Triple Negative Breast Cancer

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  • kederrick said:

    My triple negative story.
    I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer in Jan 2010. I was 45 years old. I immediately looked at my husband and said "I won't see Trevor, our grandson (who was 2) make 5 or my daughter get married. My only personal experience with breast cancer at the time was my mother, who was diagnosed at age 28, had a radical mastectomy followed by chemo and cobalt treatments only to find it returned in her liver a few months later. She lost her battle at the age of 30. Naturally I assumed that the same thing would happen to me. I live two hours from Houston and was determined to go to M.D. Anderson. God had different plans as they could not get me in for 6 weeks and that would be to redo my mammo, ultrasound, and biopsy and then schedule an appt with a doctor afterwards. I knew it was aggressive, however, at the time I didn't know it was so rare or just how bad. A family friend called and told me about her experience and her doctor in Baton Rouge. He is a christian man, world renown, and specialized in breast cancer only. I saw him a week after receiving my biopsy results (which at the time said it was malignent but I was still awaiting the ER/PR/HER2/and Fish results). The day I saw him I had gotten my biopsy results showing the triple negative but still waiting on the FISH test results. At that time the tumor was .90 cm at the largest area. I had surgery 17 days later and opted for a bi-lateral mastectomy. By the time the surgery was done the tumor was 2.5 at the largest area, giving me stage 2A breast cancer. There were no nodes involved. I began chemo (Taxol and Cytoxin) three weeks after surgery. The day after treatments I received a shot of Nulasta which helps keep your immune system built up. Four treatments three weeks apart. My last treatment was May 19. I feel great and confident that I did the right thing. I was cleared to return to work July 1. (I teach elementary and the exposure to that many kids could have been dangerous during chemo) and I go back to the doctor in August for blood work (tumor markers). I was also genetically tested for the BRCA 1 and BRCA 2 mutations which I did have one of those. Since I don't have my ovaries or either breast now we will just keep a close eye on things. But as of surgery I was "technically" cancer free at that time. God knew what was best for me and I have the upmost conficence that he sent me to the best in the world.

    My first post on my last day of chemo
    I was also diagnosed in January of 2010. As a single widowed mom, I had similar thoughts...I won't see my daughter graduate from HS. I returned to work, also teaching, as soon as I was cleared by the surgeon. I just finished my 6 course of TAC today. I chose to do chemo on Fridays, rest weekends, and returned to work on Mondays. It has been an education just watching the changes my body has gone through.

    I asked for all my labs as I have finished my chemo treatments and was surprised to see that my markers have been going up. The nurses assured me that with my triple negative status this is not unusual, but I'm concerned after reading this board this evening. I see the radiologist for a consultation in a week and it looks as though "how I spent my summer vacation" will be spent with daily radiation treatments.

    My chemo nurses also said, my hair should begin to return in about a month, the taste of food and neuropathy in my feet should take 1-3 months, but that everyone is different so...

    But the blasted chemo is done!
  • Aortus
    Aortus Member Posts: 967

    My first post on my last day of chemo
    I was also diagnosed in January of 2010. As a single widowed mom, I had similar thoughts...I won't see my daughter graduate from HS. I returned to work, also teaching, as soon as I was cleared by the surgeon. I just finished my 6 course of TAC today. I chose to do chemo on Fridays, rest weekends, and returned to work on Mondays. It has been an education just watching the changes my body has gone through.

    I asked for all my labs as I have finished my chemo treatments and was surprised to see that my markers have been going up. The nurses assured me that with my triple negative status this is not unusual, but I'm concerned after reading this board this evening. I see the radiologist for a consultation in a week and it looks as though "how I spent my summer vacation" will be spent with daily radiation treatments.

    My chemo nurses also said, my hair should begin to return in about a month, the taste of food and neuropathy in my feet should take 1-3 months, but that everyone is different so...

    But the blasted chemo is done!

