im told my husband has this rare form of squamous cell...ill give you all the scoop of what is happening and if anybody can add anything please do
- it is ? the 17th of Jan / 09
- he was diagnosed easter / 08
- he was told he was pallitive and had 18? mths to live
- we are rounding a year with this monster no diff than a billion plus people out there battling for their lives
- of which i think is the most disheartening thing i have ever had to understand in my life
when i hear billions of dollars going to car dealership people for bailouts when ppl around are dieing.
- mu husband and I are fighters so here goes
the wound is the size of your foot across his groin and the piece of area when we started was a hole in his leg the size of a small roast that had rotted away.
- we have been told before we knew what pallitive meant or why we were even labled as such when he ended up in the er in mapleridge general in vancouver bc that he should know what to do when they pull the plug on his life
- he was told about filgrasm shots and we got that and if we knew about it b4 we probably would never of ended up in the er 10 pm at night being told by the guy at that time of which was to take over the hospital we his name was frank and they call him frank so now you know
and we need to get funeral arrangements made ....this all said by the guy who was to take over the hospital.
- have since got him those shots and we are up and running again
- I will say this if anything has everbeen uunfair in my life I will say it was what that idiot did to us in such a tough time but never in my life have i ever been so empowered to beat something either.
we are a year later and he has done extreemly strong 12 rounds of chemo
30 days of absolutely burn beyond what i understand rad. and we are still standing.
I have lost my job over having a husband who has cancer and I will fix that as well.
- if this isnt a fight story i dont know what is.
to all out there going threw this to what ever degree donot stop fighting ...asking questions...demand all the tools to help you ...if they dont have it figured out they dont have a cure they dont know what will work we will see? then nothing should be denied to you...