Now it's getting nasty

tasha_111
tasha_111 Member Posts: 2,072
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
He has finally realised that I AM leaving him, I'm NOT coming back and he can't change my mind by promising me the earth. So he's turning ugly. Anyway... I may not be able to get on the internet for a while, until I get myself sorted out. I may go my friends house for a few days if I don't get the key to the new apartment really soon. Anyway, I'll hopefully catch you all on the conference call tomorrow morning. Hugs to everyone....Jxxxxxxxxxx
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  • tjhay
    tjhay Member Posts: 655
    #2
    Tasha
    You are in my prayers honey, stay strong.
    tjhay
  • jk1952
    jk1952 Member Posts: 613
    #3
    tjhay said:

    Tasha
    You are in my prayers honey, stay strong.
    tjhay

    Hang in there, Julia.
    Joyce


    Hang in there, Julia.

    Joyce
  • tasha_111
    tasha_111 Member Posts: 2,072
    #4
    tjhay said:

    Tasha
    You are in my prayers honey, stay strong.
    tjhay

    Thanks TJ
    Maybe I should send him to you, you could teach him how to throw a PROPER TANTRUM! ROFL...

    Hugs Jxxxxxxxx
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
    #5
    You do what you have to do,
    You do what you have to do, so you can do what you want to do.....


    Hugs,
    Claudia
  • chickad52
    chickad52 Member Posts: 497
    #6
    HANG IN THERE
    hang in there Tasha things will get better!! Hugs, Diane
  • CR1954
    CR1954 Member Posts: 1,390 Member
    #7
    J.......
    Please take care sweetie! Let us know how you're doing as soon as you can, ok?

    Hugs,

    CR
  • lolad
    lolad Member Posts: 670
    #8
    CR1954 said:

    J.......
    Please take care sweetie! Let us know how you're doing as soon as you can, ok?

    Hugs,

    CR

    Tasha
    If he gets too bad you should call and have a restraining order put on his a**! Hes trying his best to get you to back out of your move. Stay strong girl, you can do it. Going to a friends house sounds like it would be a good idea. Be careful and like i said before, stay strong.

    laura
  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
    #9
    I think that you should
    I think that you should definitely go to a friends home. Remember this is a man that has been not only emotionally, but physically and sexually abusive. He does not respect boundaries. And if this is reaching the ugly stage, you cannot know what he might do. I agree with the others that maybe it is time to look into a restraining order. Your safety is very important and I am worried a bit at the stages he is going through. Please be very careful. I cannot emphasize that enough. Go to your friends. It will be good for you on several levels.
    Stef
  • jojo elizapest
    jojo elizapest Member Posts: 122
    #10
    You're almost there...do
    You're almost there...do what you need to do to stay safe
  • tasha_111
    tasha_111 Member Posts: 2,072
    #11
    fauxma said:

    I think that you should
    I think that you should definitely go to a friends home. Remember this is a man that has been not only emotionally, but physically and sexually abusive. He does not respect boundaries. And if this is reaching the ugly stage, you cannot know what he might do. I agree with the others that maybe it is time to look into a restraining order. Your safety is very important and I am worried a bit at the stages he is going through. Please be very careful. I cannot emphasize that enough. Go to your friends. It will be good for you on several levels.
    Stef

    Yup
    I'm outta here a.s,a,p,........Huge hugs to you all........If you don't hear from me within a few days I'm laying down some failsafes...OK.......Look at my expressionspage.......and thanks all so much for just being there and caring so much.

    Jxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Kat11
    Kat11 Member Posts: 1,931 Member
    #12
    jojo elizapest said:

    You're almost there...do
    You're almost there...do what you need to do to stay safe

    Good Luck, praying for you

    Good Luck, praying for you
  • rjjj
    rjjj Member Posts: 1,822 Member
    #13
    tasha_111 said:

    Yup
    I'm outta here a.s,a,p,........Huge hugs to you all........If you don't hear from me within a few days I'm laying down some failsafes...OK.......Look at my expressionspage.......and thanks all so much for just being there and caring so much.

    Jxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Tasha
    I am sorry but I am the biggest worry-wart you will probably ever meet, BUT ...I am very worried, and if we don't hear from you in the next few days..please every day.. can you let us know who to get ahold of, seriously, HE could wack out and do something to hurt you. If he is bothering you, please promise me you will seek help from the domestic violence group or a shelter. I know I could be way out of line, and i hope I am...but that don't stop my worry. please make sure you are safe hun.
    hugs, jackie
  • outdoorgirl
    outdoorgirl Member Posts: 1,565
    #14
    tasha_111 said:

    Yup
    I'm outta here a.s,a,p,........Huge hugs to you all........If you don't hear from me within a few days I'm laying down some failsafes...OK.......Look at my expressionspage.......and thanks all so much for just being there and caring so much.

    Jxxxxxxxxxxxx

    Yeah,Tash
    I'm nervous for you too! I too would get that restraining order!
    Please let us know how you are as soon as you can!
    Prayers for safety for you!
    Patty
  • Kristin N
    Kristin N Member Posts: 1,968 Member
    #15
    Kat11 said:

    Good Luck, praying for you

    Good Luck, praying for you

    Just stay away from him
    Just stay away from him Tasha! Good luck!

    Hugs,

    Kristin
  • Sherry_Ranuio
    Sherry_Ranuio Member Posts: 28
    #16
    You are in my prayers.
    Even though I'm not aware of your situation, I understand what is going on and I want you to know that you are in my prayers!
    God Bless!
    Sherry
  • Kylez
    Kylez Member Posts: 3,761 Member
    #17
    tasha_111 said:

    Thanks TJ
    Maybe I should send him to you, you could teach him how to throw a PROPER TANTRUM! ROFL...

    Hugs Jxxxxxxxx

    Proud of you Tasha. I know
    Proud of you Tasha. I know this is hard for you!

    You just keep it up!

    Kylez
  • Akiss4me
    Akiss4me Member Posts: 2,188
    #18
    Are you there?
    Tasha, if you went to your friends, I may have missed you, but still want you to know that we all love you, care about you, and know what you are doing is probably up there with some of the toughest things in life you have ever had to go through. But don't we go through them to get to the rainbow on the other side? Your rainbow is looking very bright and colorful.....go catch your rainbow and tell us all about it when you do!! We will be here waiting for you. Hugs. (:-) Pammy
  • tommaseena
    tommaseena Member Posts: 1,769
    #19
    Akiss4me said:

    Are you there?
    Tasha, if you went to your friends, I may have missed you, but still want you to know that we all love you, care about you, and know what you are doing is probably up there with some of the toughest things in life you have ever had to go through. But don't we go through them to get to the rainbow on the other side? Your rainbow is looking very bright and colorful.....go catch your rainbow and tell us all about it when you do!! We will be here waiting for you. Hugs. (:-) Pammy

    Tasha/Julia
    Please go stay at your friends house. Call your new landlord and find out when you are getting your key. Don't tell "him" where you are moving to because then things could get messy again.

    Is Jamie still with you? When does he go back to England? I wish he could stay with you.

    You are in my thoughts.

    Your friend, Margo

    P.S. Hope to hear your wonderful accent later this morning.
  • lynn1950
    lynn1950 Member Posts: 2,570
    #20
    Stay strong
    Julia, Men can be such creeps! I know you may already be gone, but just know that there are many of us praying for you with crossed fingers. Love, Lynn
  • tgf
    tgf Member Posts: 950 Member
    #21
    lynn1950 said:

    Stay strong
    Julia, Men can be such creeps! I know you may already be gone, but just know that there are many of us praying for you with crossed fingers. Love, Lynn

    I may be late too
    Tasha,

    I may be late too if you've already gone to your friend's house ... but if you get this message I just want to tell you that all of us will be thinking of you and your safety today. You are taking huge steps toward your independence and freedom so stay strong. You can do it ...

    love,
    teena

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