Mar 20, 2007 - 9:05 pm
Just learned 2 weeks ago that my fiance has colon cancer and cancer of the vertebra. He has known for about a month. He lost his wife to breast cancer 4 years ago and refuses to even consider any treatment. Because we are not married (wedding was next month) the doctors will not talk with me, nor will my fiance - he says it is for my own good. How do I handle being closed out and how can I talk to someone about his care?