Nov 17, 2006 - 9:49 am
I am having such a hard time wrapping my mind around what the right thing to do is. My father was recently sent home with little time left. He is completely bedridden and sleeps 22+ hours. Christmas is his favorite holiday and has always been a very special time for our family. We do not expect him to make it til Christmas so we have discussed having Xmas during Thanksgiving so he can be a part of it. I have doubts if this is the right thing to do. As previously stated, he is bedridden. Is it unfair to celebrate such a joyous time while he is dying? It is not like he could actually participate. He would just lay there and watch. Anyone been in a similiar situation. Please help.