly Woman! You're from

Silly Woman! You're from England...maybe they meant he's Smokin Hot! Doesn't F.ag mean Cigarettes on that side of the Pond???? LOL LOL LOL

Just when you think you have everything figured out, they change the rules on ya! HA!
:-)

Either that, or he was posting about the Queen he used to live with ( you of course) and someone just assumed he was with a guy......

Hugs,
C♥

chenheart

Posts: 5171
Joined: Apr 2003

November 6, 2009 - 11:24pm

Silly Woman! You're from

Double Post!!!! Grrrrrr

Angie2U

Posts: 2156
Joined: Sep 2009

November 6, 2009 - 11:28pm

LOL. So, you are back with

LOL. So, you are back with that guy Tasha? Hope he treats you better if you are.

Angie

chenheart

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Joined: Apr 2003

November 8, 2009 - 10:57am

Oh My Angie....I just

Oh My Angie....I just noticed that! I honestly thought it said he CALLED her to ask about it~ after your answer, I re-read it and indeed it says he called her INTO THE ROOM. Tash? Did I miss some info while I was caring for my niece in Nor Cal and without Internet access???

Now I'm gonna worry...seriously. And, for the newcomers among us~ this is not about Gay or Straight~ those of us who know and love our Turquoise Goddess Tasha also know that she was in an abusive relationship for much too long, and it took courage and fear and emotional uncertainty for her to make the move out! So, when we notice she may be back with him, that is our concern, not if he is gay or straight! That may indeed be an issue for Tasha, but the reason we are worried about her is not because of any orientation, but because of the possibility of revisiting abuse. I just wanted to put that out there.

Hugs,
C♥

Angie2U

Posts: 2156
Joined: Sep 2009

November 10, 2009 - 11:04am

I know Claudia. Can't

I know Claudia. Can't believe I read that myself. I thought she left that abuser for good.

roseann4

Posts: 886
Joined: Sep 2009

November 7, 2009 - 7:46am

Did this really happen?

I can't tell by the responses if this really happened. Did your guy really tell you he thinks he might be gay? If so, I would assume he has an issue with his identity. I have a female friend who discovered she was gay after being married for several years. She had no idea what normal attraction was so when she met a man who she loved as a person, she thought that was love. It was only after she was in theropy that she discovered that she was sexually attracted to women.

If this is really true, get that guy into theropy. No sense trying to continue a relationship which may bring you even more pain in the future.

I'm sorry this has happened. Uncertainty is more difficult than knowing.

Roseann

xskeetshooter

Posts: 172
Joined: Aug 2009

November 8, 2009 - 6:10am

omg

eneogh to worry about, just put your strength in getting better.and take the nagative bs out of your life

survivorbc09

Posts: 3462
Joined: Jun 2009

November 9, 2009 - 11:50am

You are back with that creep

You are back with that creep Tasha? Geesh, why? And, we thought you were doing so well.

jennytwist

Posts: 533
Joined: Sep 2009

November 8, 2009 - 12:12pm

been there, done that....

well sorta - he never thought he was gay. From reading the posts it sounds like I can identify with being in an abusive realationship. I know it takes courage to get out! It took me way too long and I hurt my kids (not physically) and mostly me (both physically & mentally) in process! Anyway, wherever you are in the relationship - please stay safe - we are here for you and just want you to stay that way! From the posts, I can tell you are so loved and everyone is concerned.
...maybe if he's gay, that's your ticket out for good ... ????
..if you ever want my whole story - just ask.
much love no matter what
-Jenny

Noel

Posts: 2330
Joined: Apr 2009

November 8, 2009 - 7:50pm

OMG, are you still with that

OMG, are you still with that loser? Tasha???????????? What is going on??????

Moopy23

Posts: 1758
Joined: Jan 2009

November 8, 2009 - 9:16pm

Confused Myself

Tash, did I miss something? I thought you'd gotten rid of this guy?? Besides, if he is gay, why was he always pestering you for you-know-what when you were going through hell with treatment and post treatment crap?

Ritzy

Posts: 3425
Joined: Aug 2009

November 8, 2009 - 11:23pm

I agree

This isn't making any sense.

susie09

Posts: 2547
Joined: Jul 2009

November 10, 2009 - 2:08am

What in the world are you

What in the world are you doing back with that crud again? Thought you ditched him.

xskeetshooter

Posts: 172
Joined: Aug 2009

November 9, 2009 - 4:11am

life is too short

you dont need a man that plays head games.but all of us can talk blue about this, but you are the 1 who has to have eneough. do you have such a low self esteem to be with a man like this. lift your head up, and fight the fight that is real,,the cancer

lolad

Posts: 619
Joined: Jun 2009

November 9, 2009 - 9:02am

After

all the hard work and the emotional roller coaster you were on to get away from him you finally did it and got free. Why is he back?

mmontero38

Posts: 1512
Joined: Dec 2007

November 10, 2009 - 9:06am

J, you have me mighty

J, you have me mighty confused. Are you back with that idiotic bloke or what?

Love you and miss you, Lili

PS: When we were in Punta Cana last week, we met a wonderful family from England, who had twin girls my daughter's age and a boy 1 year older. Of course, they became inseperable. But, wanted to tell you what a nice family they were. I'm assuming you must be the same. LOL

lynn1950

Posts: 2208
Joined: Jun 2008

November 10, 2009 - 9:42am

Lili!

elm3544

Posts: 735
Joined: Jul 2009

November 10, 2009 - 10:06am

Tasha

Hope you are good. Waiting for an update from you!

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Now he thinks he's gay?