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username32 — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 06:05:53 -0400

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Understand

2young_2fast — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 18:32:55 -0400

I totally understand. Ours were classic cars. I have a really hard time attending car shows and events.

I know the feeling

2young_2fast — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 18:21:09 -0400

I lost my husband on May 14,2009. I understand what you mean about going around the house and remembering. We were together for 33 yrs and married for 27 yrs. He was only 52 when He passed. Try to stay busy it really helps.

Sorry for you loss

angelsbaby — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 17:52:57 -0400

I hear you on that . this is very hard thats all i know

michelle

trying to deal

2young_2fast — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:42:07 -0400

I loss my hubby on May 14, 2009 and I can't walk into a grocery store without being on edge of tears. I start shopping and have to stop and remember it's just me now and I don't need 2 loaves of bread. I try to stay as busy as I can that helps.

I know how you feel

2young_2fast — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:07:04 -0400

I loss my husband of 27 yrs. (together for 33yrs) on May 14,2009. Diagnosised with Multiply Mylema on March 27, 2009. I'm still trying to deal with all of this. I have my work and family and friends right now. I try to be strong but there are days that I'm better off just keep the box of tissue in my hands.

sandy

angelsbaby — Wed, 27 May 2009 11:20:00 -0400

You are awesome have a wonderful day

michelle

zoe

angelsbaby — Wed, 27 May 2009 11:18:47 -0400

you are right and i did miss angel on memorial day we would be riding the harley with our american flag on the back .It is hard to see couples on there motorcycles because that was us just a few months ago. have a good day

michelle

josie

angelsbaby — Wed, 27 May 2009 11:16:22 -0400

I did the same thing i went to the mall and looked around i don't feel right alone in the house . I did go bowling and i haven;t been bowling in a long time well i was sore for about a week so i don;t know if i can join a bowling league i go to the cemetary alot it is close to my house. I had some picuters enlarged at wal mart and bought some frames to. I miss him so much i still can;t beleave i will never see him again. well take care i will be going to a berevment class next week at the comunity center i will see what that is about It may help .

michelle

Me too

green50 — Mon, 25 May 2009 13:49:30 -0400

I lost my husband to cancer in 2005 while fighting cancer myself, which I still am after 7 years. Its hard. But time makes it easier to deal with. I am so sorry for all your losses. I have almost 30 years of wonderful memories and kept busy cried and as time when on my sons and I could joke about the fun we had with him and the big strength he taught us. I was 47 and he was 54. He passed just short of our 28th anniversary. Time helps, yes you will always miss them they will always be there, but he told me take one day at a time and make it simple woman, the last words were I love you. I pray for the ease of all of you hurt and that you find the memories to eventually comfort you. For you know your husbands would want you to be happy.
Prayers and Hugs To All
Sandy

Shopping alone

ZOE60 — Sat, 23 May 2009 14:35:21 -0400

I went to Sam's Club the other night, and it was very hard. We loved to go there and snack our way thru the store on Saturday. We didn't do it often, just thought it a lark. They were giving out food that day, so many little things you did together and didn't see as a remembrance, but the little silly things you did together, can't be shared with anyone else. Hold tight to those memories.
Love to all who miss their loved ones this Memorial Weekend
Zoe

alone

josie_5 — Fri, 22 May 2009 20:39:50 -0400

i know the feeling. my hub died on 22 apr. i am so alone. im going to go shopping tomorrow and look around. maybe that will help. pick up a hobby???? how bout u????? josie

I am sorry for you loss

angelsbaby — Thu, 21 May 2009 17:39:42 -0400

It seems not real to me that he is gone then it hits me that he is gone forever.

michelle

My husband died suddenly of a heart attack 10 days ago

ZOE60 — Thu, 21 May 2009 17:05:41 -0400

My husband died May 11, 2009. It is hard to go around the house and remember the things you did together, or were thinking of finishing together. I am trying to keep myself a little numb right now, cause it aches so much to think of all the things we were planning. I am glad he didn't suffer, because it was so sudden and I have the comfort of knowing he is at home with God, but I am alone, without my best friend beside me to hold me every night. We were married 42 years and had ups and downs, but the last 2 years have been the best years of our life. I am glad we had this peace in our marriage, but wish we'd had so many more years together like the last 2. He was 62. I miss him terribly. I am so sorry for your loss, it's like losing half of you. I am stong too, but that absolutely doesn't heal the ache and loss. I kiss his picture good night each night and each morning and ask him and God to follow me thru my day.

Michelle

Sunflower — Tue, 12 May 2009 00:10:38 -0400

I've seen some of your posts before too and I've meant to write to you before now because I could relate to a lot of things you had said. I'm sorry that cancer has touched all of us, but I'm glad we can be here for each other.

Take care and God bless,
Liz

my husband died and i miss him

angelsbaby — Mon, 04 May 2009 12:24:40 -0400

Angel passed away april 16 2009 Now I have to go on alone how do you do that after being married 35 yrs he was 53 and i am 51 Just going home is heartwrenching for me because i will never see him againor talk to him like before. I am a wreck. he did instill in me to be strong and i am trying my best.

michelle