Cancer Survivors Network - Now he thinks he's gay? - Comments

I know Claudia. Can't

Angie2U — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 11:04:26 -0500

I know Claudia. Can't believe I read that myself. I thought she left that abuser for good.

Tasha

elm3544 — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 10:06:16 -0500

Hope you are good. Waiting for an update from you!

Lili!

lynn1950 — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 09:42:54 -0500

Lili!

J, you have me mighty

mmontero38 — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 09:06:03 -0500

J, you have me mighty confused. Are you back with that idiotic bloke or what?

Love you and miss you, Lili

PS: When we were in Punta Cana last week, we met a wonderful family from England, who had twin girls my daughter's age and a boy 1 year older. Of course, they became inseperable. But, wanted to tell you what a nice family they were. I'm assuming you must be the same. LOL

What in the world are you

susie09 — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 02:08:12 -0500

What in the world are you doing back with that crud again? Thought you ditched him.

You are back with that creep

survivorbc09 — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 11:50:21 -0500

You are back with that creep Tasha? Geesh, why? And, we thought you were doing so well.

After

lolad — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 09:02:56 -0500

all the hard work and the emotional roller coaster you were on to get away from him you finally did it and got free. Why is he back?

life is too short

xskeetshooter — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 04:11:25 -0500

you dont need a man that plays head games.but all of us can talk blue about this, but you are the 1 who has to have eneough. do you have such a low self esteem to be with a man like this. lift your head up, and fight the fight that is real,,the cancer

I agree

Ritzy — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 23:23:54 -0500

This isn't making any sense.

Confused Myself

Moopy23 — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 21:16:55 -0500

Tash, did I miss something? I thought you'd gotten rid of this guy?? Besides, if he is gay, why was he always pestering you for you-know-what when you were going through hell with treatment and post treatment crap?

OMG, are you still with that

Noel — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 19:50:14 -0500

OMG, are you still with that loser? Tasha???????????? What is going on??????

been there, done that....

jennytwist — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 12:12:13 -0500

well sorta - he never thought he was gay. From reading the posts it sounds like I can identify with being in an abusive realationship. I know it takes courage to get out! It took me way too long and I hurt my kids (not physically) and mostly me (both physically & mentally) in process! Anyway, wherever you are in the relationship - please stay safe - we are here for you and just want you to stay that way! From the posts, I can tell you are so loved and everyone is concerned.
...maybe if he's gay, that's your ticket out for good ... ????
..if you ever want my whole story - just ask.
much love no matter what
-Jenny

Oh My Angie....I just

chenheart — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 10:57:54 -0500

Oh My Angie....I just noticed that! I honestly thought it said he CALLED her to ask about it~ after your answer, I re-read it and indeed it says he called her INTO THE ROOM. Tash? Did I miss some info while I was caring for my niece in Nor Cal and without Internet access???

Now I'm gonna worry...seriously. And, for the newcomers among us~ this is not about Gay or Straight~ those of us who know and love our Turquoise Goddess Tasha also know that she was in an abusive relationship for much too long, and it took courage and fear and emotional uncertainty for her to make the move out! So, when we notice she may be back with him, that is our concern, not if he is gay or straight! That may indeed be an issue for Tasha, but the reason we are worried about her is not because of any orientation, but because of the possibility of revisiting abuse. I just wanted to put that out there.

Hugs,
C♥

omg

xskeetshooter — Sun, 08 Nov 2009 06:10:01 -0500

eneogh to worry about, just put your strength in getting better.and take the nagative bs out of your life

Did this really happen?

roseann4 — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 07:46:31 -0500

I can't tell by the responses if this really happened. Did your guy really tell you he thinks he might be gay? If so, I would assume he has an issue with his identity. I have a female friend who discovered she was gay after being married for several years. She had no idea what normal attraction was so when she met a man who she loved as a person, she thought that was love. It was only after she was in theropy that she discovered that she was sexually attracted to women.

If this is really true, get that guy into theropy. No sense trying to continue a relationship which may bring you even more pain in the future.

I'm sorry this has happened. Uncertainty is more difficult than knowing.

Roseann

Now he thinks he's gay?

tasha_111 — Fri, 06 Nov 2009 21:50:28 -0500

6 years together! Someone calls him a f a g. on yahoo and he calls me into the room to ask if I think he might be????????????

For Goodness Sake, How much more?

Sigh Jxxxxxxxxxxx