i posted on "emotional support", perhaps i should have posted here.
i am the caregiver to my mother, i have no brothers/sisters to share this load with.
my mother is a very difficult person to deal with under normal circumstances. she just had surgery to remove vulvar cancer & now is being sent for mri of pelvis for continuing pain. this pain was the reason she sought doctors for relief from.
she does not take meds as she should & argues with me constantly about it. i'm tired of arguing, feelings of despair are ongoing for me. i don't want to argue with her, but she engages me in arguing over every little thing. i need help coping with her.
her sisters & i all feel she has not come to terms with the fact that she has cancer. she acts as though she is fine & will be up and around again soon. i'm rambling, sorry. i need help coping. thanks