    Congratulations, FT!
    My beloved Moopy (dx'ed Nov 2008 with Stage IIIa TNBC) and I were pretty darn happy when she finished her sixth round of TAC in early May 2009. We knew we had a lot ahead of us with the radiation, and we were right. But we felt the first, and worst, part of the trip was over. And we were right about that too.

    You're doing the right thing with your aggressive approach to getting information. But tumor markers... well, even the oncologists themselves don't agree on what the tests mean or on how to use them. I think one is best off *not* making a big deal about them and let the onc keep track - that's the policy Moopy's oncologists followed and it worked for us.

    I do recall that last summer, right after Moops finished rads, her markers were a tad on the high end of "normal." Even though nobody knows what "normal" means, we felt spooked. But on her next onc visit, the markers went down and they are staying down. That would support what the nurses have been telling you. So celebrate!

    And please drop by often. There are quite a few hormone negative (better than "triple negative") ladies here and their SOs too. Everyone is in the same boat here, and everyone always pulls together. Still, sometimes it helps to talk with the people assigned to the same oar as you...

    God Bless,
    Joe
  • susie09
    susie09 Member Posts: 2,930

    My first post on my last day of chemo
    I was also diagnosed in January of 2010. As a single widowed mom, I had similar thoughts...I won't see my daughter graduate from HS. I returned to work, also teaching, as soon as I was cleared by the surgeon. I just finished my 6 course of TAC today. I chose to do chemo on Fridays, rest weekends, and returned to work on Mondays. It has been an education just watching the changes my body has gone through.

    I asked for all my labs as I have finished my chemo treatments and was surprised to see that my markers have been going up. The nurses assured me that with my triple negative status this is not unusual, but I'm concerned after reading this board this evening. I see the radiologist for a consultation in a week and it looks as though "how I spent my summer vacation" will be spent with daily radiation treatments.

    My chemo nurses also said, my hair should begin to return in about a month, the taste of food and neuropathy in my feet should take 1-3 months, but that everyone is different so...

    But the blasted chemo is done!

    Big congrats to you faith
    Big congrats to you faith trust and..! You completed a huge milestone! And, that isn't easy!

    Wishing you continued good health and happiness!
  • susie09 said:

    Big congrats to you faith
    Big congrats to you faith trust and..! You completed a huge milestone! And, that isn't easy!

    Wishing you continued good health and happiness!

    Thanks for the encouragement
    No one mentioned the cumulative affects of chemo, it seems they eek out the information on a "need to know" basis. Hell, after number two I was ready to power wash the patio furniture and wondered what all the fuss was about. I admit to feeling beat after this final TAC round, I'm trying to be kinder and gentler with myself.

    When I was first diagnosed my daughter was online with a friend and started asking me some very pointed questions...seems her friend's mother is a survivor and she knows a survivor and they graciously met with me and shared their stories prior to my surgery. I email a small caring group of friends with updates on a regular basis.

    There would seem to be an underground of supporters for us through this trial. Smiles on the faces of other women that see us and not see past us. Maybe it's the scarves, night caps, or lack of eye brows. Maybe they see our fatigue. I had a woman, a stranger, reach out and pray with me in the bookstore yesterday, it ended with an embrace.

    But I am rambling, it must be sleep deprivation and I have a long commute and work tomorrow.

    Truly I thank you for your words, I will continue to seek the answer to the increased marker numbers, but try not to make myself crazy over it. I will keep it mind they are simply numbers.

    Bless you all.
  • Dawne.Hope
    Dawne.Hope Member Posts: 823

    Thanks for the encouragement
    No one mentioned the cumulative affects of chemo, it seems they eek out the information on a "need to know" basis. Hell, after number two I was ready to power wash the patio furniture and wondered what all the fuss was about. I admit to feeling beat after this final TAC round, I'm trying to be kinder and gentler with myself.

