Hi, I just joined today.
I have had cancer 2x. The first time I had surgery and was told 'not to worry' little chance it will come back.
4 yrs later...30% chance of survival, and told if it comes back again they will just send me home to die. Now, 2 yrs and counting. still have all my fingers and toes, but have lost so much that I can't explain to husband, or son. I am grateful, and angry, depressed, and confused. And then there is Chemobrain..short term memory/new learning both seriously challenged, even 2 yrs later, and so tired,
lost my job when diagnosed, now can't find one, and the medical bills still hanging out there...ugh! enough complaining, but it is all bottled up and no where to dump it. I really need to find people who 'know' the story. Anyone?