My husband has stage 4 lung cancer. He doesn't know what he has besides just cancer, meaning he doesn't know it's stage 4 and he doesn't want to know.
He is still smoking crack. He has smoked it for 20 years and still won't stop. This is causing us many problems......financially, emotionally, etc.
How am I supposed to know what kills him....the cancer or the crack? Why can't I get thru to him and how do I cope with out him here? I SHOULD be used to sleeping alone, so that his death, if it happens, will not be too much of a hardship....we have not been to bed together at the same time for the past 6 months.....just found out about his cancer 2 months ago. Thought that would make some changes but if anything it has made him stay away even more. Says if he's going to die he wants whatever time he has left to be filled with fun and getting high makes him happy, even tho he knows that he's hurting me and his kids in the process. As well as himself.