News on IrishWhispers aka Trisha Bonn

mmontero38
mmontero38 Member Posts: 1,510
edited March 2014 in Breast Cancer #1
Hi everyone, I know I haven't been on here in a while, and thought this would be the more appropriate site to post so that I could reach everyone that knows our Trish the Dish, comic, mother, grandma and friend. Today I was chatting with her daughter Melissa on FB and unfortunately, the news is not good. She was released from the hospital and is at home under palliative care. Because she is so weak and drugged to control pain, she cannot sit up or talk, but Melissa said that she does respond with a smile when spoken to. Melissa has read and told her of our postings on her FB page. They are holding a benefit dinner for her on Sept 18th at the Benefit II in Syracuse to help defray the hospital bills and also purchase art supplies for a young girl newly diagnosed. If you would like to donate, you can send it to: Melissa Bonn 308 Hulbert St, Minoa, NY 13116. Melissa has promised to send me a message with any changes or news of Trish and I in turn will post here. Hugs, Lili
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  • fauxma
    fauxma Member Posts: 3,577 Member
    Lili,
    Thank you for the

    Lili,
    Thank you for the update on Trish. I will keep her in my prayers. And I will keep her family in them as well. This is not what we wanted to hear about our IrishWhispers.
    Stef
  • chenheart
    chenheart Member Posts: 5,159
    Thank you Lili,
    I of course

    Thank you Lili,

    I of course also know of this from FB~ IrishWhispers is such a force of nature...I hate that this is happening to her. I will put a check in the mail tomorrow. Trisha is one of the finest, spunkiest, most loving women I have ever had the pleasure of meeting ~ albeit it only in cyber-space. Sigh, and damn cancer and its long fingers anyway!

    Hugs,
    Chen
  • tommaseena
    tommaseena Member Posts: 1,769
    chenheart said:

    Thank you Lili,
    I of course

    Thank you Lili,

    I of course also know of this from FB~ IrishWhispers is such a force of nature...I hate that this is happening to her. I will put a check in the mail tomorrow. Trisha is one of the finest, spunkiest, most loving women I have ever had the pleasure of meeting ~ albeit it only in cyber-space. Sigh, and damn cancer and its long fingers anyway!

    Hugs,
    Chen

    Thank you Lili
    Trish and her family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
    Hugs,
    Margo
  • Marcia527
    Marcia527 Member Posts: 2,729
    I'm so sorry to hear this.
    I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm not on FB so thanks, Lili, for posting here.
  • Christmas Girl
    Christmas Girl Member Posts: 3,682 Member
    Thank you, dear Lili...
    I am utterly heartbroken. Trish, our IrishWhispers, has been held close in my thoughts & prayers, and will - of course - continue to be. Adding more prayers now for her family, friends - all who know & love her, including so many of us here.

    Cancer - evil, hateful, unrelenting beast.
  • meena1
    meena1 Member Posts: 1,003

    Thank you, dear Lili...
    I am utterly heartbroken. Trish, our IrishWhispers, has been held close in my thoughts & prayers, and will - of course - continue to be. Adding more prayers now for her family, friends - all who know & love her, including so many of us here.

    Cancer - evil, hateful, unrelenting beast.

    I am so sorry to hear this
    I am so sorry to hear this news. I am praying that she finds peace.
  • Akiss4me
    Akiss4me Member Posts: 2,188
    Thanks for the update....
    Wendy IM'd me last night on FB about Trish and I started thinking....I really didn't have the opportunity to know her, but I did know alot of you spoke of her when I first joined the group. I remember her posting a few times and remember thinking she was just what Chen said...'spunky'. Reminded me of some one so full of life! She will be missed by many, I'm sure. I will keep her family in my prayers.
    Pammy
  • creampuff91344
    creampuff91344 Member Posts: 988
    Akiss4me said:

    Thanks for the update....
    Wendy IM'd me last night on FB about Trish and I started thinking....I really didn't have the opportunity to know her, but I did know alot of you spoke of her when I first joined the group. I remember her posting a few times and remember thinking she was just what Chen said...'spunky'. Reminded me of some one so full of life! She will be missed by many, I'm sure. I will keep her family in my prayers.
    Pammy

