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Lost someone to multiple myeloma

Broadway95
Posts: 1
Joined: Mar 2004

Hi, I saw the site on an ad and considering I lost my grandfather to mm, I thought it would be nice to join the site. It has been about 8 years since my grandfather passed away and I know that it is hard for people not only to deal with, but even harder if you have it. If anyone wants to talk because they have a loved one going through it, I can help.

My grandfather started feeling bad and they took him to the hosital. After a few tests they concluded that he had been bitten by a tick and had Lime's disease. However when he came out to where I live, he was getting worse and they took him to the hospital here. That is where they discovered he had multiple myeloma. They gave him 6 weeks...he ended up living for 3 years. Our family was going through a difficult time then and I thank everyday he was able to be alive for all that time. He was able to see my aunt get pregnant with her first child, my mother with her second and other important events. It has been one of the hardest things for me to deal with, considering how close I was to my grandfather. I just wanted to let you all know that there is a way to get through this, even if at times it seems like you will never be able to. Again, I am here to talk if you need.

mygen
Posts: 9
Joined: Mar 2004

Hello, I also recently saw the ad for this site last week. My Mom has MM and I am feeling very confused right now. I have never tried anything like a chat room before, but I thought it certinatly can't hurt anything. I find myself sitting up a night crying for her to be cured or even the opposite. I feel so guilty for that feeling. I am having such a hard time dealing with the pain I know she is in. She was diagonised in 1988. She was given 3 months. She overcame that and then was diagonised with Amaloyds in the kidneys, which have now completly shut down. She's on dialysis 9 hours a day and is having to retire from her job. She's only 60. Thanks for your offer to help.

doublehandful
Posts: 5
Joined: Feb 2011

Hello ,I saw your post and the content and Im curious about something I would appreciate your input if possible, My husband is 70 yrs and has