    When I was first diagnosed my daughter was online with a friend and started asking me some very pointed questions...seems her friend's mother is a survivor and she knows a survivor and they graciously met with me and shared their stories prior to my surgery. I email a small caring group of friends with updates on a regular basis.

    There would seem to be an underground of supporters for us through this trial. Smiles on the faces of other women that see us and not see past us. Maybe it's the scarves, night caps, or lack of eye brows. Maybe they see our fatigue. I had a woman, a stranger, reach out and pray with me in the bookstore yesterday, it ended with an embrace.

    But I am rambling, it must be sleep deprivation and I have a long commute and work tomorrow.

    Truly I thank you for your words, I will continue to seek the answer to the increased marker numbers, but try not to make myself crazy over it. I will keep it mind they are simply numbers.

    Bless you all.

    bumping up for scubagirl

    bumping up for scubagirl
  • arkansasgirl
    arkansasgirl Member Posts: 84
    IN LEFT FIELD!
    Hi

    I'm triple negative too. I also have a very rare type of BC that chemo and radiation has
    no effect. But after being DX in April 2009 - had both breats removed and 6 rounds of
    chemo I'm cancer free as of FEB 1, 2010.

    My motto is: Cancer won the 1st battle and I won the 2nd but the war is not over for I
    will not give up.

    God Bless You

    ARKANSASGIRL
  • 24242
    24242 Member Posts: 1,398

    IN LEFT FIELD!
    Hi

    I'm triple negative too. I also have a very rare type of BC that chemo and radiation has
    no effect. But after being DX in April 2009 - had both breats removed and 6 rounds of
    chemo I'm cancer free as of FEB 1, 2010.

    My motto is: Cancer won the 1st battle and I won the 2nd but the war is not over for I
    will not give up.

    God Bless You

    ARKANSASGIRL

    Worried more about stage
    I think I was worried more about the stage since chances for survival lessoned with each stage. Sure triple negative has less options for treatment phase and we definitely hit hardest with chemo and radiation. I was stage 3 IDC bc with 11 out of 21 positive nodes and HER triple negative at the age of 36. My chances for survival back 14 years was less than 50% with all the treatments in place. 14 years later feels pretty good even though have more health issues but dealing with them is all I can do and press for quality to my health is all there is. Easy no but doable for sure...
    Tara
  • Moopy23
    Moopy23 Member Posts: 1,751 Member
    24242 said:

    Worried more about stage
    I think I was worried more about the stage since chances for survival lessoned with each stage. Sure triple negative has less options for treatment phase and we definitely hit hardest with chemo and radiation. I was stage 3 IDC bc with 11 out of 21 positive nodes and HER triple negative at the age of 36. My chances for survival back 14 years was less than 50% with all the treatments in place. 14 years later feels pretty good even though have more health issues but dealing with them is all I can do and press for quality to my health is all there is. Easy no but doable for sure...
    Tara

    Tara
    Just wanted to thank you for your post. I was stage 3 with 6 pos. nodes. Nothing is as encouraging as hearing from someone who survived many years since diagnosis. Thank you for taking the time to come here and share your experience. You help me hope! My best to you.
  • sportsmom63
    sportsmom63 Member Posts: 1
    24242 said:

    Worried more about stage
    I think I was worried more about the stage since chances for survival lessoned with each stage. Sure triple negative has less options for treatment phase and we definitely hit hardest with chemo and radiation. I was stage 3 IDC bc with 11 out of 21 positive nodes and HER triple negative at the age of 36. My chances for survival back 14 years was less than 50% with all the treatments in place. 14 years later feels pretty good even though have more health issues but dealing with them is all I can do and press for quality to my health is all there is. Easy no but doable for sure...
    Tara

    thank-you
    Dear 24242, just wanted to say thank-you for your post. It is very encouraging to hear you are 14 years out. Most people I personally know are estrogen positive and it is so nice to hear on this site from those who are triple negative. I was diagnosed June 6th, mastectomy on June 22nd and chemo started July 28th. I will be having my 4th of 8 treatments tomorrow and I am doing well so far. Thank-you for your post, Diane
  • Aortus
    Aortus Member Posts: 967

    thank-you
    Dear 24242, just wanted to say thank-you for your post. It is very encouraging to hear you are 14 years out. Most people I personally know are estrogen positive and it is so nice to hear on this site from those who are triple negative. I was diagnosed June 6th, mastectomy on June 22nd and chemo started July 28th. I will be having my 4th of 8 treatments tomorrow and I am doing well so far. Thank-you for your post, Diane

