Oct 16, 2004 - 10:27 pm
My wife is a 7 year cancer survivor. Unfortunately, we have not been able to be intimate for more than that seven year period. I have extreme guilt about my personal desires and need to have the closeness of her. Fantasies are the only way I remain faithful to my wedding vows. I know this has got to be common in male caregivers, but I never have been able to talk about it or hear it talked about at support group meetings. Does anyone else out there need to discuss this?