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 <title>TO THE LIVING</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;DO NOT GRIEVE&lt;br /&gt;
WHEN I HAVE PASSED&lt;br /&gt;
KEEP YOUR MEMORIES OF ME&lt;br /&gt;
AND HOLD THEM FAST&lt;br /&gt;
LIVE YOUR LIFE&lt;br /&gt;
LIKE I HAVE DONE&lt;br /&gt;
I HAVE GONE TO JOIN&lt;br /&gt;
OUR FATHERS SON&lt;br /&gt;
I WILL BE WITH YOU&lt;br /&gt;
TILL THE END OF TIME&lt;br /&gt;
I AM ALIVE INSIDE YOUR MIND&lt;br /&gt;
REMEMBER ME EACH PASSING DAY&lt;br /&gt;
IN YOUR MEMORIES I WILL STAY&lt;br /&gt;
DON&#039;T STOP LIVING BECAUSE I HAVE PASSED&lt;br /&gt;
HOLD TIGHT TO LIFE AND MAKE IT LAST&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;by Martin Stenger&lt;br /&gt;
other poems at poetry.com&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 07:59:07 -0500</pubDate>
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 <title>Re: To all those who lost a loved-one</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Hello gdpawel,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thank you for sharing that BEAUTIFUL poem. That poem sounded like something that my Mom shared with me, before she died. She told me &quot;Honey, there are such things as Guardian Angels, and I am going to be YOUR Guardian Angel.&quot; I have no doubt that Mom IS my Guardian Angel! We were not only Mother and Daughter in life, but also Best Friends and that will remain the same for eternity. I want to share that poem with others, so that maybe it will bring some comfort to them. Thanks again for sharing it!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Sincerely,&lt;br /&gt;
Lin&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Mon, 31 Jan 2005 13:42:58 -0500</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>DoubleKnot</dc:creator>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;Thank you so much for the Christmas in Heaven poem.  I&#039;m printing it out for my family.  It brought tears to my eyes, but think it will help through these upcoming holidays.  Thanks again.  It&#039;s beautiful.&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sat, 18 Dec 2004 12:05:56 -0500</pubDate>
 <dc:creator>kellyak</dc:creator>
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 <title>To all those who lost a loved-one</title>
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 <description>&lt;p&gt;When it comes time for us to find out all that happened to our loved-one and why, many times we may think our thoughts are our own, but more often than not, they emanate from our passed on loved-ones. Through these thoughts, the best parts of our creative character come forth. I could not have done my three years of cancer research without the guidence of Ann. She had inspired each and every avenue of my search for truth.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Whether you personally believe it or not, when we think of making contact with our passed on loved-ones, we first must approach it with the awareness that the world they are in (or the creative sense of a God),  is not limited to an area in the clouds out of our reach. Rather, our loved-one is up, down, around and through us, they are intermingled within our own world.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&quot;Our&quot; angels are there, looking after us, until that day when we will be back with them.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As for &quot;my&quot; pain:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;What thousands of grief-stricken mourners are asking, &quot;when will the pain go away?&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The answer, &quot;never&quot;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;No one can stand it, the pain is so intense, &quot;it has never gone away for me&quot;. You learn to live with it, you get accustomed to it, you accommodate it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I don&#039;t want to deny her memory.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Anger is a powerful emotion that drowns all others, and nobody progresses through grief without dealing with it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;God gave me Ann, and it was the viciousness of man that took her away. This is an adequate enough answer for me.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Go to the internet and check out everything on grief. When finished with reading and discussing, it is concluded that there is no cure.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Peace and Blessings to You.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My First Christmas in Heaven&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I see the countless Christmas Trees, around the world below&lt;br /&gt;
with tiny lights like heaven&#039;s stars, reflecting on the snow.&lt;br /&gt;
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away your tears,&lt;br /&gt;
for I am sharing Christmas, with Jesus Christ this year.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I hear the many Christmas songs, that people hold so dear,&lt;br /&gt;
the sounds of music can&#039;t compare, with the Christmas choir here.&lt;br /&gt;
I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,&lt;br /&gt;
it&#039;s far beyond description, to hear the angels sing.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I know how much you miss me, I see the pain within your heart&lt;br /&gt;
but I am now so far away. We really aren&#039;t apart.&lt;br /&gt;
So be happy for me, loved ones. You know I hold you dear,&lt;br /&gt;
and be glad I&#039;m spending Christmas, with Jesus Christ this year.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I send you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above.&lt;br /&gt;
I send you each a memory, of my undying love.&lt;br /&gt;
After all &#039;LOVE&#039; is the gift, more precious than pure gold.&lt;br /&gt;
I was always most important, in the stories Jesus told.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do,&lt;br /&gt;
for I can&#039;t count the blessings, or the love he has for you.&lt;br /&gt;
So, have a Merry Christmas and wipe away those tears,&lt;br /&gt;
for I am sharing Christmas, with Jesus Christ this year.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;-Anonymous-&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Tue, 07 Dec 2004 22:30:13 -0500</pubDate>
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