Dec 01, 2008 - 2:56 pm
there's not much here in alaska as far as resources, but the medical team said that he probably wouldn't survive the surgery, he did. he's home now, but is still using and his family thinks that it my fault for making him so miserable that he HAS to9 use to live with me!1 not true, tho i can be a c--t at times, but only to his family as a response to their accusations and put downs. what can i do to get him to quit using and start eating as he starts radiation today at 1:30! why do radiation when he's still using?, and he has yet to be honest with the medical team who i feel is doing all that is available up here for him, us. i want to walk away and never return, but i can't! he needs me even though he wrote down that he doesn't need anyone. any ideas?