    Comfort in numbers
    Welcome to the awful little club nobody wants to join, Diane. It's good to hear that you are holding up well under the chemo and hopefully you will keep us all updated on your progress in the fight against the beast. There are quite a few TN ladies here, including my beloved Moopy, so if you have any questions do not hesitate to ask away!

    Best,
    Joe
  • marycurbelo1204
    marycurbelo1204 Member Posts: 73
    Skeezie said:

    Hi Blessing, I was dx with triple neg bc in July 09. Stage 2, tumor grade 3. Lymph nodes clear, had a simple mastectomy and the pathology report came back absolutely no cancer cells in the breast tissue. I just completed 4 cycles of Cytoxin/Taxotere 12-11. Becasue of my pathology report I do not have to have rads. Initially I was terrified by the triple neg but not anymore. Chemo loves aggressive tumors and works well. There is research being done but it's for more advanced cases which gives me hope should this recur.
    Don't let all the negative talk about triple neg bc freak you out. Google it in and you'll find tons if info on it. My onc was and is very upbeat about it. There is a Triple Neg BC website but I found most everyone to be very negative and not at all supportive like this wonderful website.
    My onc said I have a 15% chance of recurrance and I just am going to live my life and not worry that triple neg bc is "so much worse". Educate yourself about it and you'll feel so much better. I know I certainly do. We are all in this together and we are lucky to be surrounded with such great support.

    Hugs, Judy :-)

    Hi

    You wrote this in 2009... How are you doing in 2014?  I am also Stage 2, Invasive Metastatic TNBC with clear lymph nodes.  Just finished a round of chemo 3 months ago.  It's agonizing to wait 6 months to find out if I have any other type of cancer.  I AM HORRIFYINGLY SCARED....

     

    How are you feeling, is everything allright with you?

     

    Mary, Orlando, FL

  • DebbyB
    DebbyB Member Posts: 86

    Hi

    You wrote this in 2009... How are you doing in 2014?  I am also Stage 2, Invasive Metastatic TNBC with clear lymph nodes.  Just finished a round of chemo 3 months ago.  It's agonizing to wait 6 months to find out if I have any other type of cancer.  I AM HORRIFYINGLY SCARED....

     

    How are you feeling, is everything allright with you?

     

    Mary, Orlando, FL

    Hi Mary

    I am also TNBC.  Please, do not scare yourself. There are plenty of survivors of TNBC and once you get to the 5 year mark, your chance of recurrence is the same as any other type of cancer. Keep active. Cancer loves stress, so work on allowing yourself to relax and enjoy the now.  We don't have an expiration date, right?  While we all have something in common, we still have parts of our experience that is unique to us.  All we all have is today, try not to future trip and lose today. Take time to enjoy your family and friends and count blessings. Everyday when I wake up I write down at least one thing I am grateful for.  Helps to keep me in today. 

    A friend made me a God box.  When I have something happen I am unable to let go of or am unable to control, I write it down and put it in my God box.  It helps.  Faith over fear.

    Love and Hugs, Deb

  • sdunlap12
    sdunlap12 Member Posts: 2

    Hi cabbott
    Thanks ever so much for telling me about your friend. It is very encouraging to hear stories like yours and your frend's. Many of the articles on the internet on triple negative is quite discouraging but like your friend said, so also my doctor, chemo and radiation works on this type of breast cancer. Thanks once again for taking the time to encourage me on my battle. Congratulation to you for overcoming the beast and remain blessed in the Lord.

