Cancer Survivors Network - My love is gone - Comments

Patty, I'm so sorry for your

trish07 — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 21:03:33 -0500

Patty, I'm so sorry for your sadness at this time.

Your time with Jack was short but so very special.

You will carry Jack with you always.

His heart and his spirit are now a part of who you are,you and him were so connected and will forever remain that way. You have something so special...not everyone experiences true love in their lives...you and Jack were so blessed.

I will pray for you to have a peaceful heart,
Trish

I'm so sorry

geotina — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 14:20:27 -0500

I am new to the board but have been following your story. I am so sorry for your loss. Jack was very lucky to have such a wonderful, caring, strong woman like you at his side. I'm sure he felt peace having you there. There will be dark days ahead for you but one day, the sun will shine again for you. My husband is fighting Stage IV colon cancer and our journey is new but if the day comes I only hope I can be as strong as you. May you find peace and one day when you look at Jack's picture, a smile will come and the tears lessen. The next few weeks and months will be very difficult so please remember to take care of yourself, I'm sure Jack would have wanted that.

Patty, sorry to hear

junklady — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 09:14:10 -0500

Patty- I am sorry to hear the sad news about Jack. He is at peace now and no more pain. Just remember how much he loved you, he will always be in your heart. Hugs and prayers to you.

Your loss is our loss

bailey1459 — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 08:30:14 -0500

My heart goes out to you. Each day I too have followed your life with Jack and know that one day I too will be having to walk in your shoes. My husband has stage IV esophageal cancer and is also 49 years of age. Treasure the great memories you had with Jack and this will get you through the rough road ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you each and every day.

Sherri

Patty, My heart goes out to

beckyracn — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 08:27:44 -0500

Patty,
My heart goes out to you. I've followed your story and you were his rock when he needed you. No one could ask for anything more than to leave this world surrounded with so much love.

I know how you're feeling

MichelleP — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 06:27:52 -0500

I know how you're feeling Patty....it's only been 3 weeks since my husband passed. Just be kind to yourself and know that Jack is at peace now. No more pain and no more suffering. He's in your heart forever!

I am so sorry. you are in my

esined — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 23:26:42 -0500

I am so sorry. you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Denise

My heart and prayers out to you....

Buzzard — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 21:33:08 -0500

Im sorry Patty ...time will help although I know its not much help right now. I will keep you in my prayers............Clift

so sorry

JaneE2366 — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 20:43:56 -0500

Patty,
I don't believe we have "spoken" before but as a caregiver, I have been following Jack's story. I want you to know how sorry I am for you....my heart aches for you. My husband is battling stage iv esophageal cancer and I am terrified I will be in your shoes one day. You have shown such strength. I know you didn't have a lot of time with Jack but I hope you let all your good memories get you through this difficult time. I am praying for you.
Jane

49 years too young

SonSon — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 20:33:26 -0500

Patty,

Please know that you will be in my prayers.

Just try to float along. You will wash up on a shore soon and start to adapt to the new life.

Fatima

So sorry

onlyhuman — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 16:59:39 -0500

Patty
I am so sorry for your loss. Its probably going to get harder before it gets easier so do take care of yourself and remember we are here if you need us.

I am

angelsbaby — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 16:28:15 -0500

Sorry patty.No that you are not alone . I have been reading your post everyday and you were a good caregiver to him . i just lost my husband to and like fay said living is even harder but look at me its been 6 months and i am doing ok going to work but coming home is the hardest for me right now 35 yrs of coming home to angel and now hes not there anymore it is so empty. It takes time and for me it will be a long time. Take care

michelle

So sorry

allackey — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 16:26:35 -0500

Thank you for sharing with us out here. I know your feeling and will lean on you and others when I am in the same situation. By then you will be stronger. Stay strong and believe that you will make it. It is hard I know. I posted some things on your "sedated" post and hope you take some time to listen to them.

God Bless you and know that me and others have you in our prayers.

Sympathy

grandmafay — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 15:25:22 -0500

Patty,
I am sorry for your loss. You will hear those words often in the days ahead. I certainly have. The dying may have been hard, but the living is even harder. I always considered my husband to be my rock, the strength in our family, but during our fight with cancer I learned that I had strength, too. I know you have shown great strength throughout this time as well. Now you will find the strength to move forward. Know that many of us have followed your story and continue to hold you in our prayers. If it's any consolation, I have lived here in this same house for 33 years. I have friends and family nearby, but I still feel alone much of the time. Take time before deciding where to go from here. Blessings and hugs. Fay

God bless you and may he

HAWVET — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 14:10:29 -0500

God bless you and may he rest in peace.

My love is gone

pattynonews — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 13:34:56 -0500

Jack went home this morning, at 9:30 , Im going to miss the most amazing man I have ever met, he truly showed me how to love again, I feel so numb there are people here but I feel so alone, Now Im in Texas all alone, I dont even know what to do, I want Jack he was the stong one he was my support,

I will love you forever Jack I just dont know what to do what do I do now,

Jack Trevino
02-17-1960 ---- 11-4-09 In loving memory ,