    Update
    Thank you Lil for the update on IrishWhisper. Many a posting she placed on this board still remain some of my favorites. My prayers are with she and her family. I hate this thing we are going through, especially when it reaches this stage, and you feel so helpless to do anything to make it easier. Hugs to all, Judy
  • Moopy23
    Moopy23 Member Posts: 1,751 Member
    Irish Whispers
    Thank you, Lili, for your message updating us on Trish. She has been in my prayers; like many, I was hoping she would have more years with her friends and family. I pray now that her remaining hours and days--too few!--are as gentle and soft as her name, Irish Whispers.
  • VickiSam
    VickiSam Member Posts: 9,079 Member
    Moopy23 said:

    Irish Whispers
    Thank you, Lili, for your message updating us on Trish. She has been in my prayers; like many, I was hoping she would have more years with her friends and family. I pray now that her remaining hours and days--too few!--are as gentle and soft as her name, Irish Whispers.

    My prayers to Trish and her family

    Vicki Sam
  • survivorbc09
    survivorbc09 Member Posts: 4,374 Member
    chenheart said:

    Thank you Lili,
    I of course

    Thank you Lili,

    I of course also know of this from FB~ IrishWhispers is such a force of nature...I hate that this is happening to her. I will put a check in the mail tomorrow. Trisha is one of the finest, spunkiest, most loving women I have ever had the pleasure of meeting ~ albeit it only in cyber-space. Sigh, and damn cancer and its long fingers anyway!

    Hugs,
    Chen

    Sending prayers for Irish
    Sending prayers for Irish Whispers!


    Hugs, Jan
  • outdoorgirl
    outdoorgirl Member Posts: 1,565
    Thanks Lili
    for posting.Pretty upsetting and discouraging. I hate the beast as well-we try to have some control over it,but it is just a nasty,menacing thing that takes away our loved ones sometimes and puts the fear into us who have faced it.
    I am so sorry to hear about Irish-it saddens me and angers me at the same time.
    I pray that she isn't suffering.
  • KathiM
    KathiM Member Posts: 8,028 Member
    Thank you for the update....
    I am so sad to hear....

    Hugs, Kathi
  • Megan M
    Megan M Member Posts: 3,000
    meena1 said:

    I am so sorry to hear this
    I am so sorry to hear this news. I am praying that she finds peace.

    Praying for Trish.

    Praying for Trish.
  • Angie2U
    Angie2U Member Posts: 2,991
    KathiM said:

    Thank you for the update....
    I am so sad to hear....

    Hugs, Kathi

    I also am sending prayers to
    I also am sending prayers to her.


    Hugs, Angie
  • jnl
    jnl Member Posts: 3,869 Member
    chenheart said:

    Thank you Lili,
    I of course

    Thank you Lili,

    I of course also know of this from FB~ IrishWhispers is such a force of nature...I hate that this is happening to her. I will put a check in the mail tomorrow. Trisha is one of the finest, spunkiest, most loving women I have ever had the pleasure of meeting ~ albeit it only in cyber-space. Sigh, and damn cancer and its long fingers anyway!

    Hugs,
    Chen

    I don't know her, but, I
    I don't know her, but, I will put her in my prayers.

    Leeza
  • Alexis F
    Alexis F Member Posts: 3,598

    Thank you, dear Lili...
    I am utterly heartbroken. Trish, our IrishWhispers, has been held close in my thoughts & prayers, and will - of course - continue to be. Adding more prayers now for her family, friends - all who know & love her, including so many of us here.

    Cancer - evil, hateful, unrelenting beast.

    So sorry to read this about
    So sorry to read this about Trish. Sending lots of prayers to her and her family.
  • RE
    RE Member Posts: 4,591 Member
    :-(
    Lili, thank you for taking the time to update here as Trish did so enjoyed this site and drew much strength from the love she received here. Please thank her daughter for sharing our messages of love on fb with Trish, this is just heart wrenching.

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  • cats_toy
    cats_toy Member Posts: 1,462 Member
    Lili..any update?
    Lili, I just found this post, and have not seen her on FaceBook in quite awhile, thank you so much for letting us know. Is there any update on her? Sending prayers and good wishes to her and her family.
    Cat
  • carkris
    carkris Member Posts: 4,553 Member
    cats_toy said:

    Lili..any update?
    Lili, I just found this post, and have not seen her on FaceBook in quite awhile, thank you so much for letting us know. Is there any update on her? Sending prayers and good wishes to her and her family.
    Cat

    I did read on FB that she
    I did read on FB that she had passed. but I leave it to her friends to elaborate as I did not know her well. my prayers are with her family and friends I hate cancer.