    Praise God

    I had a partial masecptomy with no signs of spreading to the lymp nodes, stage 1 and I have to do 6 rounds of chemo for 18 weeks. I changed my eating habits I just hope I have a great survival rate.

  • sdunlap12
    sdunlap12 Member Posts: 2
    coug90 said:

    I was dx with triple negative breast cancer in December 04. At the time my doctors described it as this gansta standing across the street wearing leather and chains... kind of a scary metaphor! But I've been in remission for 3 years now. Please feel free to contact me with any questions - I'll try to answer them for you. I also blogged my journey on my personal page - Coug90.

    God Bless,
    Sharon

    God bless you my sister

    I had a partial masecptomy with no signs of spreading to the lymp nodes, stage 1 and I have to do 6 rounds of chemo for 18 weeks. I changed my eating habits I just hope I have a great survival rate.If you could reachout to me my email is sdunlap12@gmail.com

  • GlowMore
    GlowMore Member Posts: 789 Member
    sdunlap12 said:

    Praise God

    I had a partial masecptomy with no signs of spreading to the lymp nodes, stage 1 and I have to do 6 rounds of chemo for 18 weeks. I changed my eating habits I just hope I have a great survival rate.

    This is for sdunlap12**

    Hey Girl............I see you are new and I'm sorry to have to welcome you to this place.  You have posted on a very old post from years ago.... I did that when I first got on here too.  Thank you very much for filling out your Home Page for us so we can know what you are going through.   You are in the right place and you are NOT ALONE*...  I'm Triple Negative too........and I'm still here...but I was a lot older than you when it struck me.........it looks like you are doing all the right things and that they are moving quickly on it for you.  Sending you prayers for strength and courage and keep letting us know how you are doing.  You can start a new thread anytime you please on here....there are many women posting and all of them understand**  Glo

  • Treecy1106
    Treecy1106 Member Posts: 144
    Hi Blessings

    My name is Patrice and I was diagnosed with TNBC in March of 2011. I had 4 tumors in left breast two which were 2.6 and 2.2 which where cancer IDC. The right breast had LCIS and I also has some cells underneath my right arm. I had a bilateral mastectomy. I was staged at 2A because of no lymph node involvement. I am fine. Its been over 4 years. I changed my diet...I eat greens everyday and keep my body alkaline. Also I take 5,000 iu's of vutamin D3. Most of the girls diagnosed haave low vitamin D. Ask your Dr to check it for you. Good luck and be happy :) Get in touch if you need to talk. I will forward my number.

     

    XOXO

    Patrice

  • Loopy_Linda
    Loopy_Linda Member Posts: 3
    edited April 2018 #58
    coug90 said:

    I was dx with triple negative breast cancer in December 04. At the time my doctors described it as this gansta standing across the street wearing leather and chains... kind of a scary metaphor! But I've been in remission for 3 years now. Please feel free to contact me with any questions - I'll try to answer them for you. I also blogged my journey on my personal page - Coug90.

    God Bless,
    Sharon

    Triple Negative

    Hi there,

     

    My mom was recently diagnosed with triple negative. I am wondering what form of treatment you had an how you knew it was in remission? Do you go through chemo/radiation and then they do some sort of full body scan to know if there is cancer they can see and then get the "remission" status.

     

    Congrats on being in remission by the way! Do you mind if I ask if you still fear the "gangsta across the street?"

  • Loopy_Linda
    Loopy_Linda Member Posts: 3
    Mama G said:

    Just wondering how you all are doing now?
    My sister just lost her battle with triple negative after 3 1/2 years of fighting for her life. However, now that I look back I wonder why they didn't keep giving her the chemo since it was working so very well for her! She was tired of it and asked for a break, at that point the cancer took over.
    Has anything new been found to help with this?

    Sorry for your loss.

    Sorry for your loss.