Cancer Survivors Network - End of my tether! - Comments

Terato

tasha_111 — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 20:20:51 -0400

I am you sister.........I will heed your wonderful advice.........enough is enough! Thanks Jxxxxxxxxxxxxx

If you were my sister,Tasha,...

terato — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 18:59:39 -0400

I would advise you to toss the S.O.B. and stand by the door with a baseball bat until he leaves! He is no less a malignant growth than any of your tumors and, unfortunately, his chemotherapy of choice does not put him into remission. You are entitled to better!

Love and Courage!

Rick

Get out, Get out, Get out!!!

hollyberry — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 18:07:57 -0400

Please do not waste one more day with that JERK!!! You are one of the funniest, sweetest girls on this board and I can't stand the thought of you being abused for one nore day! Nobody deserves to be treated so disrespectfully! I don't care what that jerk is drinking, he doesn't deserve you and he knows it.
Find somewhere to got that is peaceful and will make you happy- you deserve it!! Your son also doesn't need to see his mother being treated this way.He needs, instead, a model of a healthy relationship with boundaries that show mutual respect, if he is to have a fulfilling relationship. I'm sure you know that but, maybe you think you can't get out? Please try to get away from this abuser and live a happy life; there are so many good men in this world and you'll never find one if you settle for this Bozo.
I'm not trying to insult you in any way, I just get so angry when people treat each other so badly and we should all know through this cancer experience that a day wasted on jerks is one you won't get back! Remember your battle and how hard you fought for your life- it would be such a shame to give it away to someone who doesn't appreciate you.
You're in my prayers,
Hollyberry

End of my tether!

tasha_111 — Tue, 07 Jul 2009 17:32:07 -0400

As many of you know, I have posted on here a few times recently..My husband lost his Mum to cancer less than a year before I got diagnosed with Breast cancer end of 2007.. He became like Mr Angry when she died.....He went completely off the deep end and was a totally different person. He has mental health issues, but they never really surfaced before his loss. I tried very hard to stand by him, understand and sympathise with him, but was accused of being 'Self Serving' the whole time....He SENT me back to England 2 months before my diagnosis....Cos he didn't want me around, then he changed his ming and I came back. All through my diagnosis and treatments he was awful to me, told me I deserved to have cancer, and the night before my first chemo (which I was unsure about) woke me at 3 am, drunk and told me chemo wouldn't work and he wasn't going to waste his time taking me. Anyway, he did take me, never sat with me, Charged me for the trip and moaned like hell about how inconvenient it was for HIM!